Erin

I know it is part of the story, but how did they decide which one to lock in place?

So does that mean his sister has one too?

Yes lol.

I am so confused reading peoples comments when I’m only on episode eight I thought the sister’s name was Qi Yan Ran. Even in episode eight when he got whipped, and his eyes glowed and it was like he woke up with somebody else, and he even said don’t worry. Qian it wasn’t your fault. So then who is Yan?

Since it’s so popular, I really hope this means it’ll get a second season so we can see their first lives together

i am bit curious then as to what the current Yai does? does he own the house that Jom is renovating?

is there an explanation as to why is pictures in the newspaper? is it because the accident?

So, with the fact that the literal monk just told the dad and uncle that they were destined to meet him and maybe it’s the fear of the change in the household? But then he still was like in the next episode episode nine is going to set the engagement and the ceremony and tell Jom to break it off even though he now knows that it was destiny that they meet? I mean you think if they believe in that kind of stuff by getting advice from the monk that he would know that he shouldn’t interfere with fate lol

I mean, since this is the only timeline we have right now there just seems to be certain connecting points like when he goes out of his way to redraw those pictures and then he has like interconnecting memories of him being in that house as his future self.

So I have a question then, for anyone who’s read the novel I just assumed that he was like in a coma or some thing, and that his spirit was wondering and that’s how he ended up in the past or interacting with past memories. So is he in a coma or something like that in the novel?

I’ve made assumptions that if the current incarnation of Yai who remembers him and remembers their memories. Then he would know who Jen was, and that’s why he hired him as an architect because he would want to draw him to the house in the hopes that Jom would remember their lives together. Maybe he didn’t anticipate you know Jon’s partner cheating on him and then the car accident after that? Oh this is just my guessing though.

I think it was more implied in episode seven when the fathers, male servant came to talk to him at the front and update him on how everything was going in to see if you needed anything else. Everybody just kind of stopped, and was standing there awkwardly like they knew something was going on between them

What do you mean he was a mistake? Also, I’m kind of interested between the novel that show him being tied to the house, and how whenever he re-create certain events, like the drawings in the past his memories of the past clash with the future or intersect, reminding him almost said he has a future to go back to?

Yeah I don't know what his up with his parents to be honest like his dad doesn't seem to care about his mom at all and I don't understand why they never thought of getting a divorce. Two complete strangers living in a household like you can see she wants to put effort in to make their relationship work but asking him to do stuff and he just totally doesn't care.

So I need a reminder do the parents or his mom talk about the curse at all?

She was never a black magic practitioner and she even told the male lead that in the past that the concubine wanted her to practice a curse but dhe couldn't go through with it. She never has actually said that the second book was hers. I actually think it belongs to the gardner.

I also find it ironic that nothing had happened between him and the female lead and yet they were being accused of cheating and the second female physically assaults the female lead but all the while the second female has been cheating on him with someone else for a while. And she even has a history of doing it considering there was that guy in high school that she accused the female lead of trying to steal when it appears that he didn't even like her. So seems like she has a history of going after guys that she can't have

Why did you say that they were both dying? he wasn't dying obviously because he lived long enough to have a child so the curse was passed down

I wouldn't say she giggles like a 10-year-old girl, that it's a Trope though to make the female leads act all giggling cute around the person that they like.

I will say that she definitely has confidence issues which makes her a bit of a doormat. Kind of don't blame her for that because she grew up without a mother and her dad died when she was still a teen leaving her an orphan. She definitely didn't have a good judgment when it came to people as you can tell she because people that she thought were her friends were really just bullies and led to toxic relationships. I know what it's like when even your friend group constantly puts you down leading to self-worth issues and it's really hard to stand up for yourself so I don't blame her for being insecure. Even when the mail lead like mocks her about how she's so happy when someone shows her a little bit of attention and kindness she tells him because nobody's ever treated her kindly except for her dad. Oh

So Also was wondering about this and it wasn't really explained so, my two thoughts are that

1) when you get married and your wife has a son the curse automatically passes on to the son so that the father is no longer cursed. That's why his dad doesn't appear ill or affected by the curse. This also makes me or if because it hasn't really been mentioned the man and his family tend to marry Young in order to pass the curse along as soon as possible? But this is just my assumption because obviously it really hasn't gone into it too much.

2) the other thing that I thought of was and I'm not sure whether this is less believable or not is that the curse actually comes from the mother side of the family and that's why the dad isn't affected because he married into the family. But I found this less believable only because the mother didn't know he was sick because they kept it from.

Me too lol

Think it was that he learned from a very early age that women were not to be respected. They were easily used and discarded like even the one I guess mitigating influence that he had for a while was easily gotten rid of because she was going to be exiled but took her own life instead. His parents Didn't treat each other well with their constant fighting and stuff. Then he was deceived by his wife and her family which I think further compounding to him that women were useless.

I didn't think that it was an interesting reflection that he didn't pick up on about their society because his wife was deceived by her cousin which is why her parents wanted to marry her off quickly. And then he was doing the exact same thing his wife's cousin had done to her to the other girls in his embroidery School... was an interesting way to reflect Joe that's the way the society treated women at the time

Yes