PaulUK

I read a brilliant comment about the people commenting online about this show and others equally derisive.

Specifically the ones defending FL and saying things like go on girl get with the 2ML behind ML etc.

They said I wonder if these women making these comments would still stand by them if their profiles where
A) No longer private and everyone knew who they where.
B) and all there comments were forwarded to their partners and families.

It's one thing to hide in anonymity defending low morals but not in person and to your loved ones.

If only people where straight up face value with what they want when they start new relationships and actually communicated during relationships, the cheating rate would lower dramatically, true some would still cheat of course, but the above would cut the need to cheat.

*** Different question ***
I know female viewers out number male viewers of dramas but there probably still at least 20% are probably still men. So I'd assume a show that has 100K watches on here probably had 20K Male viewers.

But the query was with things like I mentioned above the amount of female commenters defending or validating a morally questionable of completely wrong FL or female character seems to be relatively high.
But when you have a male character that has done equally morally dubious things I rarely if ever see male commenters defending that character.

I have always found that very strange why there tends to be a quite a large and very vocal support of female commenters when it's a female character.
But zero(Maybe 1 or 2) men defending a male character doing a similar morally wrong thing even anonymously as well.

Do SOME women think because it women doing it to men then it's ok because some men have done similar things in the past so men deserve it.

Not realising women have been doing these things all along, it just that they haven't done films, dramas or wrote about it that much.
Like when a book came out in the 1800's about a woman with a lover it was all shh shh this sacrilegious etc
It wasn't that it never happened it probably happened as much as what men did it just was never wrote about to the extent that men's infidelities where at the time and its the same during movies and TV, just because women's bad behaviour and morally repugnant behaviour isn't shown as much didn't mean it never happens, in real life as many women know very well it is RIFE with it lol

Damm I'm waffled I forgot what i wrote 💕😘😁❤️❤️ It makes sense anyway when I read it

You would hope.
Some get you loved up then surprise you with I want a open relationship

He would need to be.
Open to be cheated on, cucked, forced into an open relationship.

If the screenwriter has a boyfriend I feel so sorry for him.

That's ending i so need ML with SFL and MI Do alone and in regret

FL and 2ML could disappear and most people would rejoice

Except those that think sparks and sexual tension is the same as love.
Because they wear of real fast like a few months

Chemistry isn't love.
She has LUST for 2nd lead plus she's messed up

Thanks lol

Women (SOME) are messed up IN real life worse than the FL.
Otherwise there wouldn't be the saying a good woman can change a bad boy (and obviously we all know how 99.999% time that ends up in tears of course).
So hoping no woman has a relationship with a guy like 2ML is unfortunately a fantast as there are way too many women who look for guys like that.

Pretty much what has been happening on Social Media done by other women for the past 10 plus years.

I hope she doesn't sleep with 2ML and get back with ML.

If she does I hope when 2ML has had his way and moves on as he is going to, that she realises what she has lost and ML is now happy with 2FL, Invites FL to their wedding and she it stood at the back crying.

🤣😂😂😍🤣😂😂🤣❤️😁😁😘😘💕💕

If they have Simp I mean ML back with FL I definitely won't finish this LOL

Best choice is they stay apart and are not with the 2nd leads and are fully out of each other lives maybe one leaves the country.

I don't think I'll finish this show to be fair.

Even those who would say they would. I would doubt it.

Shouldn't be supporting it the other way either then Lol

Just wondering those people that are defending FL's action with her background etc etc
Whatever excuse you use to validate her actions.

I would love to know if the sexes were reversed and Mi Do was male and did all this with a appropriately similar background as female Mi Do and he then does the same things female Mi Do has done.

Would you still be defending Male Mi Do for his actions or is the fact FL is female the reason she is being defended ?

I know there is history and trauma (for both leads) but that really doesn't forgive the actions taken

Would love a poll below lol.

Thing is we may not be used to seeing on the screen.
But there are way too many women like FL or worse out there.

I think the thing is. We are not used to it in books or TV as it is not depicted much so it is shocking.

But it is normal in the real world just to the same extent as what men do

Hope so , have less of the FL and 2ML on the screen.

I've seen mostly comments saying he sees her as a little sister ? ?

The comment about her LUST is the main point. It is lust she feels for 2ML not love.

And that is why people cheat not because of love.

Your right about it being reality, doesn't make it any less disgusting.
Just break up and be miserable when the guy has had his fun and moved on to his next target.