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If truth was decided by money the situation shouldn't have exalted this far 🤦 - Poor, naive, gullible, young girls? Who?
The point of the discussion is not gender but rather the situation itself, Forget it it's an unending argument.

I'm simply stating facts based on current situation on the controversy - I personally am not very huge fan of actor himself but even a blind can see how unfair the situation is to actor when nothing is even proved - I cannot judge simply based on my feelings but at the same time I don't want him to be accused simply because people "think" or "feel" something about the situation - let evidence do the talking and court make the decision - don't be a bad person for no good reason - You are mother of two so tell me if it was being done to your kids how would you feel?

Nothing in this post or comment section is hurting my feelings, but you haters ignorance is nothing but laughable.
- Also if accusing someone for their morality and integrity without any evidence is your "you don't understand not nice" then I wonder how far you can fall? Perhaps look in the mirror and question yourself as a human being.

We are going off track here, Their talking to each other wasn't result of this outcome - You cannot blame everything that happened to the actress on one actor for just exchanging layers - She made mistakes and destroyed her own life - She was even married to someone so I don't think there should have been any relationship between the two actors after where they ended it - How exactly are her adult self's mistakes has anything to do with her younger self's exchanging letters? We should understand that Actor's accusations for dating a minor and her debt in millions and suicide are not relatable in any way ( Won't you call the actress clingy in this situation? ) Again stop seeing adult her as teenager her 🤦.

You are certainly not being nice - All I can see is hatred - Hypocrite.

Even as a parent I should give my children freedom to write letters to his/her seniors who works in same work field as them and who he/she considers their idol as long as it is a safe conversation, I don't see there's anything wrong with making connections - Parents shall monitor their kids but not restrict them. Also it my wife/Gf is talking to minor Girl/Boy I would simply have a conversation with them about the context (Not blame them for infidelity) - Also people should have their personal space 🤦 Why is this a conversation - I understand your healthy morality but blaming someone just for writing letters ( Not even messages but letters? ). Letters are not encrypted and can be monitored so you tell me would you anything illegal using letters with your own handwriting?

On what basis does your confidence come from, Just if someone accused is not guilty and evidence provided by family and youtubers was proved fabricated,
Do you even understand what the word grooming means? - If nothing is proved he is innocent and you can choose to hate him but your blind hate doesn't make you right.

Dear, Life is worth living through every happy and painful moments - It is but a fleeting moment and it shall pass no matter how difficult and hard it is so please never make that choice - If in worst scenario there's no one talk just speak to a stranger like me but don't make that choice.

Again that's what I mean that we cannot understand the reason behind her suicide - Her debt was in millions so we cannot be certain why she chose that moment ( I had hoped she could have lived even through hardship and she had found a new life but past mistakes clung to her also haters didnt let her breath) - it's tough world we live in and honestly no one is not suffering.

As far as I'm aware, It was deceased who initiated any type of contact - Your life choices based on hypothesis and assumptions are far more dangerous not only to yourself but those around you, I suggest checking facts and credible evidence before accusing anyone - If you open your eyes and actually see it's been actress who has been taking from him even after her death, Ofcourse if he is proven guilty he should face consequences by law but before that ? If proved innocent the irreversible damage can not be undone. If hate is fair and reasonable than I can understand but it's totally sentiments and emotions or pure hatred just the sake of hating ( There are no justice here just public playing with both actors life ( alive or dead ).

Even the low life like you won't admit to something you didn't commit , Or would you just accept everything as an innocent because alot of haters want you to just admit to the crimes? Even when the evidence they have provided is fabricated and fake but who cares about the evidence?

Are you perhaps a lawyer? Or are you saying that those lawyer's, courts and Korean law are bunch of idiots? Are cases solved by your emotions on the situation? - Funny that you are questioning the lawyer's integrity and ignoring everything aside from the word "personal dairy".

Global fan? Since of when are you representive of Global fan base? And how exactly is it creepy? Age gap of 4-9 years is a common thing if both are adult, Who are you to question their choices? Why it's being to prove that she was adult is the thin line between legal and illigal. A opinion to pass your time and "You think" scenario's are someone's life - Haters like you had already killed the poor soul and still using her to killing other ( Their debate aside, that was not the reason for her suicide and every hater is miss tracked on where this all begin just goes to prove that none of you actually care about her ).

So does blind hatred, But if not credible doesn't make him criminal without any proof either - I would stay away from my ex too if her now messy life is dragging me down with her too. How many of your ex do you still talk to? Now tell me why are you passionately hating him?

It's upto you to decide that committing suicide on his birthday was her hate for him, love for him or simple obsession - it's a messy fight if we go that route or She simply wanted to seen and not just disappear ( Maybe it was a message to actor only and not for everyone else ) - but everyone thought it was her accusing him because someone else who didn't do the suicide led it to that way. It's not a proof because everyone can think of their own version on the situation.

Disgusting is your approach to the situation led by blind emotions even when there is no evidence to prove but just accusations, It's funny how easy it is to use public sentiment, The hate is so blind that even when accused evidence is being proved facke the haters keeps hating without questioning anything at all. " Oh, She is minor - who needs proof we are angry" ?.

If that girl wanted to tell you something she should have done so when was alive 🤦.
It's not like social media would let her voice die? What actually killed her were so called haters who never cares about actual facts but just see the controversy as source of entertainment. She went through tough times but the one accusing others isn't her.
Hundreds must have died on your birthday? What's the story?

Shouldn't it be normal as an actor to talk with other actors?
I can't believe why is it even need to be explained?
Do you have such fragile relationships? Does mistrust run in your blood? If you find him texting than you talk to him not assume 🤦 that's the basic of a relationship "conversation".

You need to understand the point, It maint that it's Hypocrite of them to say that what was done was wrong but they are shameless about it because everything is a made up lie on their part, They are in for the money so they are trying to extort any way possible - other fact is that the said relationship played no part in deceased's death - they never cared about their daughter so they are not hesitant to make lies about her. Wrong is wrong in every way possible but one should only be punished for their done wrongs only but nothing else and see what's happening? It costed the actor everything when nothing was even proved. Can the damage be reversed if he is proven innocent?

I guess it is still worth giving a try - I will try a few episodes and then decide if I want to continue or not.

I know dear, I have been watching Cdramas for a long time now, I'm saying 12-15 episodes ( 45+ mins ) cdrama are executed way better and too the point in comparison to longer ones but ofcourse I enjoy all the versions ( Except for short short ones ).