So in conclusion, all the tragedy in Mudan's life after her escape is because of Qin Sheng Yi 😅 from the very…
It was SY fault her abuse husbanf abuse Mudan?
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
Have you read some of these comments? I said many ...not all commenters
Have you read the comment...many are wishing her death ect....insults ect...wanting....punch her in the face...
Sounds great....lets abuse the abuse victim
I have no problem calling out her decision and actions for being stupid and dumb...she will have to reap the consequences of her recent choices....but i have empathy to understand her trauma/life condition....in which she is struggling with....and end up hurting ppl who actually do care about her
You said Stockholm syndrome
It more than that...
She refused.....sounds like victim blaming....
She is brainwashed and conditioned to it all her life. Under the thumb...abuse of her dad and then husband....
She doesn't know what happiness or a good relationship is.....for example....she thought FL ex husband is a good guy who loves her and was envious of that....
Seeing one or two people happy will not change her perspective/experience from her abuse trauma all her life....
So ppl who experience this will automatically change their mindset in a cew months and easily change?
I implore you to talk to real life ppl in these abuse relationship and they will tell you how many years it took to break the cycle...even with support
Tell a overweight person who struggle to lose weight...to just change and do this......
Or a drug addict...alcoholic
Ect.......it is not an easy thing that can be done in A couple of months...1 year...2...3....many people it took them 10 years of up and down struggles
It's not just actions.....psychologically it's a challenge or else we won't have so many "addicted" people who find these lifelong habit soo hard to break...leave...to change
I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
I dunno the characters age...
But she been trained that way all her life
She is suppose to change over a very short amount of time
Fl assures her ....yes.....but this women has been trained and conditioned how she is....weak and insecure......she probably thought she can't do any better and is a burden to FL
Look at her at home...look at her life during marriage
Do ppl here....mostly women..? Don't have compassion and empathy?
You can disagree and point out her fault w/0 degrading/insulting the characters even more
In real like 2025....there are lots of women like her....similar to an addict
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But for sure it is a big lesson for all and tk me it will make them all stronger and better
Many times we need to burnike a Phoenix and rise again
Or like her peonies....when it doesn't grown and need to be revive......she needs to re-plant....change soils...make new soils...ect
Malice intent
She did not do it to cause intentional harm to her.
So ppl are only allow ro do 1 mistakes?
So the rest of us haven't done stupid things....many...multi times
I feel we are all in glass houses and shouldn't throw stones
Spoiler....next ep...those who think he just leaves her there...this shows otherwise.....
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
Their English is soo cute
He will blow his cover making a bigger deal over a "girl"
He can ruin the bigger goal
https://youtu.be/1evokPitA20?si=9qVKt-3p91loZZ7D
Eng sub ep 23 preview trailer
https://youtu.be/d5rNP-FuUoc?si=9FGuOHqLhqhBuNvM
She did not do it in malice intent.
If she did it on purpose to cause harm because she wants to hurt FL.....i would say don't forgive her.
I implore ppl to volunteer at a women shelter of the abuse to understand to have empathy for their plight.
Yes she needs to take responsibility for her actions.....
You can have empathy/sympathy and still call oit their bad actions
How is it helping anyone to stomp on her even more when she is down
So we shouldn't try to help people who care abuse and weak?
Have you read the comment...many are wishing her death ect....insults ect...wanting....punch her in the face...
Sounds great....lets abuse the abuse victim
I have no problem calling out her decision and actions for being stupid and dumb...she will have to reap the consequences of her recent choices....but i have empathy to understand her trauma/life condition....in which she is struggling with....and end up hurting ppl who actually do care about her
You said Stockholm syndrome
It more than that...
She refused.....sounds like victim blaming....
She is brainwashed and conditioned to it all her life. Under the thumb...abuse of her dad and then husband....
She doesn't know what happiness or a good relationship is.....for example....she thought FL ex husband is a good guy who loves her and was envious of that....
Seeing one or two people happy will not change her perspective/experience from her abuse trauma all her life....
So ppl who experience this will automatically change their mindset in a cew months and easily change?
I implore you to talk to real life ppl in these abuse relationship and they will tell you how many years it took to break the cycle...even with support
Tell a overweight person who struggle to lose weight...to just change and do this......
Or a drug addict...alcoholic
Ect.......it is not an easy thing that can be done in A couple of months...1 year...2...3....many people it took them 10 years of up and down struggles
It's not just actions.....psychologically it's a challenge or else we won't have so many "addicted" people who find these lifelong habit soo hard to break...leave...to change
What worse is they kiss in Western counter part
1. Asian country has rules on no kissing with minors
2. Western culture doesn't
Where is all the outrage in the Western counter part?
Can we have these outrage be universal and consistent
Also more outrage of women sexualizing minor... male idols/actors
There was this chinese drama FL was older and ML 17....
But she been trained that way all her life
She is suppose to change over a very short amount of time
Fl assures her ....yes.....but this women has been trained and conditioned how she is....weak and insecure......she probably thought she can't do any better and is a burden to FL
Look at her at home...look at her life during marriage
Do ppl here....mostly women..? Don't have compassion and empathy?
You can disagree and point out her fault w/0 degrading/insulting the characters even
more
In real like 2025....there are lots of women like her....similar to an addict
Also, he help her plenty and never claim she owes him......beside the money since they are in business
While in western culture. It don't seem to matter as much
These women are already kicked down and stomp on.
Even before she went home, i knew she came from that environment.
I don't the character's age...
But she has been abuse all her life and don't know anything else...abuse from home to husband
Ppl expect her to change within a year when she was broken down her whole life (say she 20)
20 year of abuse since childhood to adult
But she get 1 yr out of it and magically she will change right away
Rarely has that happen