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Destined chinese drama review
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Destined
1 people found this review helpful
by Mr_What
Nov 26, 2025
40 of 40 episodes seen
Completed
Overall 10
Story 10.0
Acting/Cast 10.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 10.0
This review may contain spoilers

Why Most Viewers Got It Painfully Wrong!

People keep repeating the same take:

“Gu Si had major character development.”

No, he didn’t.

The one who actually changed in this drama is Lui Ru, not Gu Si and the story makes that painfully obvious.

Gu Si is consistent from episode one until the end.

He’s emotionally stable, morally grounded, and surprisingly perceptive. His first interaction with Lui Ru already exposes his core traits: he judges based on what he sees, not on rumors; he doesn’t insult her back; he doesn’t hide behind excuses; and he remains steady even while the entire town trashes his reputation.

Meanwhile, Lui Ru is a walking psychological wound shaped by humiliation, instability, and constant survival mode.

She interprets everything through a broken lens. Her inability to process kindness is so severe that even on the wedding night, when Gu Si tells her she’s free, untouchable, and will eventually be divorced and returned to her lover, she still spirals into panic.

That’s untreated trauma.

And this is where her real development begins.

Her first major glow-up happens early: she realizes that Gu Si, who could’ve overpowered her at any moment and had every social advantage, chose to give her control.

He let her chase him with a sword.
He let her lock him up.
He negotiated instead of dominating.
Why?
Not because he’s weak but because he’s decent, guilt-ridden, and fundamentally good.

That moment cracks her worldview for the first time.

From there, Lui Ru becomes brighter, more confident, more emotionally aware, more capable of reading people, and eventually starts mirroring Gu Si’s steadiness.

That’s character development. That’s growth.

Gu Si?
He stays the same man the same sharp, principled, talkative, quietly heroic personality he always was.
He was never a playboy, never irresponsible, never shallow. He trained, he helped people, he searched for purpose outside the suffocating expectations of his family’s business.

He wasn’t “redeemed.”
He was misunderstood.

He was always that shiny sword.

Lui Ru was the blade without a sheath rusted, brittle, defensive.
And Gu Si became both her blacksmith and her protection.

So no, the drama isn’t about his transformation.

It’s about her finally seeing him clearl and becoming someone worthy of standing beside him and each other.

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