I just finished Once We Get Married, which I feel like I just slogged through to get to the end - all the while yelling at the screen for them to just stop whining with their annoying baby voices. However, I really liked Wang Zi Qi, who I had never seen before in anything. And so I started this drama to be able to see the two leads in something else (and hopefully like it more?) And just twenty minutes in, I *already* like it so much better than OWGM. The leads are both GORGEOUS - they look more grown up and hopefully will act that way too? We'll see.
I like this drama until 12/13 epi,but after that it annoyed me with too much unnecessary romance.i like romantic…
Umm….not sure what to tell you if you read the synopsis , watched the very first episode and came away saying that there’s “too much unnecessary romance”? That’s. THE POINT. of this drama. 🤩
And one more comment….it now makes total sense to me if the ML was gay, and actually makes the film that much…
I'm not sure why you're stuck on this one point so much that you keep posting the same thing over and over and over again, but it's fine. It's ok if you came to a different conclusion about the end of the movie than many of the rest of us, it's certainly allowed. But that needs to go both ways - you need to be ok with other people coming to a different conclusion than you. If you believe the characters ended up a certain way, then that's great. Most of us on here believe a different thing, and that's also ok. Just let it be ok that we're seeing the ending in different ways.
I honestly think there's also an English-language issue happening here with this conversation and that's, of course, ok, but it's making it hard to really understand what you're trying to say. You're accusing some of us of being "queer-phobic" because we said that a character was queer in the movie (this would mean that we would be afraid of queer people - phobic means afraid of something) but that just doesn't make sense. By thinking that a character is queer, and being ok openly with that character being queer, and celebrating that that character is queer and hopefully finding their joy out in life, that's the opposite of being "phobic" about them.
I'm not queer myself, but some of my most beloved friends in the world are, so I'm here as an ally and an advocate and I'm not festishizing them by watching queer dramas and movies. I'm celebrating the existence of my dear friends and celebrating seeing people who look and act like them on my screen.
And one more comment….it now makes total sense to me if the ML was gay, and actually makes the film that much…
What??! Do you even know what the word phobia means? I don't think you do if you're using it this way. You're the one who keeps spouting homophobic garbage all over this page, not me. I'm not queer-phobic because I'm not frightened of or somehow triggered by queer content....like you're coming off as.
I feel like something's getting lost in translation here.
If the drama is even remotely as cool as the trailer, I'm totally in (and I'm a bit of a hard sell when it comes to historical C-dramas/wuxias/xanxias/etc)
Kdrama pays more attention to female perspective more than male perspective.I saw a lot of kdrama Most of the…
Your chosen name here tells us all we need to know about your opinion on women and abuse. Andrew Tate is a misogynist loser incel who loves to hurt women and that’s who you want to emulate? Sorry, no K- drama advice is going to help with that affliction
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And just twenty minutes in, I *already* like it so much better than OWGM. The leads are both GORGEOUS - they look more grown up and hopefully will act that way too? We'll see.
I honestly think there's also an English-language issue happening here with this conversation and that's, of course, ok, but it's making it hard to really understand what you're trying to say. You're accusing some of us of being "queer-phobic" because we said that a character was queer in the movie (this would mean that we would be afraid of queer people - phobic means afraid of something) but that just doesn't make sense. By thinking that a character is queer, and being ok openly with that character being queer, and celebrating that that character is queer and hopefully finding their joy out in life, that's the opposite of being "phobic" about them.
I'm not queer myself, but some of my most beloved friends in the world are, so I'm here as an ally and an advocate and I'm not festishizing them by watching queer dramas and movies. I'm celebrating the existence of my dear friends and celebrating seeing people who look and act like them on my screen.
I feel like something's getting lost in translation here.