I also think she does not deserve all the hate. After reading all the comments I expected it to be much worse…
It's an explanation for her actions that is not in Malice. I really wish people would do more research about abused woman. Watch their interview volunteer. I have volunteer work these women
I would never do what they do but I have that empathy and compassion to see the mental psychological battle they have and it's not easy. It's easy to say when you live in Your Glass House
honestly I have no words left for sheng yi am trying to understand her but I just can’t like she can escape…
That is a normal abusive relationship. Look up and research abuse woman and you will see that is a normal struggle they go through back and forth back and forth
I could not warm up to insecure SY and yes, we see where it derived from...home. Nonetheless, I don't want Mudan…
She doesn't
If she did, she wouldn't be where she is in life
The characters is brainwashed and easily manipulated
We can't put our frame of mind thinking on her
This is where empathy comes in
Again...i implore ppl to do research on abuse women....watch their interview and struggles
I volunteered at a house to watch their child, so they can take a break and regroup. That house is an undisclosed location....to protect them from the abuser
At one point we got a swat team there....because sh*t went down and tbe abuser found 1 of the ladies
Not to mention, it is important to remember that Wan Qing lied. She did not want to take over the shop or run…
That is where empathy needs to be looked into..
Again...malice intent
She did not do it to hurt her. Is the consequences of her actions unintentionally hurt her. Yes. She was gaslighted because she is weak minded, brainwashed and easily manipulated
Sy is a weak character who is abuse all her life. She has no real autonomy.
These are facts. Not a justification of the consequences for her actions in which FL will probably address in the next episodes
She been abuse from her family all her life. As we saw at her home visit....then her husband.....
Her parent's wants to sell her off to this old man at the village
Her insecurities intensity....she feels she has no real use to the girls
The other girls have loving families....that help build them up better. Product of their better environment
She chose what is familiar...like any abuse victim who believes the abuser lies
Malice intent * doing it to cause harm on purpose
She did not have a malice intent on her actions. Was it stupid. Ofc.....but she did not want anyone hurt or harm
Many want to cut ties....so that 1 big mistake And ties should be cut?
Fl also need to learn a lesson. She is also naive and complacent. She lives in a big city. Where her ex husband found her many times....whom his parent want to kill her.
All need to reflect of themselves
I feel all of us live in glass houses
This is female centric/focus....i know fl will address it and that arch will be done. They will grow and develop the characters and level up.....the 2nd half seems to focus on a lil more politics
So in conclusion, all the tragedy in Mudan's life after her escape is because of Qin Sheng Yi 😅 from the very…
It was SY fault her abuse husbanf abuse Mudan?
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
Ml
I feel part 2 is about the politics.. you'll see more of her ex n the princess issues.... marriage life
I would never do what they do but I have that empathy and compassion to see the mental psychological battle they have and it's not easy. It's easy to say when you live in Your Glass House
If you look into it or interview any of these if these women in real life even in 2025 that's the struggle they still go through
If she did, she wouldn't be where she is in life
The characters is brainwashed and easily manipulated
We can't put our frame of mind thinking on her
This is where empathy comes in
Again...i implore ppl to do research on abuse women....watch their interview and struggles
I volunteered at a house to watch their child, so they can take a break and regroup. That house is an undisclosed location....to protect them from the abuser
At one point we got a swat team there....because sh*t went down and tbe abuser found 1 of the ladies
Again...malice intent
She did not do it to hurt her. Is the consequences of her actions unintentionally hurt her. Yes. She was gaslighted because she is weak minded, brainwashed and easily manipulated
Vs.
Like the princess....that is malice intent
Operatives word is SEEMS
I've seen this in real life...
From then to 2025
These victims of these abuser....
It is not easy
Many ppl don't every escape .....some take 5 years...10 years...4 years...ect
Psychology damage don't heal easily like a bruise
Food addicts -Overweight and fat ppl can easily lose weight
Drug addicts.....ect
Again psychological of behaviors.....constant battle.
These are facts. Not a justification of the consequences for her actions in which FL will probably address in the next episodes
She been abuse from her family all her life. As we saw at her home visit....then her husband.....
Her parent's wants to sell her off to this old man at the village
Her insecurities intensity....she feels she has no real use to the girls
The other girls have loving families....that help build them up better. Product of their better environment
She chose what is familiar...like any abuse victim who believes the abuser lies
Malice intent
* doing it to cause harm on purpose
She did not have a malice intent on her actions. Was it stupid. Ofc.....but she did not want anyone hurt or harm
Many want to cut ties....so that 1 big mistake
And ties should be cut?
Fl also need to learn a lesson. She is also naive and complacent. She lives in a big city. Where her ex husband found her many times....whom his parent want to kill her.
All need to reflect of themselves
I feel all of us live in glass houses
This is female centric/focus....i know fl will address it and that arch will be done. They will grow and develop the characters and level up.....the 2nd half seems to focus on a lil more politics
But for sure it is a big lesson for all and tk me it will make them all stronger and better
Many times we need to burnike a Phoenix and rise again
Or like her peonies....when it doesn't grown and need to be revive......she needs to re-plant....change soils...make new soils...ect
Malice intent
She did not do it to cause intentional harm to her.
So ppl are only allow ro do 1 mistakes?
So the rest of us haven't done stupid things....many...multi times
I feel we are all in glass houses and shouldn't throw stones
Spoiler....next ep...those who think he just leaves her there...this shows otherwise.....
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
Their English is soo cute
He will blow his cover making a bigger deal over a "girl"
He can ruin the bigger goal