Does 1 get their life together in a couple months...after being conditioned to be that way pretty much their whole…
As a 3rd person viewing it....it is easy to say.....urg that is soo stupid...ect...
I'm currently my friend "support " in her process of a toxic relationships.
It is easybto say....urg....why can't you get it already....just do it....
My mindset is different.....now....but i was also in a long toxic relationship before i learn and realize it
But for my friend, she us conditioned that way. She grew up in a toxic environment. See that these toxic relationships are the norm ...she never saw what healthy mature relationship is like.
I.e.
Her to FL about her Ex
Along that line
"Your so lucky, you have a person who love you and care for you...."
She didn’t understand that is not "love and care"
Still happens currently in 2025
Many abuse women in shelter goes back and forth
B4 they break the cycle
Like a phoenix.....she shall rise from thr ashes stronger....learning a lesson....growth and level up
They killed her "sister"
Do tell...what is the other way during that period?
Be like her friend that stayed in an abuse relationship and be abuse?
Do tell what is the other option and what she should have done?
She hurt nor harm anyone
She never harm those people.
They intented harm and murder
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So Shenyi was locked in the room and broke out.....but it seem Mudan was at the court and sentence?
I'm currently my friend "support " in her process of a toxic relationships.
It is easybto say....urg....why can't you get it already....just do it....
My mindset is different.....now....but i was also in a long toxic relationship before i learn and realize it
But for my friend, she us conditioned that way. She grew up in a toxic environment. See that these toxic relationships are the norm ...she never saw what healthy mature relationship is like.
I.e.
Her to FL about her Ex
Along that line
"Your so lucky, you have a
person who
love you and care for you...."
She didn’t understand that is not "love and care"
Habits /insecurities are a constant daily battle for l of us
If it is soo easily....we can all change our habits and how we are conditioned in our environment.
If it is easily to do in a couple of months....more people would suceed from their toxic relationships with ppl, food, drugs,.....ect
She probably been treated as less than all her life. She had been conditioned and brain washed.....she is anxious, passive and insecure
People don't change and progress in a couple of months....habits are the hardest to break
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Well said