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That is great! Thanks for making me laugh after today’s episode.

Amen!!

True. But I wish he’d have said don’t make me make the choice because it will YD now and YD in the future.

I finally made it all the way thru this episode. I kept having to pause before I could go on to the next heart breaking scene, so this subject, I’m sure, has been talked about several times below in other posts but I wasn’t patient enough to keep looking…so I apologize now if this is the 999th post on the same subject.

This whole episode today was so hypocritical. How did mother hide her true colors and play the nice, calm, serene, sweet, always loving mother, all these years? I completely get that she is disappointed and angry at both of them but when her husband, who also threw a tantrum, had time to think on it, he accepted it and boldly says to her that she’s treating YD just like his mother treated her and she said “so should we just let this pass”, or something like that, and at that moment he should have stood up and “yes, we should”. But the queen of all bitches turns on him and spits out things, that obviously, she has held inside her true bitch self all these years to him.

What made me the angriest were the siblings reactions. The oldest brother’s attitude when he himself, is trying to get his wife pregnant by using another man’s sperm, floored me. The middle sister and HW have lied thru their teeth about their marriage for who knows how long, but no one in the family knows other than mommy dearest…hmmm… didn’t she tell her hubby that he should have told her about Real not being TK’s, but then SHE is not telling hubby dear what she know about the daughter’s marriage. Lastly, the baby daughter is lusting after her ex, Jay’s, mirror image look alike, except for the pitiful blonde highlights here and there that Jay had in his hair, knowing Jay #2 has a daughter that won’t be related by blood to that nasty family if she keeps chasing him and he continues to let her catch him and they end up together. But she is mad at YD and TK for actually being married and committed to each other and the fact TK is willing to take on the responsibility of being a father to a baby that isn’t his, because they lied? Isn’t she trying to do the same thing with YD’s brother, Jay #2? Or is she sticking to her plan of not getting married and having kids and will eventually drop both of them when she gets tired of them? She just wants to play like an adult with Jay #2 while she has to play children’s games and pretend she likes it with Jay #2’s daughter.

Somehow in mommy dearest’s mind she has justified to herself that it is okay that her husband committed to raise her son, that was not his by blood, in a loving marriage but it’s not okay for TK to do the same? Only difference is that she brought a grown boy and not a fetus.

I believe there will be huge repercussions for the tirade, temper tantrum mother dearest threw against not only YD and TK but also her own husband when it’s known that she herself is keeping a secret from hubby about middle daughter’s marriage. I think this will make the chance of youngest daughter and Jay #2 ever having a relationship slim to none because he will be pissed when he finds out she is part of the family that threw YD and Real out like a sack of trash.

Lastly, has satan’s spawn, JH, ever heard of cutting off ones nose to spite one’s face? If he tells daddy-o, the chairman, that YD’s baby is his, does he really think the chairman will continue doing business with him? And the way he talks about YD and Real being given to him, like they are dang pets he wants to adopt, is wearing on my last nerve. I hope someone rats him out soon and he has to go back to the US with his tail tucked between his legs, UNEMPLOYED. And fake acting Crazy Jang gets what she deserves in life which is nothing and she will grow old by herself (hopefully in a psych hospital or prison) miserable.

Rant over!!

I keep thinking how has she hid this biatch attitude until now and pretended to be such a loving and kind person and acted like she so wanted to be loved by the 3 children that HER husband brought into their marriage that were not hers. She is worse than grandma has ever thought about being. What she said to her husband was horrible and she certainly shouldn’t be the “the most beautiful woman” he has ever seen now that her true colors are being waved around.

And I feel like SJ will be her mother’s mini me in how she treats people. I mean look at how she has treated her own daughter for the last 10 years by not letting any of them know she was alive and well, to tell KS to divorce her, and do not look for her because she isn’t every coming back.

You feel the same pain I do when I know she is going to be in a scene. I know she was supposed to act like she was devastated and their customs surrounding death and how they express grief are a lot different than what ours in the US, I totally get that, but one banshee scream inside the house was all that she needed. I could take the one at the river because it had the whole world to escape in to so it made it not so loud on my tv. I said in another post that I literally turned the sound down on my tv for fear my neighbors in the apartments next to me would think I was being killed if they even heard half the decibels she was putting out thru the walls connecting our apartments. That faint…that should go down as the worst faint in the history of fake faints. Then when KS carried her in and laid her on the bed and she kept mumbling about her “baby SJ” while she was still in the moments after a dead faint? Oh please, give me a break. I think the one thing that bothered me most is she turned that whole situation into being about her, not caring her daughter, who is SJ’s baby sister, is sitting beside her just as upset but has to put her pain on hold so she can help her mother endure the shock and grief by not letting her dramatically beat herself on the chest and the table while breaking eardrums with those high pitched screams. I have come to the conclusion that MIL is bat-sh** crazy and proud of it.
My most hated and hurtful moment was when mother and daughter let JD, a child, run out the door, devastated, into the dark of night and neither one was concerned in the least after about the few first seconds when auntie was trying to decide who needed her most and chose her mother. It was like, oh well she’s running away so we will just have to wait to console her when she decides to come back home. Seriously people? They both are supposedly mature adults. Their first concern, when they heard the news, should have been JD’s reaction and put theirs on hold since JD is still basically a child.
I am hoping her grief passes quickly but she will continue her bad behavior because as I said she’s bat sh** crazy and they let her get away with flying off the handle first only to have her beg forgiveness later. But knowing that when SJ is forced to come home the screaming and dramatics will get worse than ever again, is a day of dread for me so I feel feel sorry for all those who will be standing around her enclosed in a studio. 😬

I am not one to complain on these forums but yesterday’s episode got the best of me and I had to let it out. I tried to make parts of my rant funny so I didn’t sound like a horrible person that nit-picks every time an episode is on. I do get tired of the behavior of more than MIL and usually have something evil to say when HR, auntie, SS, the Diablo Duo, and SD behavior gets to be too much from time to time but I love this forum because we can pretty much say what we think and if somebody disagrees, they state their opinion but nobody is ever rude to anyone else. I like when people, put their view of something I’ve said and I’m like yeah, that makes so much more sense than the way I was thinking. 🙂 I watch one show that I’m almost afraid to put a post on the forum because there are certain ones in that group that will come at you and it’s not fun.

Awesome, I will check that out.

When she abandoned KS and JD.

I loved when she went to the side dish store and realized MIL was upset and did her best to cheer her up. Also, I always wonder when she is dipping that dish that looks like green onions or cabbage into those dishes to sell, do they not use a scale to make sure they all have even amounts? Just one of those moments that my mind wanders around to stupid things. 🙄

I look for JP to finally acknowledge to his friends he is friends with JD now too and they need to back off. He is so cute when he gets kind of shy acting when she is talking to him now. 💖

Maybe I should try that myself. 😂

I made the following observations of MIL while she was writhing in anguish because her daughter committed suicide. She was hanging on to KS for dear life while he is trying to hand SJ’s items over to his SIL. While he is trying to pass the items MIL stares at them with her mouth hanging open and starts making these gutteral noises that sound more like she bearing down to push out 💩 than upset or possibly it the demon that possesses her trying to speak to them and is getting ready to make her projectile vomit. (sorry a throwback to original The Exorcist if you are too young or you’ve never seen it)😂😂😂 To me this actor gets a little worse every episode. I literally had to turn the sound down on my tv when she was screaming like a banshee because it hurt my ears. But yet again banshee screams are harbingers of death so maybe that too was the demon inside her screaming out. And can someone tell me why her mouth had to hang open during the whole scene? Is that good acting and I just didn’t recognize it as such? I am just so tired of her.
Rant over.

My last thought of the night. I think MIL saw SJ’s being a professional dancer as her meal ticket out of the poverty that she herself chose to let them because all she did was run that side dish store which wasn’t making much money at the time. I think her plan was as soon as SJ was settled and bringing in a healthy paycheck she couldn’t get there fast enough and she wouldn’t have any qualms about leaving the others. She was going to live in the lap of luxury and screw the others. That is why I think she has held that grudge against KS all these years because SJ and he argues and he left her in the middle of a temper tantrum to get JD away from seeing her mother like that but MIL thinks her two oldest are perfect but no so much the youngest.

Womdered the exact same thing since she pretty much just left with the clothes on her back. Because of so little money that KS could provide I still find it hard to believe she had a brand new wallet. Just fishy to me.

Always

I said earlier that it was sad that a 15 year old JD was more mature than her grandmother at that service. Can someone tell me what all that screaming is for? My mom lost her oldest daughter and she sat and wept quietly.

They’ve buried the old model that they have their memories with, so now we just wait until the new model arrives all shiny and bright.

I was really waiting for her to stand up and do a happy dance now that he is supposedly completely free. Even if she is trying to stake her claim before he finds someone he actually wants to be with, for his and Jandi’s sake she needs to back off until they have time to get their heads wrapped around this whole crazy situation and clear their heads after without interference. There she is already trying to get him to drink tea with them but he says another time so she will be ready to pounce every time he walks in to get JD again. Here we have loud and brash HR vs quiet and goes with him just to quietly offer moral support and let him know he has a friend MR. He has no interest in HR and no matter how many times he tells her he always ends up saying something that gives her hope again. grrr

I’m thankful for him to have two men that are mature to care for him now, especially DH. Just realized he will be DH’s son in law and even if ding Dong ends up his MIL KS will think he’s died and gone to heaven by how much different he is treated in their in-law family.

Good question. i need to find that too because you’ve got me curious now.