I agree with most of what you said and it is well said.. the only point I would disagree on is your second reason..…
I have short attention span.
Yes it can..alter it since we have these expectations..... when watching any drama....i always go into it with a suspension of belief.....if it clicks...i am less bothered by it ....if the drama dont click... then it'll bother me.
90% of drama & movies are unrealistic fantasy....that is how i view it.
All these love triangles....hahaha....doesn't happen that often....ect...these tropes
I.e. my unicorn girl....she does not pass as a guy or a hockey player....i laugh at it going into it....but i tried it & is enjoying the characters......& plot...
Sometimes i just want that simple fluff that makes me giggle ...butterflies in my belly....the feel...
I tried it ans couldn't get into it...it also bothered me that the martial art guy didn't know they were being followed but the scholar heard someone following them.....what?!
I have no problems with age gaps....i am a bit vein with watching a grandpa with a young girl.
I feel like anything it depends on how a story and chemistry clicks with us.
Majority is subjective.
I didn't care for Mr.sunShine.....so i can say i find them awkward and wierd. -I Don't find them wierd or awkard but it was just of no interest to me.
I liked doctors and didn't found the overall interaction mature. She was an 18 yr old senior if memory serve me correctly.
For me it is the storyline and how it will click with me and keep my interests . I seen some of the drama...some i tried and dropped and i had no issues with any of the age gap.
In goblin - i felt the F.L lead looked older then her 19yrs of characters age. She looked 26 to me.
Again it is all how it clicks with you...the chemistry....
Mental maturity needs to be similar but that is not necessarily a success. Being soo much a like can be a big more ....many ppl like different personalities from themselves to challenge themselves....
Love is different for all....
I knoe many ppl with age gap......older and younger....i had a teacher who end up marrying a person who use to be his student....
Even though i don't like/ drop some of those drama. It had nothing to do with age gaps....also i don't have a bias because it is an age gap.
I find many ppl if they like the drama...the age gap don't bother them so much. I went into so many age gap drama expecting to not like it...because i read ppl saying how the age gap is soo bad....ect....lol
In conclusions.....i find ppl are more forgiving of a drama when they like/enjoyed that particular drama.
Lol BTS Jin is consider a grandpa ans he is only 28....
Agreed w/ Bonnie. It annoys me to no end when drama discussion (comment section) page is endless bashing on the…
even with personality.....
My sister is 10 yrs younger than Her hubby and sometimes she acts like an immature brat.
The point of relationships is to have an understanding with each other....many ppl are attracted to different personalities that can help them grow ane challenge them.
I like when characters challenge each other and build growth.
I really enjoyed Doctors. I felt they both were mature with their feelings...no real misunderstanding and push and pull. No one leading ppl on ....love the 2nd leads ans supporting...
But again....we all have story that click with us.
I can careless about age gap unless it was a grandpa with a youth
actually I watched a jdrama dear sister and the teacher is a 3rd guy so she doesn't end up with him but he did…
Doctor didn't bother me. Yes he developed something for her and she for him. But i felt he didn't cross the line and i found their relationship to be mature.
When they meet again. He was patients and never pushed it. The 2nd lead was awesome as well.
I felt this drama was mature...no love triangle....2 guy 2 girl...they didn't play games and straight to the point.
It helps that in R.L. i know many ppl who are together in similar situations and age gap.
My sister hubby is 10 yrs older.
My cousin g/f is ay least 10 yrs older.
My friend dates ppl base on how they give her the feels.....regardless of age (excluding minors)or looks.
anti-social personality disorder? she has anger issues. as an anti-social person. I can't relate to her. I hear…
ASD is a broad thing. It is not pinpoint at a certain criteria.
In generql their is a base of similar traits but each individual is different.
I work in thr mental health field and it is not blk and white. They have this this and this. It more like their are signs of this and this but not necessarily this....ect...very broad
Yes it can..alter it since we have these expectations..... when watching any drama....i always go into it with a suspension of belief.....if it clicks...i am less bothered by it ....if the drama dont click... then it'll bother me.
90% of drama & movies are unrealistic fantasy....that is how i view it.
All these love triangles....hahaha....doesn't happen that often....ect...these tropes
I.e. my unicorn girl....she does not pass as a guy or a hockey player....i laugh at it going into it....but i tried it & is enjoying the characters......& plot...
Sometimes i just want that simple fluff that makes me giggle ...butterflies in my belly....the feel...
But yes i understand that "look" can alter the enjoyment....my point was that in reality many ppl don't look their age.....
Many time when i give it a chance.....i fall in love with the character/actor....then they become more attractive.
I feel like anything it depends on how a story and chemistry clicks with us.
Majority is subjective.
I didn't care for Mr.sunShine.....so i can say i find them awkward and wierd. -I Don't find them wierd or awkard but it was just of no interest to me.
I liked doctors and didn't found the overall interaction mature. She was an 18 yr old senior if memory serve me correctly.
For me it is the storyline and how it will click with me and keep my interests . I seen some of the drama...some i tried and dropped and i had no issues with any of the age gap.
In goblin - i felt the F.L lead looked older then her 19yrs of characters age. She looked 26 to me.
Again it is all how it clicks with you...the chemistry....
Mental maturity needs to be similar but that is not necessarily a success. Being soo much a like can be a big more ....many ppl like different personalities from themselves to challenge themselves....
Love is different for all....
I knoe many ppl with age gap......older and younger....i had a teacher who end up marrying a person who use to be his student....
Even though i don't like/ drop some of those drama. It had nothing to do with age gaps....also i don't have a bias because it is an age gap.
I find many ppl if they like the drama...the age gap don't bother them so much. I went into so many age gap drama expecting to not like it...because i read ppl saying how the age gap is soo bad....ect....lol
In conclusions.....i find ppl are more forgiving of a drama when they like/enjoyed that particular drama.
Lol BTS Jin is consider a grandpa ans he is only 28....
Like the band BTS...jin who is 28 is considered an Old grandpa vs. Jk eho is more loved cuz he is younger....
Some ppl are say 21 but looks 28 and vs. Versa.
So looks don't determine age.
Many ppl look older and many ppl look younger.
What if a 21 yr old played a 21 yr old character but looks 28?
That won't be ok cuz they look 28 but they really are 21.....ect...
That is not ok? But it is their
My sister is 10 yrs younger than Her hubby and sometimes she acts like an immature brat.
The point of relationships is to have an understanding with each other....many ppl are attracted to different personalities that can help them grow ane challenge them.
I like when characters challenge each other and build growth.
I really enjoyed Doctors. I felt they both were mature with their feelings...no real misunderstanding and push and pull. No one leading ppl on ....love the 2nd leads ans supporting...
But again....we all have story that click with us.
I can careless about age gap unless it was a grandpa with a youth
I know plenty ppl who are together with age gap.
I really like doctors.
It again depends on the story and how it click.
I didn't watch romance is a bonus...but i think the FL looks good. Looks younger than her real age.
I didn't watch some of the dramas. I try dramas by storyline. Age gap don't bug me. Am i vain sometimes...sure mostly with grandpa looking ML.
When they meet again. He was patients and never pushed it. The 2nd lead was awesome as well.
I felt this drama was mature...no love triangle....2 guy 2 girl...they didn't play games and straight to the point.
It helps that in R.L. i know many ppl who are together in similar situations and age gap.
My sister hubby is 10 yrs older.
My cousin g/f is ay least 10 yrs older.
My friend dates ppl base on how they give her the feels.....regardless of age (excluding minors)or looks.
I hope steven gets happiness too.
The guy that plays her brother is adorable lol
I'm really enjoying this one so far.
In generql their is a base of similar traits but each individual is different.
I work in thr mental health field and it is not blk and white. They have this this and this. It more like their are signs of this and this but not necessarily this....ect...very broad