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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 30, 2025
There was definitely sparks between Dr Fang & Lan Lan from the very beginning and I rooted for them. That…
Yup! He’s just trolling on loop like a busted cassette tape. Clearly lurking, obviously reading but has absolutely nothing solid to fire back with, because he knows we nailed it and it hit a sore nerve. Hence the desperate copy-paste routine spewing the same recycled drivel on loop. Big chuckles indeed!

His mean, rude spewings only super reinforced what a lowend personality he possess. Sticks and stones will break my bones but words especially from an unhinged stranger will never hurt me…😆
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 30, 2025
There was definitely sparks between Dr Fang & Lan Lan from the very beginning and I rooted for them. That…
Fairness? Since when is love a charity drive where everyone deserves a slice just for showing up? Two people clicked, end of story. Jiao can stomp, sulk, or write a tragic diary entry, but nobody’s obliged to hand out ‘consolation romance’ just to be fair!
That’s not fairness—that’s pity, and last I checked, pity never made a great love story.

Your blind cheerleading for Jiao defies logic and any semblance of objective viewing.
Highly possible you relate to him, see yourself in him and can’t help but defend him.
Really not cool and petty of you for wishing a couple a bad ending out of spite when you merely disliked their love choices. Stop projecting your bitterness onto Lan & Fang.

Imagine being so mad that your fave didn’t get chosen by Lan you’re now running around in circles asking people not to watch the show trashing Lan & Fang... Lan has every right to choose who she vibes with—your personal bias isn’t a rulebook for love. If your ‘support’ for a show hinges only on your bias guy getting the girl, maybe it’s not the show that’s the problem—it’s your fragile fandom…
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Replying to T_Wang2024 Sep 26, 2025
At this point I want to say that I went through people and saw some bad comments about xiao jiao I understand…
@T_Wang2024
You said Jiao “didn’t mean” to ruin the car and boat ride trips… He was upset & moody because Lan didn’t chat with him. Need he up his dramatic antics by blindfolding his eyes, let the rain pelt himself and retreated into an emo, sulky block? Totally turning what should have been a fun pleasant trip into a tense mess. Which mature man, in his right mind, sabotages himself like that on camera? Jiao did! That isn’t sincere love, that’s low EQ. If you truly care about someone, you don’t guilt-trip them with unsavoury behaviour when things do not go your way. Unsurprisingly, many are disgusted by his childishness. I haven’t seen a single post online defending him besides yours.

And you also implied Lan “broke his heart” because she failed to reciprocate. She MUST fall for Jiao just because he gave her a very romantic garden date, they had fun skiing, he planned surprise snow, bombed her with endless snacks daily and literally worshipped the ground she walked on etc…??!!
Effort ≠ entitlement. Efforts doesn’t entitle you to someone’s feelings. What Jiao did, all these do not replace real chemistry, respect and emotional connection. You can’t get into someone’s heart with constant love bombings when these are not paramount to Lan, maybe to other ladies but definitely not her! Lan mentioned she is looking for 智性戀 she is attracted to intellectual stimulation most probably someone with qualities she admires and look up to, definitely not puppy love Jiao who is inexperienced, goofy, always scurrying around and all antics/actions like a high school kid in love. So… why do you think Lan should be obligated to accept Jiao just because he tried hard or was performative with his endless gestures…?

Key qualities in choosing a partner include strong communication, mutual respect, trust, kindness, shared values, emotional maturity, Compatibility and a sense of humor are also important factors that contribute to overall relationship satisfaction. 
Not about who hands out the most presents/compliments, or doing 101 things disregarding whether the other person wants it or not. Lan didn’t force Jiao to love-bomb her. He chose that approach, and now expects a return on his investments… She has been nothing but respectful and polite and never did she ever proactively send him wrong signals. That’s her right, and should be respected.

As for your claim that Fang “did nothing” for Lan and is “boring”! Really? You must have skipped their fun romantic private moments. Lan clearly enjoys her time with Fang, calls him a “hot nerd,” laughs at his jokes (even the bad ones), and consistently sends her evening HS messages to him. She only ever texted Le Chen once in the beginning and Jiao also only once — to thank him for the surprise snow. Nothing more!
Why? Because she’s interested only in Fang. Lan was never interested in Jiao during the garden date nor the skii dinner date… based off her conversations! Yet Jiao refused to take in the obvious cues!

You said Fang is a bad man. Do you even know him personally to make such a sweeping unfair statement! We all jolly well seen that all Jiao’s dramatic antics led to Lan feeling cornered, uncomfortable and so stressfull till she cried bitterly!
But did Fang ever made Lan upset?? Nope! He made her laughed frequently evidenced onscreen. They match in energy and emotions and are comfy with each other. Fang doesn’t stress her out nor corner her with pressure/guilt. Fang doesn’t act out though he does have hard moments… only quietly in his room or suck up all uneventful matters steadily by himself… projecting stability and maturity. Lan is smart & discerning enough to know what she doesn’t like and who she fancies!!

No one likes to be coerced, not even by the Production Team… They can stack private dates and perks in Jiao’s favour all they want, but he consistently fell short. Jiao sabotaged himself. No amount of bias assistance could save him.
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Replying to moonfolk Sep 23, 2025
I still have to wait for tomorrow to watch Part 3. But reading this is quite disheartening for me😞 Because…
Their date should be in the extra episodes. Fang came back to the little house alone… most probably baffled by such event and arrangements.

Production Team manipulation is so darn real here!

Weibo RuYi CP fans are going ballistic over this surprise date! So unnecessary! Hardcore dump pairing the 2 together… Obviously this is another special perk again for Jiao to enjoy more private time with his goddess before the show ends with Lan rejecting him and highly PT’s agenda also to garner ragebait comments… negative comments better than no comments online.

Pretty mean to entrap lan to go on a date with Jiao! Damned! Overly partial in their last ditch attempt to aid royalty Jiao! Many questioning what’s Jiao’s background now….

If you noticed Hai Tao’s facial expression when he was explaining why they both going on another private date- Tao’s face exudes this smug triumphant smirk… eeeewwwww! Maybe i am over-examining his face…lol!
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On Heart Signal Season 8 Sep 23, 2025
Production team literally made (forced) Lan to go on a private date with Jiao after the 2 on 2…

With Jiao’s car and boat poor/petty behaviours followed by such a ridiculous arrangement. This “Royalty” is truly enjoying favouritism and special perks! This show might as well be called Heart Attack not Heart Signal…

Blatant disregard to participants’ feelings except their own bias!
Intentionally Separating 2 emotionally aligned persons.
Forcing a totally disinterested party to go on a date with a forlorn, “high-school-student” in love dude probably still desperately grasping straws of futile hopes!!!
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Replying to MAA Sep 23, 2025
Agreed with the earlier comment. It's no surprise Lechen and Yuan left so quickly. Did they? Aren’t they still…
Wrote it fast and not been clear… meant left cabin early to prevent further love entanglements and PT shooting manipulations…
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On Heart Signal Season 8 Sep 22, 2025
My take on Episode 8 (Parts 1 & 2):

Lan Lan likely skipped the 1-on-1 date because she sensed she could end up with Jiao thanks to his “royal” status.

And was Duo Duo truly late… or rather maybe told to be late?

Jiao should have been mentally and emotionally prepared for their 2-on-2 date since he chose it himself. Why should Lan and Fang have to endure his theatrical sulks from the car ride all the way to the boat ride? Gosh! Then he stands up and asks Lan, “Can we chat?” But he’s already standing up, can she even say no? Lan’s face then was like…

What is Jiao sprouting during his chat with lan… why did he even bring in his self-sacrificing contributing personality, his worry for Duoduo etcetc all sounded weird…. Though i believed his apologies to Lan were sincere.

He always claims he’s afraid of pressuring Lan and wants to give her space… yet serves up sad faces and those constant 45-degree head-tilts to the sky. If he’s truly trying to be understanding, why the constant public displays of unhappiness? At nearly 30, he should accept things gracefully instead of acting out.

Agreed with earlier comment. It’s no surprise Lechen, Yuan (left quickly for love trial), Jue, and Ruilong left cabin so quickly, truly they’re clearly “done” with the production team and the bad vibes.

And why weren’t Yuhang and Zihan allowed to battle it out? That would have given each a fair 50-50 chance at a last date with Chichi. Unless Zihan declined, it should have been a straightforward man-to-man showdown. Comeon!!
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Replying to Sandrusca Sep 22, 2025
People can like other people because of how smart they are too, it happens all the time. Doesnt mean she is looking…
If you saw what he did on the car ride too… you will shake yr head like me… chuckles!!
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Replying to Sandrusca Sep 22, 2025
People can like other people because of how smart they are too, it happens all the time. Doesnt mean she is looking…
Saw their speculated income, I do not think Fang earn alot despite him being an eye dr.
I believed Lan is attracted to Fang physically else she won’t call him a hot nerd! Plus she did mention Fang made her laugh though his jokes were not too funny… Lan is indeed the rich one with all the luxurious items on her. Can only say she chose a better fit ( not the best fit) for herself while Jiao is way far from her consideration at all!!

During the four-person date with DuoDuo arriving late, why did Jiao have to pull such a sulky long face on the boat ride and let the rain pelt himself on the boat for all to see? Theatrics again!! Grrrrrrrr

He made everything so uncomfortable and awkward. Thank goodness smart Lan didn’t pick him — he clearly can’t handle situations. Always hiding behind “it’s my first time” as a lame excuse for poor behaviors. Making others uncomfortable seems to be his forte, right along with his high-and-mighty “servitude.”

He chose the 4 pax date! He should be mentally and emotionally prepared to see Lan and Fang being close & lovey dovey! Why he simply doesn’t get it till date with ALL the obvious signs along the way and still having self pity party, behaving poorly on screen 101 emotions! Sigh!
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Replying to Pillowmonk Sep 16, 2025
This news was floating around for weeks…Long Speculated on weibo Jiao is “royalty” most probably friends…
Would expect him to be busy, scurrying about, sweating bouts and cooking at the stove… inorder to impress lan’s guest like the rest of the guys.

But that evening while all the others were cooking like mad, he is the most free… kinda SUS! He himself even responded when asked… “i learned just for her….” His first time cooking MaoXueWang. Pretty obvious he got assisted help “cooking” his dish. Were there even scenes of him doing actual cooking that dish at the house?? But obvious we got scenes of the rest of the guys cooking that evening though… well!
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Replying to Pillowmonk Sep 15, 2025
This news was floating around for weeks…Long Speculated on weibo Jiao is “royalty” most probably friends…
I think Jiao “learned” that dish outside from a friend/family…. Tabao back. Probably just reheating the dish, so he was really kinda free that whole evening serving others while all the other guys sweated it out busy cooking! Lol!

Yup never seen Jiao cooked a meal, only cleaning, sharing his love for lan to others, scurrying ard, sending daily gifts, serving others, playing with dogs … pretty common for those who normally cannot/didn’t cook, ends up doing most of the washing up.

I really do not have any favourites this season! But blatant favouritism should not be practise especially at any reality tv shows. Though favouritism indeed grossly rampant everywhere unfortunately.
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Replying to Sandrusca Sep 15, 2025
The new complaint is that Xiao Fang took Lanlan key before the Jiao park date. Basically the editing team aired…
This news was floating around for weeks…
Long Speculated on weibo Jiao is “royalty” most probably friends with Production Team, that’s why all the little perks to aid his wooing…

Saw some interesting comments on weibo which fueled my suspicion too as he looked so free when the female guests arrived and got time to serve the guests etc… During their dinner where every guy pretty busy cooking their dish. It was rumoured basically Jiao did not cook his dish himself, he just learned it the first time. Implied someone cooked and he was just probably beside the chef learning the dish… conveniently passed it as if he “cooked” that dish for the show. Even Lan teased “you actually learned on the spot did you..”?

The thing is panelist Hai Tao kept repeating his favourite dish is the 毛血旺mao xue wang … showing blatant favouritism for mentioning just jiao’s dish Only and no others! Of course delicious right if it was cooked by a professional, not jiao!

So further substantiating Jiao is “royalty”…
Moreover, when Fang answered brilliantly the question on resolving long distance relationship issues, Hai Tao looked intensely at Jiao (as he gave a lack lustre answer first) asking do you have more to add but Jiao shook his head instead.

If my memory didn’t fail me, actually Jiao has never cooked a meal in the little house before. Just made some crawfish simply boiled them and peeled for Lan (no cooking skills needed) and made a herbal drink for the whole gang still no skills required, just wash ingredients and boil away... So no way he can whip up mao xue wang himself unless he got help… kinda “cheating” in a way if true.

Well Cnetizens are really eagle eyed!
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 12, 2025
I was pretty annoyed with the panelists' assessment of yifan. She may have been brave initially, but xing made…
Actually recalling the first night text messages where the male participants left for the female participants. All 4 Fang, Jiao, YuHang & Lechen left messages for Lan during the first round.

Obviously all 4 got mesmerised by Lan’s beauty since they barely knew her at all then…

I believed Yuhang and Chen quickly shy away after they saw how obvious Jiao and Fang intentions are towards Lan.

They can still go forward but i think the PD would not allow such to occur where 4 guys go after 1 lady in a dating show. I personally think it would be extremely fun to watch if such a situation really did happen! Chuckles…
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 12, 2025
I was pretty annoyed with the panelists' assessment of yifan. She may have been brave initially, but xing made…
I kinda rooting for ZiHan because Yuhang is like a sloth… taking his own sweet time in his approach towards ChiChi… arrrgghhh. Well despite him not doing alot yet chichi still fancies him.

You hit the spot! Yes like a School Crush Student!!! 🙇
Especially his constant scurrying around doing things for her…. Paints an overly eager to please.

Wonder what are the odds of ladies attracted to guys being people pleaser, proving their worth through errands and gestures. More like Servitude instead of courtship on a mutual level.
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 12, 2025
Title Heart Signal Season 8 Spoiler
I was pretty annoyed with the panelists' assessment of yifan. She may have been brave initially, but xing made…
My top favorite scene is the dinner with Yifan, Jiao, Fang, and Lan.

When Lan felt like a drink, Jiao immediately asked which one she preferred. But Fang, already holding her favorite drink in hand with cap loosened and gave it straight to her. That’s pure chemistry! 👏🏻🙌🏻 The timing feels effortless, like they both really on the same wavelength.

Moments like this often feel special because they go beyond coincidence, very sweet attunement between two people.
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 12, 2025
I was pretty annoyed with the panelists' assessment of yifan. She may have been brave initially, but xing made…
I hope these love shows stop putting late comers, totally at a disadvantage position.

You’re right! Jiao’s approach is off. He’s sabotaging himself by reversing the natural order of pursuit and couplehood. On top of that, his communication skills are seriously lacking during his limited chats with Lanlan. Some people insist on wooing in their own way, which isn’t necessarily wrong, but there still need to be boundaries and a sense of tact. Over-the-top onesided bulldozing gets him nowhere .
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Replying to RuthOHara Sep 11, 2025
I was pretty annoyed with the panelists' assessment of yifan. She may have been brave initially, but xing made…
Finally someone on my same page! Honestly don’t understand why so many people are rooting for Jiao when all he does are exaggerated “high-performance” gestures. Peeling fruits, showering endless daily gifts, handing out umbrellas, picking trash from the beach, even kneeling to peel fruits for guests. Then there’s the overly romantic garden date (effort acknowledged, but still), the snow surprise, and so on… all these when they’re not even a couple yet. It comes across as pure theatrics — excessive, one-sided pursuits while Lan responses were nothing but simply polite. Unfortunately Overwhelming and undermining … ( if you get it you get it).

Sure, some women may swoon over this kind of love bombing, but certainly not someone as intelligent and discerning as Lanlan.
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On Heart Signal Season 8 Sep 6, 2025
A quick question here.

In previous Heart Signal seasons, the nightly text messages exchanged between male and female participants were shown to the audience — though the senders and recipients remained unknown, unless messages written too obvious. Scenes often showed participants checking their phones, whether they had received a message or not.

In the current season, the text ritual still exists…

But do the participants actually check/see the messages at all?
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On Heart Signal Season 8 Sep 2, 2025
Really looking forward to coming episodes where female participants’ relatives (most probably their moms) surprise visit the little house! Caught unware, totally unprepared… these frantic male participants undergo strict scutiny and having to answer some really tough questions!! Hehehe…
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Replying to AnkitSamant Sep 1, 2025
But if u are lifting a girl from one hand then it's not easy so sometime hand slips and it's not his fault to…
Totally agree!😁
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