Agreed. I wanted more groveling too from ML. I also disliked that the FL was just 15 yrs. old. Who has clarity…
Yes. You are right. The girl were still very young when Zisheng proposed to her. Even this girl does not understand what love is because of her background as a child who grew up lacking affection and for almost 15 years of her life she has not had any life experience about love or knows what it feels like to be loved. But this did not stop their love story.
Although initially both parties were faced with an adaptation process that was not instant and not easy, up and down, and tortuous. Love itself takes root along with they growth and development their character. How the complexity of conflicts, dilemmas, and separations that occurred repeatedly tests the love of the two, revealing the deeper bonds and destiny between them. At which point in the end brought the couple's views of both to the real meaning to the life of a husband and wife as union. Walk side by side, hand in hand happily together.
For me personally, the story of yishang fufu is a dramatic and thematic reflection of the journey of a love relationship between two human beings who are both perceive as realistic personage, to what end is full of motivation and moral components inside it. By the romantic slowburn packaging that is presented makes every detail of the moment from this story sense more sweetable, alluring, intense, realistic and amazle deeply to enjoy. 💜💚
I am watching ep 33 rn and wondering how more dumb the fl can be?
For the size of a 15th years old kid, I think FL is quite smart. She even had more advanced of mathematical logic intelligence and spatial intelligence.
I have seen many cold male leads in a lot of cdrama, kdrama and jdrama. But I want to say that Ling Bu Yi is the…
His wooden expression is really iconic and memorable deeply. Overall the appearance exudes of domineering aura towards his enemies. Cold, authoritative, and deathly 🔥
Good Lord, CSS does hold grudges lol, mainly grudges against her parents (her mom specifically) & HBY. Ep 51 proves…
I think what Ling Buyi did to Ling Yi, that's what is fitting to be called grudge.
As for what Shaoshang did by withdrawing from the bethrotal, I think it would be more appropriate to call it disappointment.
As for Shaoshang's decision to accompany empress Xuan, it is coz of her obligation and devotion to person who have contributed to educating Shaoshang and pouring out sincere love for her.
I guess this CP just happens to have the same taste in furniture, and coincidentally the staff who set up their studio also have the same taste, it also happens that they use endorsed products from the same brand 🤞🙄 🤫🤭😅😂🤣🤣❤
Yeah but our girl didn’t walk the talk sadly….. she couldn’t forget the “bad” stuff NHY did to her….
Yep, I feel it's like sharp satire on a refreshing packaging for easier acceptance.
And what amazes me is as if this sends a message to us that in a friendly relationship, or between partners, it will be healthier if we want to learn to see from the perspective of other individuals as well.
Dominating and dictating other individuals whatever its form is not kindness, but ego. There is not a single individual I think, in this world who wants to live for always have feeling indebted.
By helping each other, individuals will feel meaningful of reciprocally. By being open to each other, individuals will learn to give one another mutual trust.
Yeah but our girl didn’t walk the talk sadly….. she couldn’t forget the “bad” stuff NHY did to her….
If he really felt the need to say something then could it be that it was necessary to wait until 5 years later? Who can stand in the way of a Ling Bu Yi when he was decided to wants something? I just felt that at that time LBY had not really realized his biggest point of fault. After 5 years of separation, I saw LBY begin to realize what it means to live without the person who his love. And maybe he's also starting to see things not only from himself point of view but also from the point of view of shaoshang as his partner.
During the LJT incident, in the scene where HBY and Shaoshang fell into the abyss. Shaoshang says just let me go, you will survive by going upstairs. Then HBY replied, if you die then I will die too (Isn't this actually the same thing as what shaoshang did 5 years ago, trying hard to save HBY no matter what the risk).
Likewise, when the WYJ incident at the bunker, Shaoshang reprimanded HBY, if you already knew this was a trap why did you enter? are you stupid? And HBY replied, if you have done stupid things too often, you will not feel stupid anymore.
Yeah but our girl didn’t walk the talk sadly….. she couldn’t forget the “bad” stuff NHY did to her….
To the 3rd prince shaoshang said that the person she likes the most in this world is HBY, and if she can't save him, then shaoshang will also accompany him to die. And then shaoshang went to the palace to clean up all the mess related to HBY.
But when Empress Xuan asked whether HBY had intended to leave Shaoshang from the start? HBY answered yes. And after being asked several times, HBY's answer remained the same that he did not regret abandoned Shaoshang.
From all this I can understand why shaoshang can't continue her relationship with HBY as a couple anymore. Her love is never faded. But she also know the fact, that before HBY himself realized that abandoned shaoshang and not placing the same trust in this girl as his life partner was a mistake that needed to be corrected, then in the future it would be impossible for him and shaoshang to harmony walk together side by side.
Yeah but our girl didn’t walk the talk sadly….. she couldn’t forget the “bad” stuff NHY did to her….
Sorry, because I'm a bit confused about what you mean. When it comes to HBY probably what you mean is the context of Forgiveness.
For the context of forgiveness itself, we should look back at what the definition of forgiveness is. From what I know, forgiveness is generally defined as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness.
Forgiveness means that when you forgive, you do not gloss over or deny the seriousness of an offense against you. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean condoning or excusing offenses. Though forgiveness can help repair a damaged relationship, it doesn't obligate you to reconcile with the person who harmed you, or release them from legal accountability.
Instead, forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and frees him or her from corrosive anger. True forgiveness at least involves letting go of deeply held negative feelings. In that way, it empowers you to recognize the pain you suffered without letting that pain define you, enabling you to heal and move on with your life.
I took the quote above from the 54th episode, after it shaoshang spoke frankly to YS that she couldn't give YS what she wanted (to be a partner for YS). Here I see that Shaoshang doesn't let her pain from past relationships affect important decisions for her future. And after that when she met HBY in the bunker who had realized all his mistakes, Shaoshang finally letting go of her deeply held negative feelings to HBY.
"From now, i'll move on from the past. I won't get bothered by people who hate me and dislike me. Instead, I'll always remember the people who like me and take good care of me. When i'm reminded of them, i'll have the courage to keep living. We should always look on the bright side. There's still a long way to go. This is what i should do to live a good life".~ Shaoshang
These words deeply was immersed and really influence my mindset. I hope just like shaoshang, whatever the situation is... whatever the condition is... in the end everyone will learn to be happy always. ❤✌😁👍❤
I think here we can take an awesome quote: When you really love someone, age, distance, height, weight is just a damn number. ✌☺
And my favorite quote from this drama is;
“If the heaven is fair, it won’t separate two lovers.”
“In this life, Zisheng will marry nobody else but her (Shaoshang).”
💚🫶🏻💜
Although initially both parties were faced with an adaptation process that was not instant and not easy, up and down, and tortuous. Love itself takes root along with they growth and development their character. How the complexity of conflicts, dilemmas, and separations that occurred repeatedly tests the love of the two, revealing the deeper bonds and destiny between them. At which point in the end brought the couple's views of both to the real meaning to the life of a husband and wife as union. Walk side by side, hand in hand happily together.
For me personally, the story of yishang fufu is a dramatic and thematic reflection of the journey of a love relationship between two human beings who are both perceive as realistic personage, to what end is full of motivation and moral components inside it.
By the romantic slowburn packaging that is presented makes every detail of the moment from this story sense more sweetable, alluring, intense, realistic and amazle deeply to enjoy.
💜💚
Heeelllppp...✌😭 🫶🏻 😭❤
🤣🤣🤣
https://twitter.com/tiara_ara040305/status/1574971402855518209?s=20&t=9bjj3EOX-HiGoPOxvBc64Q
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https://baike.baidu.com/item/%E7%8E%8B%E9%9B%85%E4%BD%B3/61707161
As for what Shaoshang did by withdrawing from the bethrotal, I think it would be more appropriate to call it disappointment.
As for Shaoshang's decision to accompany empress Xuan, it is coz of her obligation and devotion to person who have contributed to educating Shaoshang and pouring out sincere love for her.
I guess this CP just happens to have the same taste in furniture, and coincidentally the staff who set up their studio also have the same taste, it also happens that they use endorsed products from the same brand 🤞🙄
🤫🤭😅😂🤣🤣❤
https://twitter.com/Rosylusi123/status/1563773147773427712?s=20&t=JElEhO7pWRW_EZVt01wdAg
And what amazes me is as if this sends a message to us that in a friendly relationship, or between partners, it will be healthier if we want to learn to see from the perspective of other individuals as well.
Dominating and dictating other individuals whatever its form is not kindness, but ego. There is not a single individual I think, in this world who wants to live for always have feeling indebted.
By helping each other, individuals will feel meaningful of reciprocally.
By being open to each other, individuals will learn to give one another mutual trust.
I just felt that at that time LBY had not really realized his biggest point of fault. After 5 years of separation, I saw LBY begin to realize what it means to live without the person who his love. And maybe he's also starting to see things not only from himself point of view but also from the point of view of shaoshang as his partner.
During the LJT incident, in the scene where HBY and Shaoshang fell into the abyss. Shaoshang says just let me go, you will survive by going upstairs. Then HBY replied, if you die then I will die too (Isn't this actually the same thing as what shaoshang did 5 years ago, trying hard to save HBY no matter what the risk).
Likewise, when the WYJ incident at the bunker, Shaoshang reprimanded HBY, if you already knew this was a trap why did you enter? are you stupid? And HBY replied, if you have done stupid things too often, you will not feel stupid anymore.
But when Empress Xuan asked whether HBY had intended to leave Shaoshang from the start? HBY answered yes. And after being asked several times, HBY's answer remained the same that he did not regret abandoned Shaoshang.
From all this I can understand why shaoshang can't continue her relationship with HBY as a couple anymore. Her love is never faded. But she also know the fact, that before HBY himself realized that abandoned shaoshang and not placing the same trust in this girl as his life partner was a mistake that needed to be corrected, then in the future it would be impossible for him and shaoshang to harmony walk together side by side.
For the context of forgiveness itself, we should look back at what the definition of forgiveness is. From what I know, forgiveness is generally defined as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness.
Forgiveness means that when you forgive, you do not gloss over or deny the seriousness of an offense against you. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean condoning or excusing offenses. Though forgiveness can help repair a damaged relationship, it doesn't obligate you to reconcile with the person who harmed you, or release them from legal accountability.
Instead, forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and frees him or her from corrosive anger. True forgiveness at least involves letting go of deeply held negative feelings. In that way, it empowers you to recognize the pain you suffered without letting that pain define you, enabling you to heal and move on with your life.
I took the quote above from the 54th episode, after it shaoshang spoke frankly to YS that she couldn't give YS what she wanted (to be a partner for YS). Here I see that Shaoshang doesn't let her pain from past relationships affect important decisions for her future. And after that when she met HBY in the bunker who had realized all his mistakes, Shaoshang finally letting go of her deeply held negative feelings to HBY.
These words deeply was immersed and really influence my mindset. I hope just like shaoshang, whatever the situation is... whatever the condition is... in the end everyone will learn to be happy always.
❤✌😁👍❤