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I agree if she leaves ML.
Then I don't want them back together

Ah got it - As I just posted and insane comment lol.
Trying to dissect the show with only watching shorts and reading comments. 🤣😍🤣🤣
Watching this show would probably stress me out too much.

But I made a conclusion that relied on nothing additional happening between them other than the kiss etc.

So up to episode 8, the only thing that has happened physically is the kiss between FL and 2ML ? ?

I haven't even started it, I have watched a lot of shorts and read a lot of comments.
Like so many others I am disgusted by FL's actions and words, even if I can see sort of why it happened.

So I will wait till it's over, see if it gets worse and what the ending is like.

* * * ! * * * Ok I have not watched this Yet (Not sure if I will lol). I have watched a lot of shorts and read a lot comments. I'm going to try to make sense of my thoughts about what I think may me happening in the show. I would love responses on if people think Am close to what's happening or completely wrong. If it's just a disagreement with my idea please mark that it's just a different view.
If I have put something that is clearly wrong for a fact please correct me.
Why I'm doing this I don not know, I don't want to torment myself by watching it I guess * * * * * ! ! ! ***

Am also going to comment first on some of the comments I've seen.

1) - The one that feels like a Jehovah's Witness harassing you every day. espousing their views on Open relationships etc. I have seen so many from one particular user - We get it that that lifestyle exists, we don't need the hard sell lol
You just need to look at the stats over 92% fail that is high number, especially when it's introduced into a previously monogamous relationship.
Even relationships which began open by agreement after meeting in those circles fail because one of them catches feeling with someone else who want's what most people would call a standard relationship.

2) - Have seen so many comments using the word Nuance to explain the FL cheating and then attacking people they deem have just looked past the NUANCES (🤣😍) and labelled the FL a cheat. Am pretty sure most people can see the nuances and can probably understand the logic that gets someone to cheat. But cheating is wrong and if people see it black and white then they do.

3) - The realistic comments - yes I agree it happens in the real world, although this feels a little dialled up to a 11, and I guess same as comment 2. People tend to dislike certain things.

4) - Technically linked to comment 3 - People moaning about cheating dramas etc.
But will watch - violent shows etc. I think that is more (well me personally) is more to do with you are not likely to get involved in gun running, or drug cartels etc.
Cheating drama's hit close home, it COULD and sometimes does happen to you, I personally think that's the difference.


* * * Anyway now I try to give my dissection of a s how I haven't watched but from Shorts lol * * *

*Ok so Leads have been together for 10 years.
for some reason the FL is given a video by her cousin (why she was recording who knows) of her BF saying the spark is gone.
Well the spark I would deem is different from love, seems he may have been referring more to you know that sexual spark.

* Both the leads have been keeping secrets omitting information or straight up lying, Either paying debts off or FL not loving her career and being depressed.

* So from the two above points she wants to break up, but they get together and then are engaged.

* At some point she meets SML who, stalks her and is apparently quite aggressive in his pursuit, and knows full well she is in a relationship.

* So with her being messed up and the pursuit of an aggressive SML they kiss.

* ML finds out arguments ensues and FL basically forces ML to be in an open relationship.

Ok I think that is a brief explanation of what I understand has happened - Am going to go a little more in depth on my take one what I have seen in the shorts I have watched and the comments I have Read. P.S I may waffle or repeat myself or simply miss stuff out LOL

ML - Ok so he seems to be clinging to FL as his ONLY lifeline as everyone abandons him (which made me think FL you BIT*H🤣) , I don't think that changes the fact he clearly loves her, and I also believe this is also sexual/partner love not just like saviour/familial love.
I watched the scene where they are on the river side arguing about what she can do with the SML, come on she was trying to get a rise out of him, that was most definitely a scene that indicated to me that they are both in love with other and most definitely are still sexually into each other, but things have gotten in the way.
Him and SFL I mean come on every short I saw of those two before FL demands he date her, came off as a lot of people said sibling, he so saw her as a little sister, The scene she offers him a cigarette and he doesn't even realise she is 28 and thinking she is a kid, that is not how someone sees someone that they have sexual anything for.

FL - Ok where to start LOL - Like ML she is F*cked up.
So as far as I can tell she has been protecting ML and feels this is a burden etc, but she has been lying about her career and her being depressed etc.
Link that to ML as saves me adding later - when you are in the middle of something you sometimes don't see the problem right under your nose.
So people saying 2ML sees her, here I go with my view on that.
Ok so if am correct about FL hiding her issues from ML, how can he help (COMMUNICATION SERIOUSLY PEOPLE IS KEY). But when she is around SML she is not being defensive or hiding so she is allowing herself to be vulnerable around him not a good thing. So SML has been what stalking her and watching her when she doesn't even know so of course someone obsessed so of course he is going to notice things she has been hiding when she breaks down because he is watching her duh.
Then add in her confused feelings and attraction then, that has made a firestorm, created by the FL not communicating with the ML allowing SML to snake in.

This and my part below about SML links in with WTF are some female viewers watching ? ? I mean come on the SML basically SA's her in more than one way when you actually think about (more detail below).

FL Continued - Like I said with ML the times she tries to goad ML, I feel that there is definitely still love and sexual attraction left between the leads. Also like so many others say, with SML this is just LUST of someone new being interested in her, in mental stake that's she is hiding from her BF and the aggressiveness of SML.

2ML - Not a fan at all, seriously hope he goes to prison anyway.
The fact he has a bad childhood is sorry NOT and excuse.
So he meets FL, he knows she has a BF, gets obsessed with her, follows and watches her, as I said above with the FL hiding the truth from ML she is being vulnerable in places that SML can see and take advantage of, and then with her week state of mind, and that fact she is attracted to him, someone new and shiny, when he Aggressively (You could say assaults her if I remember their was more than one time) kisses her she gives in and returns it.

Ok so to all these females fans (I have not seen very many on here) but on the likes of Youtube, Team SML go on girl sleep with him trash.
How I see this is, not only could you argue that he has physically assaulted her, if you think about it, when you considered her mental state, lying to her BF and all the stuff affecting her, and then he does that. That in my eyes personally makes this whole thing 10 times worse, as there is also a psychological aspect to it and he KNOWS that and still chose to look for self gratification anyway. but some women like that kind of sh*t.

2FL - I have seen a lot of comments, My princess don't hurt her.
I have not seen 2 many shorts specifically about her.
But from what I have and some guessing - As far as I can tell she has known ML for a long time and knows that he has been in a long term relationship with the FL.
So if I am right about that, does that actually make the 2FL as nice and good as she appears, as she has been pursuing a taken man same as 2ML but she has been a lot more underhanded.
Anyway I have not seen enough about her yet.

Anyway I was originally hoping than ML gets with 2FL and the other I couldn't care less about.

But the more I have though about what I have seen and read about, I am more leaning to them reconciling after they clear everything up and drop the baggage from the past, and obviously be open and honest.
This will only be bearable if FL does nothing more with 2Ml and the ML believes that, and maybe 2FL makes out with ML, When FL is watching on purpose, As I believe someone mentioned that there is a contract relationship, maybe between ML and 2FL where he say's he is not interested in her and she gives up and tries to make FL upset, then this results in the FL now ghosting the 2ML and trying to pursue the ML again ? ? ?

I also remember someone mentioning that the leads where playing sex games at the beginning pretending the FL was cheating.
Is there a possibility that that scene is actually chronologically being shown out of order and is after all these events, and that is how the leads have moved forward with the relationship.

Anyway that is what I could come up with only viewing shorts and reading comments, apologies for the awful grammars lol.

So any views or opinions would be nice.

Is these your Ideas.
Or are these official endings ?

There is multiple comments below using the word NUANCED 🤣🤣🤣
Cheating is cheating

Is that why the story sometimes seems to jump ?
Kept thinking I was missing scenes 🤣

Is it possible that the role playing is after all that's currently happening and that scene is out of order chronologically?

Same, I might wait till it's over and find out how it ends lol

I literally have not seen the leads in a scene together yet lol
Only watched 10 minutes up to her friend saying maybe she doesn't like/love her BF enough to go further etc.
I'll watch the first 4 episodes this weekend. It can't be as bad "A Love Other than Yours" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just started this. Like 10 minutes in scene at the Sex Shop.
She's is in a sexless relationship due to her upbringing. But goes on a blind date with a player Hmmm.
Ok hope this isn't one of them types of shows.

Edit : - 2 Minutes more looks like it might simply be because the BF doesn't make her horny enough to break her brainwashing. Needs a Bad boy?
I guess I'll stick around for a few episodes.

I need a change from the ML Simp trope. Might give this ago.😂

Never mind just googled it 4% in like the U.S and 92% of them fail.
Which isn't that surprising.

I would end my marriage if my wife suggested it, as I know it wouldn't interest me.
And if she said ok we won't I couldn't trust her, as well as I now know there is something she want's that I'm not providing, so I would no longer waste my time on the relationship.

So do you think it's more or less than 1 in 10 people.
Because that sounds high to me unless it's including people who try it once and realise nah that's not for me.

From what I've seen I really don't think he is all that together himself 🤣🤣🤣
He might be more messed up than her TBF Your GF has just cheated on you and that's how he reacts.

I doubt it happens 50%
But maybe 1 in 10 may have tried in there life even that might be high.

Although then again most wouldn't talk about it

Same

LOL
Not the correct site for those things 🤣😍🤣

Edit : - After looking online it says in 2014 after 5 years of dating, so it should be 2009