" why never any of his costars or people who worked with him mentioned about his bad behavior." With this much…
Thx for the info.
As i said in my other post. More things will be pending to be revealed.
General statement not directly to you.
Copy and paste my message. Where did i say he is innocent and did not do wrong.
I said this is all i know. Didn't...gave a fact about the human brain. Fact is miniors are judge differently in th3 court of law. I know he isn't one now...but during the incident
Never said he was innocent or did not wrong.
Again the main issues is asian culture.
Watch any drama...pinoy...thai...korean
They are always hitting each other...forced kissed...wrist grab....
No sex b4 marriage yet it is sexualize (idols)
Korean. Ban porn but alao sexualize idols.
They want to combat this better...look at the source. Korean women's right is also crap
" why never any of his costars or people who worked with him mentioned about his bad behavior." With this much…
Again. Never said he was innocent nor am i defending him.
Cooy and paste where i said he was innocent and deserve this and that.
Not once did i say it oy any of my posts on this forum.
I provided a biological fact since when it happened they were minors. Didn't say it excuse any behaviors or justify. Just. A fact. Also that i don't know anything. I don't. I'm not judge and jury. Whatever is exposed will be exposed. They are handling it.
Korean culture justice system is crap....esp. if you're a women....look what happened to Sulli....another celeb who post a book about feminist.
So the root is the culture and to teach them at a young age.
I'm pointing out toxic culture. The base of it .... you need to get it from the root or it happens again.
Korean ...ban porn...also sexualize idols.. Kdrama-wrist grab...hitting Thai - rape is romanticize in thai drama
Ect...applies to the asian dramas...their toxic culture
Where in my comment did i say he is innocent?
I said i don't know anything like any of us.
They know ( the people involved)
Get over your holier than thou attitude and virtual signaling.
You're accusing me of saying that i didn't say. Go read my message again. I posted 3 post here.
Not once that i said he is inncocent and should be given blah...blah..blah...
I'm not a judge and jury. In a court of law they fact minors (age) into incident because their brain isn't fully developed.
That is a fact. Not my opinion.
You're the 1 keep responding and accusing me of such...i didn't say. Read again. If you are done. Stop responding.
" why never any of his costars or people who worked with him mentioned about his bad behavior." With this much…
How am i defending him? I have never watched him as an actor and isn't his fan girl. Believe or not is irrelevant to me. I have no emotional connections with the actor.
Did i said he isn't wrong and shouldn't be responsible. Nope...
Just because i pointed out Asian culture being toxic. Fuck ya they are. I lived it. Anyone who watched kdrama seen it as well.
Korean ban porn....yet also sexualize kpop/celebrities
They try to ban and cancel an actress who post a book about feminist.
Sulli - suicide because she was bullied for not meeting the korean standard (she was out spoken)
The person pose a question.....i responded with possible senario.
And fact i know.
I know nothing. I'm an outsider who read what is display.
I know he Bully in middle school. Those who is involved knows best. And whatever evidences or spoken words.... I'm not judge or jury
Another fact i know is the frontal cortex in our brain isn't fully developed. Any one in human growth and development /psychology major would know.
Fact. He did something wrong in middle school. To what extend only him and the others ppl knows.
That is all any of us really knows.
Should he have karma /responsibility for his actions. Yes. But i don't believe it should be damnation for life.
Asian culture is toxic as hell. I lived it. Parents bulling you. Your neighbors.
Koreans just ban ppl and never look at the source. Their culture.
How many kdrama displays these abuse.... the characters with abusing parents are also the bully. Heck they normalize some of these toxic behaviors.
I watched uncanny carrier....i thought one of the best scenes at the end was the Bully....he was shown kindness and a different way and he changed.....he was shown that is was wrong and not normal.
I'm not excusing any behaviors.... I'm not his fan girl or even seen his drama.
He should reap what he sow....but I'll reframe from condemnation. He will get whatever karma and hope it holds a valuable lesson.
But the issue is the culture....they need to use this as a better teachable moment. Of showing ramifications and redemption
Robert downey jr. That man was broken...drugs...ect....he changed....some1 gave him a chance ...iron man...it probably saved him life.
The asian culture is the issue. Don't get me started on thai drama....hitting and rape is a norm. Parents are the biggest controller and bullies.....i lived that life.... I'm lucky I'm in America and not stuck in the asian culture criteria.
I had a friend who was korean and committed suicide in high school. Pressure from home was too much.
My now sister in law....was dating my brother. She was 25? 26? Her dad harrassed them...drove by beeping non stop...banging on the door...threatening us.
My dad beat my mom....my bro in law hits my sister....keep them in line....according to their culture it is their right. There is a saying " i hit you because of love you. "
My parents hitted me. I stayed after school for detention and was accused of being a bad person. I was not the Asian girl that i was suppose to be. Obedient...cook and clean...ect...i was put down by my older siblings because i was " americanize".
My brother struggled during his teen years because he is gay. Had to hide it. It is not acceptable in asian culture.
My parents did change as they got older....also because i showed them something different. I taught them something different by setting boundaries. My brother told them he is gay a few year back and they accept it. My brother in law who is old school says....it is his karma for his past life for being a player.....hahahaha.... I'm dead
What my problem with these type of issues why does does these people apologize right after they are exposed? So…
I don't fully follow but i agree. Bully is bad....not excusing it....as you mentioned it was in the teen years....we all done stupid mistakes. I don't see many ppl think of what they did in the past ....to recount what they need to apologize for.
I been bullied.....i have unintentionally been mean to other ppl.
Should we suffer for our whole life or end our career. ....ppl can change and reset. He got a valuable lesson here. I wish they had them show how they change and still have a career/job.
Speak at these schools. Asian country are the worse.
In kdrama everyone is always hitting each other.....parent's themselves are bullies to their children. They blacklists the person but don't look at the source.... the culture that make/causes it.
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Where did i blame sulli? Where did i say jisoo deserve this and that....it is not in any of my posts..
The root of the problem is asian culture....
I can bring her in the conversation.
That is toxic korean...asian culture
Can you read? Or u are here to just attack and assume.
For the 100x asian culture is toxic as fuck
I made a statement....didn't really say much of him being guilty or innocent ....
The person accused me of making excuses....ect...ect
As i said in my other post. More things will be pending to be revealed.
General statement not directly to you.
Copy and paste my message. Where did i say he is innocent and did not do wrong.
I said this is all i know. Didn't...gave a fact about the human brain. Fact is miniors are judge differently in th3 court of law. I know he isn't one now...but during the incident
Never said he was innocent or did not wrong.
Again the main issues is asian culture.
Watch any drama...pinoy...thai...korean
They are always hitting each other...forced kissed...wrist grab....
No sex b4 marriage yet it is sexualize (idols)
Korean. Ban porn but alao sexualize idols.
They want to combat this better...look at the source. Korean women's right is also crap
Please read and not assume...that is my logic or this is what i meant.
Read again.
I provided info on th3 biological part of the human brain.
I also pointed out that. I know nothing really. I'm not judge and jury.
Is he guilty. Accordling to what is exposed and evidences he is. To what extend only they know.
Who am i to say this and that. It is being handled.
My issues is that it is not the root of the problem. The root is the culture. Asian culture is toxic.
Kdrama ...hitting....forced kiss...bullie...wrist grab
Thai - rape...
Cooy and paste where i said he was innocent and deserve this and that.
Not once did i say it oy any of my posts on this forum.
I provided a biological fact since when it happened they were minors. Didn't say it excuse any behaviors or justify. Just. A fact. Also that i don't know anything. I don't. I'm not judge and jury. Whatever is exposed will be exposed. They are handling it.
Korean culture justice system is crap....esp. if you're a women....look what happened to Sulli....another celeb who post a book about feminist.
So the root is the culture and to teach them at a young age.
I'm pointing out toxic culture. The base of it .... you need to get it from the root or it happens again.
Korean ...ban porn...also sexualize idols..
Kdrama-wrist grab...hitting
Thai - rape is romanticize in thai drama
Ect...applies to the asian dramas...their toxic culture
Where in my comment did i say he is innocent?
I said i don't know anything like any of us.
They know ( the people involved)
Get over your holier than thou attitude and virtual signaling.
You're accusing me of saying that i didn't say. Go read my message again. I posted 3 post here.
Not once that i said he is inncocent and should be given blah...blah..blah...
I'm not a judge and jury. In a court of law they fact minors (age) into incident because their brain isn't fully developed.
That is a fact. Not my opinion.
You're the 1 keep responding and accusing me of such...i didn't say. Read again. If you are done. Stop responding.
Did i said he isn't wrong and shouldn't be responsible. Nope...
Just because i pointed out Asian culture being toxic. Fuck ya they are. I lived it. Anyone who watched kdrama seen it as well.
Korean ban porn....yet also sexualize kpop/celebrities
They try to ban and cancel an actress who post a book about feminist.
Sulli - suicide because she was bullied for not meeting the korean standard (she was out spoken)
The person pose a question.....i responded with possible senario.
And fact i know.
I know nothing. I'm an outsider who read what is display.
I know he Bully in middle school. Those who is involved knows best. And whatever evidences or spoken words.... I'm not judge or jury
Another fact i know is the frontal cortex in our brain isn't fully developed. Any one in human growth and development /psychology major would know.
https://www.thescienceofpsychotherapy.com/prefrontal-cortex/
I'm also Asian and know the toxic Asian culture. I lived it.
We see it in the drama....we read about these idol mistreated....we watch the bullies in the kdrama.
I also had the same issued with full house.
They need to adjust and change some things.
Biological fact. The judgements part of the brain...frontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25 years old.
https://www.thescienceofpsychotherapy.com/prefrontal-cortex/
Fact. He did something wrong in middle school. To what extend only him and the others ppl knows.
That is all any of us really knows.
Should he have karma /responsibility for his actions. Yes. But i don't believe it should be damnation for life.
Asian culture is toxic as hell. I lived it. Parents bulling you. Your neighbors.
Koreans just ban ppl and never look at the source. Their culture.
How many kdrama displays these abuse.... the characters with abusing parents are also the bully. Heck they normalize some of these toxic behaviors.
I watched uncanny carrier....i thought one of the best scenes at the end was the Bully....he was shown kindness and a different way and he changed.....he was shown that is was wrong and not normal.
I'm not excusing any behaviors.... I'm not his fan girl or even seen his drama.
He should reap what he sow....but I'll reframe from condemnation. He will get whatever karma and hope it holds a valuable lesson.
But the issue is the culture....they need to use this as a better teachable moment. Of showing ramifications and redemption
Robert downey jr. That man was broken...drugs...ect....he changed....some1 gave him a chance ...iron man...it probably saved him life.
The asian culture is the issue. Don't get me started on thai drama....hitting and rape is a norm. Parents are the biggest controller and bullies.....i lived that life.... I'm lucky I'm in America and not stuck in the asian culture criteria.
I had a friend who was korean and committed suicide in high school. Pressure from home was too much.
My now sister in law....was dating my brother. She was 25? 26? Her dad harrassed them...drove by beeping non stop...banging on the door...threatening us.
My dad beat my mom....my bro in law hits my sister....keep them in line....according to their culture it is their right. There is a saying " i hit you because of love you. "
My parents hitted me. I stayed after school for detention and was accused of being a bad person. I was not the Asian girl that i was suppose to be. Obedient...cook and clean...ect...i was put down by my older siblings because i was " americanize".
My brother struggled during his teen years because he is gay. Had to hide it. It is not acceptable in asian culture.
My parents did change as they got older....also because i showed them something different. I taught them something different by setting boundaries. My brother told them he is gay a few year back and they accept it. My brother in law who is old school says....it is his karma for his past life for being a player.....hahahaha.... I'm dead
Again Asian culture is toxic as fuck
No issues on set....probably cuz he behaved himself.
It happened in middle school.
Biological fact. The judgment part of the brain... the frontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25.
I'm not his fan ...never watched him. Just stating a fact.
My issues is with the asian culture....we asian are toxic....parents are bullies
We all clearly sew it in the drama of the controlling parents....normalizing...hitting....ect....
Agree the all of a sudden now?
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/china-proposes-teaching-masculinity-boys-state-alarmed-changing-gender-roles-n1258939
I been bullied.....i have unintentionally been mean to other ppl.
Should we suffer for our whole life or end our career. ....ppl can change and reset. He got a valuable lesson here. I wish they had them show how they change and still have a career/job.
Speak at these schools. Asian country are the worse.
In kdrama everyone is always hitting each other.....parent's themselves are bullies to their children. They blacklists the person but don't look at the source.... the culture that make/causes it.