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Replying to HotGeGesWife Jan 19, 2025
I hope Mudan wont accept her again.
I disagree.

She did not do it in malice intent.

If she did it on purpose to cause harm because she wants to hurt FL.....i would say don't forgive her.

I implore ppl to volunteer at a women shelter of the abuse to understand to have empathy for their plight.

Yes she needs to take responsibility for her actions.....

You can have empathy/sympathy and still call oit their bad actions

How is it helping anyone to stomp on her even more when she is down
Replying to JustRozelyn Jan 19, 2025
And Shengyi, that co-owner, the weak friend who remarried her loser husband, deserves no sympathy. I hope she…
Why shouldn't she help her....just because she us weak?

So we shouldn't try to help people who care abuse and weak?
Replying to jabofi Jan 19, 2025
The novel itself is not a simple story, it has a lot of complexity, including the positive (the FL's family) and…
Didn't china ban certain storyline...time traveling....ect
Replying to Nope Jan 19, 2025
I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
Have you read some of these comments? I said many ...not all commenters

Have you read the comment...many are wishing her death ect....insults ect...wanting....punch her in the face...

Sounds great....lets abuse the abuse victim

I have no problem calling out her decision and actions for being stupid and dumb...she will have to reap the consequences of her recent choices....but i have empathy to understand her trauma/life condition....in which she is struggling with....and end up hurting ppl who actually do care about her

You said Stockholm syndrome

It more than that...

She refused.....sounds like victim blaming....

She is brainwashed and conditioned to it all her life. Under the thumb...abuse of her dad and then husband....

She doesn't know what happiness or a good relationship is.....for example....she thought FL ex husband is a good guy who loves her and was envious of that....

Seeing one or two people happy will not change her perspective/experience from her abuse trauma all her life....

So ppl who experience this will automatically change their mindset in a cew months and easily change?

I implore you to talk to real life ppl in these abuse relationship and they will tell you how many years it took to break the cycle...even with support

Tell a overweight person who struggle to lose weight...to just change and do this......

Or a drug addict...alcoholic

Ect.......it is not an easy thing that can be done in A couple of months...1 year...2...3....many people it took them 10 years of up and down struggles

It's not just actions.....psychologically it's a challenge or else we won't have so many "addicted" people who find these lifelong habit soo hard to break...leave...to change
Replying to Cya615 Jan 19, 2025
Next episode ) trailer https://x.com/Cindy_0906/status/1880668615516844438?t=wr3z8bDEDpLc4nfjZnpKOA&s=19
Can't wait for this ep
Replying to Noy Jan 19, 2025
There i is a rule in asian. No kissing scenesWhile in western culture. It don't seem to matter as much
Where is the outrage .....make it consistent by all standards

What worse is they kiss in Western counter part
Replying to Noy Jan 19, 2025
There i is a rule in asian. No kissing scenesWhile in western culture. It don't seem to matter as much
I'm making a statement of fact

1. Asian country has rules on no kissing with minors

2. Western culture doesn't

Where is all the outrage in the Western counter part?

Can we have these outrage be universal and consistent

Also more outrage of women sexualizing minor... male idols/actors

There was this chinese drama FL was older and ML 17....
Replying to D aka diyu Jan 19, 2025
https://x.com/afterrnoont/status/1880526492360405413😻https://x.com/afterrnoont/status/1880526087706591467 🤗wxy…
Stop, they are soo stinking cute. Hope they reunite in another dra.a
Replying to Nope Jan 19, 2025
I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
I dunno the characters age...

But she been trained that way all her life

She is suppose to change over a very short amount of time

Fl assures her ....yes.....but this women has been trained and conditioned how she is....weak and insecure......she probably thought she can't do any better and is a burden to FL

Look at her at home...look at her life during marriage

Do ppl here....mostly women..? Don't have compassion and empathy?

You can disagree and point out her fault w/0 degrading/insulting the characters even
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In real like 2025....there are lots of women like her....similar to an addict
Replying to Sunbath12 Jan 19, 2025
I think my main complaint about the past few eps with this Sheng Yi/Wang Qing stuff is that it is too long/dragged…
ML character does not want that.....he loves his mom and knows how hard it is for women

Also, he help her plenty and never claim she owes him......beside the money since they are in business
Replying to twinty Jan 18, 2025
I didn't see ep 21 yet. But so far she didn't do anything so bad. She just looks weak and afraid to be without…
Right...instead they put them down and shame them.

These women are already kicked down and stomp on.

Even before she went home, i knew she came from that environment.

I don't the character's age...

But she has been abuse all her life and don't know anything else...abuse from home to husband

Ppl expect her to change within a year when she was broken down her whole life (say she 20)

20 year of abuse since childhood to adult

But she get 1 yr out of it and magically she will change right away

Rarely has that happen
Replying to twinty Jan 18, 2025
Now I am wondering what she did. Was this in ep 21?
She doesn't intentionally do it to hurt her, but her choices will
Replying to twinty Jan 18, 2025
I didn't see ep 21 yet. But so far she didn't do anything so bad. She just looks weak and afraid to be without…
It is typical of abuse women.

Still happens currently in 2025

Many abuse women in shelter goes back and forth
B4 they break the cycle
Replying to twinty Jan 18, 2025
I didn't see ep 21 yet. But so far she didn't do anything so bad. She just looks weak and afraid to be without…
It's also real life. Many women in the women shelter ...go back to their abuser....
Replying to Noy Jan 18, 2025
I feel it is good for her to get it expose and then she can live as her and not hide
Agree. Esp since the protagonists are in the same city

Like a phoenix.....she shall rise from thr ashes stronger....learning a lesson....growth and level up
Replying to fancy Jan 18, 2025
Lmao...wtf. So her wanting to get out of a marriage she was cheated into is a crime? Those people basically killed…
They attempted to murder her multiple time

They killed her "sister"

Do tell...what is the other way during that period?

Be like her friend that stayed in an abuse relationship and be abuse?

Do tell what is the other option and what she should have done?

She hurt nor harm anyone
Replying to fancy Jan 18, 2025
Lmao...wtf. So her wanting to get out of a marriage she was cheated into is a crime? Those people basically killed…
She is just playing their game. With no intentions to harm anyone.

She never harm those people.

They intented harm and murder
Replying to Val W Jan 18, 2025
She gets everything by deceit. Her name, her divorce. It's all come back to haunt her now. I could see where this…
I feel it is good for her to get it expose and then she can live as her and not hide