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Is not that I left Air untouched is just that Air is clearly in the wrong in the first place but she was all transparent about it, so I felt that's nothing much I could feel more about it. She admitted her wrong. That is why she asked Pure to not wait, she is clear to Lamp she doesn't love him, doesn't want him to touch her, she slept in a separate room. Her friends knew it, Pure knew it. To me, she is just plain stup^d to begin with. But at least she is direct and clear. No lie, no deception. She is ready to be accounted for her own stup^dity and wrong.

As for Pure. Just imagine yourself having someone you love dearly telling you she is waiting for you, showing the whole world how she can't let go, etc. But in the end, she slept with someone so easily once the lust and temptation appear and still have the guts to asked and made you tell her "you miss her", creating a delusion for you. Would you still want this person after knowing the whole truth? If you are good with it then no issue. But for me I truly felt disgusted.

And Loft. Similar, imagine you have a close friend which you treated her like a little sister, someone you trusted, someone who knows the mess that you are in. And this very person went all her way out to lure your love to bed behind your back, how would you feel? Again, if you are good with such being, no issue. For me, same feeling, I just truly felt disgusted.

Definitely, it is always "agree to disagree" and thanks for the view sharing. What I have mentioned is just purely my point of view. I was just overwhelmed negatively with the storyline, and shocked by the moral value standard, that's all.

For me, is a clear toxicity for Pure and Loft characters. I mean of course if you can accept the character of the 2 then it is not an issue. Just that I can't. I can't imagine myself having such people being close to me...

Normally I watch and analyze such genre which is towards more to reality with putting myself in the shoes of that role. Hence, this series I am totally having a hard time digesting it at the moment. I felt everything was just so wrong on how the story is unfolding. Development that is on going now just leads to disaster and moral value degrading. This is just purely my point of view and thanks for your view.

I can't be sure to agree on your analysis towards the not realizing Air missing Pure cause she wants to free her stress. Even if it is as such, it still has no relation on how Pure handled the whole situation. So easily give herself to someone in such manner, and in such messy/unclear situation, not even trying to right the wrong right after, instead asking Air to say she miss her still, etc. I seriously can't comprehend and digest. Pure's action and what she claimed does not gel, which is hypocrisy.

Loft just wanted to get the woman she is infatuated with to bed even after knowing the whole messed up issue and not caring the friendship between her and Air is a total betrayal and cowardness. From my point of view, if you truly love the woman, help her to free herself up from such messed up emotional situation first, and man it up with your friend before you tried so hard just to get her to bed. To me that is just selfish S desire and not love. And if the story is about purely S desire then I have no issue, just don't make it or portrait it as Love. I don't sit well with such distortion.

To me is not about the waiting, is about how a person handle a situation with integrity which I uphold strongly in my real life, hence, both Loft and Pure truly demonstrated a strong characteristic of hypocrisy, betrayal and cowardness which I despise in real life as well, be it in whatever form of relationships.

That is why the whole story is just so messed up in moral value. It distort the value of an individual. And if anyone watched this series and think it is okay to act and behave in such manner in real life with such distorted value then it is truly appalling. My view.

My thoughts are purely on the series. I do not know about the novel. Therefore, what I have mentioned are all based on this series that's airing. And I watch and analyze drama/series purely for the story and acting skill not the actors or actresses outlook. Hence, I have never ever like or support a role or character based on the actor or actress.

Definitely Lamp is another character which demonstrated the meaning of "You reap what you sow". The whole development and the storyline is just difficult for me. Air can be red flag or whatsoever, but that doesn't make Loft a green flag by doing stuff behind a red flag., it makes her worse than a red flag in my point of view. I strongly believe in "manning it up" if you love that woman, don't do things behind one's back, especially in the series Loft and Air considerably as close friends apart being SIL in name. So in my point of view Loft is backstabbing Air, betrayal of friendship. A person who murders a murderer is also a murderer, not a hero.

And Pure kept insisting how much she loves Air still but in the end, she crossed the line so easily and don't even bother to just cut it off straight after, instead still making Air to say she miss her. I just cannot comprehend such action. To me action speaks louder than word, you crossed the line, means you crossed the line, that's it. Don't talk about habit or guilt, it just worsen the whole thing. It is betrayal whether physical or emotional. If is in real life then is a blessing in disguise, I wouldn't want a woman of such.

My point is the clarity of the relationship. Being emotionally attached and actions that does not gel with the actual reality etc. These are the stuff that toxify the whole thing., the entanglement. The whole storyline is so toxic.. the lost of moral value.. That is why I am struggling to digest.

The whole storyline is the entanglement. I don't exactly see Air as a green flag if you are wondering. To me single is an excuse (with all their emotional entanglement and actions), is just a surface level of a so-called self justification on the in-depth moral value issue. That's why I struggle to watch the series now, looking how the story direction is flowing.

I truly do not see anything that makes Loft consider a green flag, I only see all red. She knows exactly the issues with her brother, Air and Pure. If she is so IN love with Pure, then man it up and tell Air directly. Not doing stuff sneakily, flirting and just want to get the girl she's infatuated with to bed.

When one wants to cross the line then one have to make a clear cut to further damage the whole situation and the people involved. It is also about responsibility and accountability of one's action. If Pure is not IN love with Air anymore then cut it off as the line have been crossed (why still ask Air to say she miss her, after crossing the line? I can't digest that dialog. Just say I crossed the line, and that's it between you and me). I am a person who uphold integrity. Hence, that makes it hard for me to digest the whole storyline at the moment.

Frankly, I can't bring myself to truly watch this drama slowly.. The first GL that gave me such a struggle. The first series that really makes me a non-fan of posting comment, want to post my thoughts. If one is only on Love Scene then ok, just focus on the love scene, can skip everything. But if into storyline then I guess is truly a struggle especially if you are morally conscious... Pure is such a Red Flag to me. Having kept insisting she still love Air but slept with a person whom she flirt with , with enjoyment.. I wish I will never have such woman appear in my life, not even as a friend. If she decides to move on and cross that line, just have a clear cut. Whatever Air told Pure no need to wait whatsoever is not what she truly felt, it is way too obvious there is still love, care and hope in her actions, (ordering bfast every morning, trying to divorce ASAP, even make known she is sleeping in a different room from her so-called husband in name and even their friend knew, etc.). So Just Tell Air, BYE. But what with I still love Air but I love to sleep with Loft . And Loft... A woman telling you she love someone else and that someone else is your SIL and friend and you still keep wanting to sleep with her... Both characters are characters that I truly despise in real life. #^$&%$$. I hope this generation uphold a higher standard in moral value.