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Review of the film All These Years, in my opinion this is a very good film about romance and family.
Here it is told that Chen JianXia, a student from the village, gets accepted into a high school in the city because she is ranked first in the school in her village. In the city she meets Li Ran, a rich student who also goes to school there.
Chen JianXia and Li Ran both come from troubled families so they can understand each other and go through their daily lives together as students.
But when they were in college JianXia and Li Ran separated because JianXia studied abroad. A few years later they met each other again.
When watching this I cried when I was in the scent of her family because I also felt what Chen JianXian (played by Sun Qian) experienced who was opposed by her mother and her father's inability to defend her because her mother made decisions at home and in her life.
I like the romance between Li Ran and JianXia even though their relationship sometimes goes up and down, sometimes angry, sad, and disappointed Li Ran is still good to JianXia and only wants to do the best for JianXia.
In the end I also like it because it's a happy ending even though there's a lack of conversation between her mother and JianXia but in my opinion with her younger sister who is getting more mature who finally doesn't look for trouble with her older sister (JianXia) and JianXia knows that her mother cares about her even though she's often rude to her that's enough because in my opinion the wounds that were caused by her mother when she lived with her mother before can't be healed immediately it takes time and to change someone and people's thinking especially our mother who feels she's right is very difficult because I've tried and in the end it's still only us who are wrong and she herself is right.
I really like Li Ran's sentence telling JianXia to ignore them and be yourself. I think people like JianXia who have a problematic family or patriarchy find it very difficult to ignore the words of those closest to us such as our family, friends, or acquaintances sometimes we want to reply to their words sometimes we just listen silently but in our hearts it feels very painful and sometimes their words will fill our heads for days or even months. To be ourselves is also very difficult because even though we know what our likes are, what our weaknesses are, what our fears are, we are often forced to make choices that our families think are right and do not burden them.
Chen JianXia's life at school, he only focuses on studying and his cellphone contacts are only his family when watching this I feel grateful that JianXia met and even dated Li Ran. Because I really remember that I used to have many friends and didn't even have close friends because I wanted to focus on studying and my mother scolded me for often being close to my friends. So I also felt that Chen JianXia couldn't be close to school friends. In this film I also feel grateful that Chen JianXia, who was initially a quiet person and didn't want to explain anything when he was accused of being someone who dared to say what he wanted to say to people who made rumors about him. So I also hope that I can be as brave as Chen JianXia because I am the quiet one and don't want to explain to people when people make rumors or badmouth me. I also hope that I can meet someone like Li Ran who doesn't force me, helps me, will support whatever decision I make, and will always be by my side.
Here it is told that Chen JianXia, a student from the village, gets accepted into a high school in the city because she is ranked first in the school in her village. In the city she meets Li Ran, a rich student who also goes to school there.
Chen JianXia and Li Ran both come from troubled families so they can understand each other and go through their daily lives together as students.
But when they were in college JianXia and Li Ran separated because JianXia studied abroad. A few years later they met each other again.
When watching this I cried when I was in the scent of her family because I also felt what Chen JianXian (played by Sun Qian) experienced who was opposed by her mother and her father's inability to defend her because her mother made decisions at home and in her life.
I like the romance between Li Ran and JianXia even though their relationship sometimes goes up and down, sometimes angry, sad, and disappointed Li Ran is still good to JianXia and only wants to do the best for JianXia.
In the end I also like it because it's a happy ending even though there's a lack of conversation between her mother and JianXia but in my opinion with her younger sister who is getting more mature who finally doesn't look for trouble with her older sister (JianXia) and JianXia knows that her mother cares about her even though she's often rude to her that's enough because in my opinion the wounds that were caused by her mother when she lived with her mother before can't be healed immediately it takes time and to change someone and people's thinking especially our mother who feels she's right is very difficult because I've tried and in the end it's still only us who are wrong and she herself is right.
I really like Li Ran's sentence telling JianXia to ignore them and be yourself. I think people like JianXia who have a problematic family or patriarchy find it very difficult to ignore the words of those closest to us such as our family, friends, or acquaintances sometimes we want to reply to their words sometimes we just listen silently but in our hearts it feels very painful and sometimes their words will fill our heads for days or even months. To be ourselves is also very difficult because even though we know what our likes are, what our weaknesses are, what our fears are, we are often forced to make choices that our families think are right and do not burden them.
Chen JianXia's life at school, he only focuses on studying and his cellphone contacts are only his family when watching this I feel grateful that JianXia met and even dated Li Ran. Because I really remember that I used to have many friends and didn't even have close friends because I wanted to focus on studying and my mother scolded me for often being close to my friends. So I also felt that Chen JianXia couldn't be close to school friends. In this film I also feel grateful that Chen JianXia, who was initially a quiet person and didn't want to explain anything when he was accused of being someone who dared to say what he wanted to say to people who made rumors about him. So I also hope that I can be as brave as Chen JianXia because I am the quiet one and don't want to explain to people when people make rumors or badmouth me. I also hope that I can meet someone like Li Ran who doesn't force me, helps me, will support whatever decision I make, and will always be by my side.
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