Don't think it's supposed to be funny. It's a story based on the author's true experience so they're probably…
I don't know about others, so I will speak from my perspective. I have seen many boys and men making such jokes. In real life, that would be called harassment, but in a series, it's called a 'joke.' This is what we call double standards. People normalize assault, torture, harassment, and many more things in series; then, when it happens in real life, everyone 'wakes up' as if they never normalized it in the first place. I believe what we normalize in a series or movie is what we normalize in real life, too. Saying 'I am a woman too' doesn't make your point valid. Just because you don't mind, it doesn't mean I don't mind. Especially when BL fans have nothing left to defend, they end the conversation with 'it’s fictional.' Today it's fictional, but in the future, it will be a part of our daily lives, and people like you will normalize it then, too. You said boys at that age are crude; if that's the case, you should be asking yourself why they are like that. It’s because people often laugh at their 'so-called funny jokes,' making them think it's cool. This is exactly how it has been normalized. Why have I never seen a girl at that age making such jokes? Now, please don't come back with 'I have seen girls making such jokes,' because you haven't, and we both know that isn't true.
Don't think it's supposed to be funny. It's a story based on the author's true experience so they're probably…
Do you even get what I mean? In that scene, when Yu Lei asked if the showers really don’t have stalls and they said you can see each other from head to toe, the other guy commented that if it were girls instead, it would’ve been something to see. as a girl it was a cheap joke
No, nobody here is glorifying anything, but there's no need to moralize either. I’m not glorifying a thing;…
it's a public platform and everyone has the right to express their opinion . The thing you like in a series or a movie is the the thing you want in irl said by a wise person.
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Saying 'I am a woman too' doesn't make your point valid. Just because you don't mind, it doesn't mean I don't mind. Especially when BL fans have nothing left to defend, they end the conversation with 'it’s fictional.' Today it's fictional, but in the future, it will be a part of our daily lives, and people like you will normalize it then, too.
You said boys at that age are crude; if that's the case, you should be asking yourself why they are like that. It’s because people often laugh at their 'so-called funny jokes,' making them think it's cool. This is exactly how it has been normalized. Why have I never seen a girl at that age making such jokes? Now, please don't come back with 'I have seen girls making such jokes,' because you haven't, and we both know that isn't true.