@LilianMei If you wanna say something to me at least let me read your comment before blocking me 😂
You guys just don't like anything not going your way. Look, you blocked me just because i don't like age gaps with someone so young. I'm sure you will understand this once you're 30. Where did I say i don't like BL fans? I literally don't care, I just don't like people being exploited for fantasies. Are you saying you're ok with that?
As long as it is safe, then it's all fine. How many times did I repeat "i'll probably be just fine" for you guys not to be offended?
LOL how was I disrespectful to anyone by posting "The age gap is really too much...". If anything you are the one not respecting my opinion. Btw it's because i'm respectful that i'm worried about the younger actor to begin with.
So now I guess we can only say good things about a drama to not disturb fans uh? No rules here say that I can't be realistic though.
U’r comment on age diff chemistry, but here reasons why both get casted as the characters, CWN& MRAge diff between…
I never said BL fans were young though? I said fans of this drama must be young if they're not bothered by the age gap (I used the term younger audience). The only thing I pointed it out regarding BL fans is how they ship actors after a project, which is completely true. Fanservice events happen all the time. Most of the time it's creepy. This is a huge issue in the BL circle and many actors talked about it. So shipping actors with this age gap is not something I'm comfortable with. Fortunately Chinese actors don't have to go through much fanservices, which is why I said I would probably be fine.
Also what does it has to do with people working or not? I still don't understand what's wrong with being young, why act offended? And I never criticized anyone here, I just gave my opinion as someone older explaining why I'm not comfortable with it. I probably wouldn't have been bothered by this below 28 either.
You’re right; it’s quite icky. But BL fans tend to be quite delulu, so they don’t like paying attention…
I agree that people don't seem to care enough about those age gaps. I passed on so many dramas because of this. Watching a 20 yo with a 30+, no thank you. Many Asian countries (including mine) try to normalize that way too much and i'm really not comfortable with it. Writing fiction is one thing but using real people is another thing.
U’r comment on age diff chemistry, but here reasons why both get casted as the characters, CWN& MRAge diff between…
I kind of grasped that the production wanted to stay true to the novel when people replied. I also understand that fans agree with this choice. But does that mean i can't feel uncomfortable with that? What's in a novel doesn't mean it's right.
You must be young if you think one is mature and the other a "big kid" by giving me perfectly normal hobbies for a 30+. Which actually prove my point. 30+ people would find this weird and if they don't it's probably even weirder tbh. 12 years is a lot below 25.
So yes it has a lot to do with the younger audience and BLs are known to have big age gap in novels.
But thanks for giving more context with your answer, it's appreciated!
I will give it a try anyway, I'm just bothered by that one thing but since it's bromance, it will probably be just fine.
Well- Here we are guys. It's officially over. I enjoyed coming here each week, it was actually my first time participating on a airing drama page. Thank you for the good time and I'm gonna miss L&P like crazy, it's gonna be hard to move on. 💙
not really. Its just 10 years and it is fine. Did you know that even in untamed the new Wei Wuxian and Lan Wangji's…
Of course this is what acting is about, creating an illusion, though from what I saw with BLs, people like to ship actors after a project. It's just weird to me, even more so with a 12 years gap. But thanks for respecting my opinion 😊
not really. Its just 10 years and it is fine. Did you know that even in untamed the new Wei Wuxian and Lan Wangji's…
Sorry i really don't care about stuff like that, i only watch something when it's released lol. I only came across this because I checked Fei Yu future dramas so the same day I wrote my comment- Like I said I understand that you guys don't care about a big age gap and it's fine but I still do 😅
not really. Its just 10 years and it is fine. Did you know that even in untamed the new Wei Wuxian and Lan Wangji's…
Yes of course, i don't care about fictional gap :) It matters regarding their chemistry for instance? I'm 31 and 20 is a kid to me so how do you build chemistry with someone so young compared to you and feel ok about it? That's what I meant. It's my personal opinion of course and I understand that most BL fans don't care about age gap.
not really. Its just 10 years and it is fine. Did you know that even in untamed the new Wei Wuxian and Lan Wangji's…
It's 12 years and 22 is young (probably 20 when filming this), would be different if he was in his late 20s. And for The Untamed it's a fiction, not the real actors gap.
You guys just don't like anything not going your way. Look, you blocked me just because i don't like age gaps with someone so young. I'm sure you will understand this once you're 30. Where did I say i don't like BL fans? I literally don't care, I just don't like people being exploited for fantasies. Are you saying you're ok with that?
As long as it is safe, then it's all fine. How many times did I repeat "i'll probably be just fine" for you guys not to be offended?
LOL how was I disrespectful to anyone by posting "The age gap is really too much...". If anything you are the one not respecting my opinion. Btw it's because i'm respectful that i'm worried about the younger actor to begin with.
So now I guess we can only say good things about a drama to not disturb fans uh? No rules here say that I can't be realistic though.
Also what does it has to do with people working or not? I still don't understand what's wrong with being young, why act offended? And I never criticized anyone here, I just gave my opinion as someone older explaining why I'm not comfortable with it. I probably wouldn't have been bothered by this below 28 either.
You must be young if you think one is mature and the other a "big kid" by giving me perfectly normal hobbies for a 30+. Which actually prove my point. 30+ people would find this weird and if they don't it's probably even weirder tbh. 12 years is a lot below 25.
So yes it has a lot to do with the younger audience and BLs are known to have big age gap in novels.
But thanks for giving more context with your answer, it's appreciated!
I will give it a try anyway, I'm just bothered by that one thing but since it's bromance, it will probably be just fine.