I came across a few douyin saying they’re unable to sympathize with FL and understand her mother instead. They said: Xu Qin lost her parents at a young age, she could have been left in an orphan or on the street with no home, clean clothes and food to eat. However, she was adopted by the Meng family who provided her a home, food, clothes, taught her manners and hygiene, car, house and sent her aboard to get better studies. Meng's family didn’t turn her into a cinderella, instead they gave her a family whose parents and brother loved her. She grew up rich with nothing to worry about. Her mother not wanting her to date with Song Yan is reasonable, he’s poor while she’s rich, one day that financial differences will show. Of course her mother would be mad when her daughter gave up having a chance for a better life for a gangster who doesn't study well and didn’t make it to college. When her mother found out her brother liked her, she didn’t get upset with Xu Qin and treated her badly, but instead told off her own biological son. Her mother disagreed with Xu Qin wanting to become a doctor, but in the end she still allowed her to become a doctor, pull strings and connections for her, and even become a personal driver to Xu Qin’s boss so she could be treated well in the hospital. Her mother didn’t send her to blind dates at a young age, but when she’s in her late 20s. She didn’t send her to blind dates with old men, but similar age men who had a well paid job, same financial status, own house, and well mannered. But none of these can compare to Song Yan’s bowl of porridge that is made from rice brought by Xu Qin. Xu Qin isn’t even her biological daughter, but adopted.
Idk, if I’m brainwashed by them, but I feel like they’re right.
Idk, if I’m brainwashed by them, but I feel like they’re right.