Considering they broke up 4-5 years ago and KSH knew that KSR had been in a relationship since then, it seems more or less acceptable. Is it known that the husband or any of the other exes have done at least that?
Are you a qualified psychologist who knows KSH personally? And if you are wrong, do you truly understand the cost of the mistake? I'm surprised how quickly online experts give diagnoses...
It's ironic, really, because so far KSH is the only one of all known exes, including her husband, who helped KSR financially and wrote off the debt + sent at least a wreath and a monetary offering for the funeral. It seems that no one else did this. And initially the family had no complaints about the quality and fact of the relationship with him (neither do KSR, otherwise she would have probably written an accusatory letter and more than one, taking into account the attempts, but there are none), they only pressured him to confess for the lawsuit against the YouTuber. But now KSH is naturally in the role of universal evil, the YouTuber from the family has already accused him of spying on China and of some terrible indecencies (of which he has so far published only a photo of how he washes dishes in the apartment where KSR moved in as an adult + a stupid video with mannequins, also shot after she came of age). According to the linguistic examination, 95% of the correspondence in 2016 was not with KSH, 2018 - 97% that with him. There were no expert assessments or legally certified screenshots from the YouTuber with family. If KSH really groomed KSR, shame on him. But this is too serious accusation to throw around without ironclad evidence and for so far I haven't seen such. I repeat, I'm waiting for the court to figure out where the truth is.
How many stories have there been, when everything turned out to be different from what was initially imagined? Remember Hyeon Joong. I was among those who believed his girlfriend. Photos, certificates, screenshots. The court proved years later (!) that this evidence was fabricated. But who cares about it now? I myself read about it recently and by accident. The man was canseled and still is not in the media.
The responsibility of the media and YouTubers (not only LJH, by the way) is great here, I agree. But it is the commentators who blindly believe them and are filled with hatred, and continue to carry hatred in their numerous comments - they are also killing. You can shift the blame forever. And you can say "guilty" about the family, and about the doctors, and about the friends who did not watch, and about the exes from early or late days. You can remember that KSR's mother herself tried to commit suicide with her children, and this caused trauma to KSR, which she spoke about in many interviews. You can remember that she reportedly had about 20 suicide attempts, she was naturally screaming for help. You can blame friends and family for not raising a panic when she was still alive - still, after media reports about failed attempts, the rhetoric of online haters usually softens a little... But the systematic problem with celebrity suicides in South Korea is precisely cyberbullying of ordinary internet users, both here and on Instagram, in the comments of articles in Korea and abroad. Every few years someone dies because of persecution by online haters. After that, there is a short-term crying and a search for the guilty, and then everything repeats itself... Over and over, over and over again... It's so unright.
"It is better that ten guilty persons escape than that one innocent suffer" William Blackstone
I wrote in her defense, yes. Because she was literally being bullied for the very fact of breathing - whether she was working in a cafe, trying to tutor, or posting photos. Literally two months before her death, I wrote that I don't understand what the haters are trying to achieve, and if she makes a terrible decision, then like with Lee Sun Gyun, the same haters will cry and look for someone to blame. And that's really happening...
It is strange that among those who supposedly defend here the interests of KSR there are so many sexist, racist and ageist comments. Misogyny is in full bloom even in such case...
It is logical that I speak for myself. I don't undertake to answer for the entire universe.
And yes, I have seen quite a few of those who are rushing to blame KSH now, among those who once threw mud at the KSR. I think this is one of the defense mechanisms, so as not to think about the harm that their comments could cause.
It's sad to see how, after hounding one to death, people immediately move on to another, acting in exactly the same way. A cycle of hatred. Personally, I will wait until the court decisions.
Hating someone for something they said almost ten years ago, when nothing similar has happened since then, is bullying. Yoo Yeon Seok is a great actor, I hope he has many interesting roles ahead of him.
I really enjoy watching this drma, so I have a question. If you could reccomend another drama similar to this…
9 End 2 Outs / Alone In Love / Because This is My First Life / Biblia Koshodou no Jiken Techou / Last Christmas / Long Vacation / Love Revolution / My Mister / Misaeng / N no Tame ni / Nagareboshi / Padam Padam / Something in the Rain / Soulmate / Spring Waltz / The Snow Queen / The World That They Live In / Wish To See You Again / Yasashii Jikan
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And initially the family had no complaints about the quality and fact of the relationship with him (neither do KSR, otherwise she would have probably written an accusatory letter and more than one, taking into account the attempts, but there are none), they only pressured him to confess for the lawsuit against the YouTuber. But now KSH is naturally in the role of universal evil, the YouTuber from the family has already accused him of spying on China and of some terrible indecencies (of which he has so far published only a photo of how he washes dishes in the apartment where KSR moved in as an adult + a stupid video with mannequins, also shot after she came of age). According to the linguistic examination, 95% of the correspondence in 2016 was not with KSH, 2018 - 97% that with him. There were no expert assessments or legally certified screenshots from the YouTuber with family. If KSH really groomed KSR, shame on him. But this is too serious accusation to throw around without ironclad evidence and for so far I haven't seen such. I repeat, I'm waiting for the court to figure out where the truth is.
How many stories have there been, when everything turned out to be different from what was initially imagined? Remember Hyeon Joong. I was among those who believed his girlfriend. Photos, certificates, screenshots. The court proved years later (!) that this evidence was fabricated. But who cares about it now? I myself read about it recently and by accident. The man was canseled and still is not in the media.
I wrote in her defense, yes. Because she was literally being bullied for the very fact of breathing - whether she was working in a cafe, trying to tutor, or posting photos. Literally two months before her death, I wrote that I don't understand what the haters are trying to achieve, and if she makes a terrible decision, then like with Lee Sun Gyun, the same haters will cry and look for someone to blame. And that's really happening...
And yes, I have seen quite a few of those who are rushing to blame KSH now, among those who once threw mud at the KSR. I think this is one of the defense mechanisms, so as not to think about the harm that their comments could cause.
Yoo Yeon Seok is a great actor, I hope he has many interesting roles ahead of him.