Well Nut is kinda Nuts to be honest ... always shouting at everybody, and at everything ... like ugh... chill
Yeah... well he took his mother to therapy soooo you know.. still he could try about his "father" yeah I still would understand if he wouldn't have felt anything about his passing. As Nut said, respect needs to be earned, and I think Sipmuen (the military guy) lost it
in my opinion, you respect your chosen family ( who can also be your family ) , , meaning the people you choose to be your family
Well Nut is kinda Nuts to be honest ... always shouting at everybody, and at everything ... like ugh... chill
I mean, he was seeking help for his sick mother right.... then why not seek help for yourself too.. go to therapy, try to understand your mothers POV, -- that is of course if you want to live in a serene kinda way. - there's nothing better than therapy especially after trauma, and I don’t know if / how he never thought about getting it for himself.
In my opinion his dad's death didn't affect him as it would have if they had a strong bong, but because of the abuse I kinda think he was relieved in a way
Well Nut is kinda Nuts to be honest ... always shouting at everybody, and at everything ... like ugh... chill
ALL DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH WE WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH THIS PERSON AND HOW MUCH WE WANT TO GIVE OURSELVES FOR THIS PERSON - in my humble opinion 🥲
offer help if they don't have it and they ask for it or need it, and see how it goes
- one other thing... Nut is like 27 I think in 2021 OR 2022.. after all that's happened with him has he never googled about trauma or being gay and the what comes with it? I mean .. I feel like every one of us has taken a "AM I GAY?" test if we felt it.. right? - I mean the only thing that he did after his father died was go to work and come home, just a peaceful life ... how come he's neeevvveeeerrr thought about it (as far as we can see here of course)
Well Nut is kinda Nuts to be honest ... always shouting at everybody, and at everything ... like ugh... chill
even I've thought about being a dick .. many many times... heck I love psychological horror movies and I jerk off when the main character takes revenge on the bad guy hahaha jk 👀 but still In regards to Ms. Nah being at fault, I partially agree with that, because even though she didn't do a LOOOT of things right as a parent should dp, which is to protect their child, still Nut isn't talking to her.
- I do have to say that setting boundaries is important. I would have understood if for Nut's mental state sake he would have left and never talked to his mother. I would have respected that 1000 times more than him being a dick - you can constantly blame others and feel miserable or take those emotions and work on yourself, because you cannot control how others feel, only your own emotions. - I would have loved it if after Ms. Nah and Nut had that moment in their old house when she realised that her husband is really gone, they would talk about everything. Maybe it would have been a lot but to be honest it's kinda just i love you and bitch I like dick. and start talking. - It takes two people in their case: it cannot just be Ms. Nah to initiate the talk... if Nut wants his mother to accept him, try and make an effort to start a conversation. That's what I did... I was like Bitch you better sit yo fat ass down and listen to me because we busta have a moment okurrrr gorl. hahaha
again of course I want him to be better... we gay we want each other to heal, that's why I'm just seeing the same pattern over and over to be honest - in the beginning it was justified because STRANGER DANGER. but after knowing Tofu and about amnesia and lack of social queues like: why is you mad dog? chill? getting all jelly macjello make the boys say hello.. TF
Well I'm on ep 13 and it's just bad stuff, apologies, bad stuff, apologies.. like ugh... I looove the life lessons…
well I wasn't apologising... I WAS SAYING WHAT ONE OF THE MAINS DOES hahaha
you didn't like MY RIDE? WHYYY? I LOVED IT TO BE HONEST... it wasn't toxic at all and it was something different, a breath of fresh air to be honest .-- but hey to each their own.
Well Nut is kinda Nuts to be honest ... always shouting at everybody, and at everything ... like ugh... chill
Here's the KEYWORD: everytime : because we're on episode 12 (maybe even 13) and Nut is still moody as hell, despite MULTIPLE as you said yourself, self-realizations and apologies ? where is the growth.. at this point I know that I can't be with a person who yells and shouts at the smallest thing, without stopping and listening first.
Nut was treated badly, and WE DON'T LIKE THOSE kinds OF PEOPLE WHO TREAT PEOPLE BADLY... AM I RIGHT? - NO NOW NUT IS BEING A DICK in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE... do you agree?
AGAIN: he needs to go to a therapist too because he has sooo much trauma and I genuinely sympathize with him because I have been in that situation too, but I never hurt others because I know how it feels. This is what I don't like about the character development, it's that it's almost inexistent or not shown properly. - I'm sad because I wanted him to learn.
- Let's take Song for example. Yes different background and whatever, but the way that he handles situations...even at jealousy: he didn't yell or scream or shout, he talked to Kensit. Maybe he was angry but he didn't explode because of self-control - with his father, Anik, .. he tries to talk things out.. WITHOUT YELLING... (at least as far as I could see in the show)
But here's the point... yes we are people and we handle things differently, but it's been 12 episodes out of 16 and we've seen NUT make mistakes, blame others, yell, scream, shout, and apologize... in a CYCLE ... AS if he's not learning
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and yeah I'm glad Ms. Nah got the help she needed and deserved.
about his "father" yeah I still would understand if he wouldn't have felt anything about his passing. As Nut said, respect needs to be earned, and I think Sipmuen (the military guy) lost it
in my opinion, you respect your chosen family ( who can also be your family ) , , meaning the people you choose to be your family
- there's nothing better than therapy especially after trauma, and I don’t know if / how he never thought about getting it for himself.
In my opinion his dad's death didn't affect him as it would have if they had a strong bong, but because of the abuse I kinda think he was relieved in a way
offer help if they don't have it and they ask for it or need it, and see how it goes
- one other thing... Nut is like 27 I think in 2021 OR 2022.. after all that's happened with him has he never googled about trauma or being gay and the what comes with it? I mean .. I feel like every one of us has taken a "AM I GAY?" test if we felt it.. right?
- I mean the only thing that he did after his father died was go to work and come home, just a peaceful life ... how come he's neeevvveeeerrr thought about it (as far as we can see here of course)
I don’t know what do y'all think?
- would you ever be with Nut if he was acting out lke that?
nooo not my sweetieeee... what will i do now 😉
but still
In regards to Ms. Nah being at fault, I partially agree with that, because even though she didn't do a LOOOT of things right as a parent should dp, which is to protect their child, still Nut isn't talking to her.
- I do have to say that setting boundaries is important. I would have understood if for Nut's mental state sake he would have left and never talked to his mother. I would have respected that 1000 times more than him being a dick
- you can constantly blame others and feel miserable or take those emotions and work on yourself, because you cannot control how others feel, only your own emotions.
- I would have loved it if after Ms. Nah and Nut had that moment in their old house when she realised that her husband is really gone, they would talk about everything. Maybe it would have been a lot but to be honest it's kinda just i love you and bitch I like dick. and start talking.
- It takes two people in their case: it cannot just be Ms. Nah to initiate the talk... if Nut wants his mother to accept him, try and make an effort to start a conversation. That's what I did... I was like Bitch you better sit yo fat ass down and listen to me because we busta have a moment okurrrr gorl. hahaha
again of course I want him to be better... we gay we want each other to heal, that's why I'm just seeing the same pattern over and over to be honest
- in the beginning it was justified because STRANGER DANGER.
but after knowing Tofu and about amnesia and lack of social queues like: why is you mad dog? chill? getting all jelly macjello make the boys say hello.. TF
but yeah.. I hope he gets better
you didn't like MY RIDE? WHYYY? I LOVED IT TO BE HONEST... it wasn't toxic at all and it was something different, a breath of fresh air to be honest .-- but hey to each their own.
Nut was treated badly, and WE DON'T LIKE THOSE kinds OF PEOPLE WHO TREAT PEOPLE BADLY... AM I RIGHT?
- NO NOW NUT IS BEING A DICK in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE... do you agree?
AGAIN: he needs to go to a therapist too because he has sooo much trauma and I genuinely sympathize with him because I have been in that situation too, but I never hurt others because I know how it feels.
This is what I don't like about the character development, it's that it's almost inexistent or not shown properly. - I'm sad because I wanted him to learn.
- Let's take Song for example. Yes different background and whatever, but the way that he handles situations...even at jealousy: he didn't yell or scream or shout, he talked to Kensit. Maybe he was angry but he didn't explode because of self-control
- with his father, Anik, .. he tries to talk things out.. WITHOUT YELLING... (at least as far as I could see in the show)
But here's the point... yes we are people and we handle things differently, but it's been 12 episodes out of 16 and we've seen NUT make mistakes, blame others, yell, scream, shout, and apologize... in a CYCLE ... AS if he's not learning
I wanted a better story-arc for him.