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Replying to Deenme Aug 1, 2021
No that second point you made is disgusting as hell. As a SA victim that point made me sick to my stomach. Do…
I didn't see your original comment before it was deleted (thankfully), but it is clear you have no idea how to empathise with someone who's been a victim of this kind of abuse. Because people have already called you out on that, I won't say anything more on it, but I couldn't not say anything about your views on suicide. People who are suicidal can still care about what's going on in their life, in fact maybe Bas' career has been the only thing keeping him from going through with it before now. He is obviously in so much pain, and feeling completely hopeless, that suicide seems the only way out. Yet, you think he has enough strength to endure everything that will be thrown at him if he did come forward?! It's more likely that those situations he would have to deal with would push him over the edge. Is him keeping his life not more important than coming forward?
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Replying to Call It What You Want Season 2 Aug 1, 2021
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There's no need to blame the victim, blame the abuser. Bas is obviously not dealing well with what's happening to him, understandably. How a survivor of sexual abuse chooses to react to the situation is entirely up to them, and sometimes they don't have the strength to process what's happened to them, let alone go to the police, or the media in this case. Maybe Bas feels that the only control he has over his own life is the choice of whether to come forward or not, since every other aspect of his life is controlled by other people. His career is also the only important thing he has in his life, as he can't have friendships or relationships, or even spend time with his family, unless the production company lets him, which they don't. Ideally, he would be strong enough to come forward to stop the same thing happening to other potential victims, but just surviving the situation shows a lot of strength. If this ever happened to you (which I would not wish on anyone), you don't know how you would react either. You might make the same decision as Bas, and that would be okay. Try putting yourself in other people's shoes first, before judging them. And think about the sexual abuse survivors who might be reading your post that also haven't come forward. They've been though enough, without being judged by strangers on the internet.
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Replying to Sandi Jul 6, 2021
Title Light on Me
Now methinks the secret they bullying shinwoo about is that he's in the closet and basically he just isn't ready…
That's what I'm thinking too, and maybe the reason why Shinwoo doesn't want Taekyung on the student council is because it'll be harder for him to keep it secret if the boy he likes is always around. I hope he's able to express his feelings in his own time, and isn't outed or pushed to do it. I like Shiwoon for that reason, he's worked out that Shinwoo likes Taekyung but hasn't said anything.
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Replying to Nazza479 Apr 29, 2021
I haven't even been able to find the behind the scenes episodes, where did you watch them?
It did, thank you. Yeah exactly, and as you said, English subs would also help with that!
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Replying to Nazza479 Apr 29, 2021
I haven't even been able to find the behind the scenes episodes, where did you watch them?
Oh okay, I'll give it a go. Thanks!
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Replying to Nazza479 Apr 29, 2021
I haven't even been able to find the behind the scenes episodes, where did you watch them?
Oh right, I think I must have tried that but it doesn't work for my country. Thank you though!
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Replying to siMONa Apr 29, 2021
I wish there were english subtitles on the behind the scenes too. I really want to know what the director is saying.
I haven't even been able to find the behind the scenes episodes, where did you watch them?
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On Y-Destiny Apr 2, 2021
Title Y-Destiny
Can anyone translate the text that's by each character at the beginning of the episode? I don't want to miss any info before I watch the episode properly.
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On The Cupid Coach Feb 24, 2021
Does anyone know what the flower field that Nam, Tae and Nite go to in Chiang Mai is called? It's probably in the special thanks part of the credits but I don't what the Thai translates to. Thanks in advance to anyone that can let me know/translate!
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