Ritsu has been consistent, and consistently good actually. He's a free spirit. What's wrong with that? Masumi,…
I didn't get the feeling that they were in an ethical non-monogamous relationship. Masumi always wanted to be exclusive. He asks "so I saw you with another person". It's then that Ritsu admits it wasn't the first time. That's not poly.
Ritsu was lying by omission. Because it wasn't an understood poly relationship, that makes him a ho.
If Ritsu said "I'm having sex with other people" I wouldn't give a damn about Masumi's feelings but Ritsu didn't do that.
I'm poly. This is a required discussion. The fact that Ritsu didn't do that is what I don't understand or appreciate. We can't excuse his behavior on the basis "non-monogamous relationships aren't a bad thing".
Ritsu has been consistent, and consistently good actually. He's a free spirit. What's wrong with that? Masumi,…
Well that's on the client because it was transactional. But I'm guessing the sex worker keeping saying this is business.
Ritsu isn't shown to say that other than 1 time. He knew that Masumi feeling he could change him was a possibility.
I'm a ho. I tell each person I'm with, that I am, often. Whenever people say, "don't you just love being wth me? Aren’t we great together? We shoul move in together." I remind them that I have fun with other people. I don’t act like the perfect SO. Getting to know them and comforting them through upsets.
Ritsu knew what he was doing. If only because he recorded. This has happened to him before. And instead of trying to distance himself from people, he gives them hope that this IS going to be the time he feels more.
I have no problem with Ritsu sleeping around. I just don't think he didn't take a bit of advantage of Masumi's feelings ad likely other people's.
Ritsu has been consistent, and consistently good actually. He's a free spirit. What's wrong with that? Masumi,…
I will say Ritsu is consistent but he isn't consistently good. He knew how Masumi felt and wht he assumed and he didn't help him figure out it wasn’t like that. Yes, he warned him in the beginning, but he should have continued and not be as affectionate, seeming like a boyfriend.
I'm not expecting people to be perfect. But Ritsu made mistakes and didn't care that he made them.
He did also attempt to assist a suicide, which I'm not fully against, but is morally grey.
*sigh* I really enjoyed the 1st three episodes, but the 4th really took me out of the series. All the drama with…
I don't think we were supposed to feel sympathy for her. Maybe I'm as cold hearted at Masumi assumes he is. But I don't feel bad about her dying. And she's not going to die before the rest of the world. That's not how starving and dehydration works.
Would the mother really die from lack of water and food within 6 days?
I feel for Masumi. Being a kind person whose life motto is the exact opposite of Ritsu's is difficult. When something inside finally breaks and you have to admit to yourself that somthing makes you callous, it breaks your heart even more. You start to wonder if you'll ever come back from it. You think you'll be callous towards everything forever.
With the world ending, I can't imagine how intense that feeling would be. Masumi makes every decision right now as his last. And to think you could turn your back on someone, even knowing they deserve it, makes you think you've lost who you are. The kind person everyone tells you that you are.
I'm glad for him understanding he didn't want to go. The decision may have been because of Ritsu. But being able to say out loud "I didn’t want to" is a huge moment.
And then Yuma calling to him and letting him react, shows that Masumi isn’t the soulless person he is beginning to fear he is.
I get that the mom story was in the manga. But mangas are usually longer than 8 episodes worth of material. I can see why people think it could have been left out of the show. But it was a good thing to learn about and from Masumi.
I would be obsessive like Hira. Theres a term fp, favorite person, in bpd. It means you just feel sooooooo much for one person and will do anything for them.
At one point my fp was an infant in my class and I literally had to force myself not to play with her when she was distracted. Or ignore her when other babies needed me more.
I have had a crush on a guy for over 20 years and if I ever dated him, i would worship him like the God he is.
I have this theory that every relationship, platonic or romantic, someone has the power and the other the love. Its interesting because in this show Hira thinks he has the love and Kiyoi the power. But we see its really as close to equal as possible. With Kiyoi love at 51% and Hira's power at 51%. I would venture to say Kiyoi is moee scared of losing him than even Hira is.
I thought the 2 interrupted kisses were perfect. Decidng to make a move, even on your partner, is nerve-wracking, especially whe you hate being vulnerable like Kiyoi. Once you're interrupted you dont try again.
But omg the hot pot scene! Koyama wrote that whole thing from memory or he just added the last line?
I just made a 7 course meal. And was cringing at Kiyoi. I always say i just follow a recipe. But i made everything from my head today.
Kiyoi not knowing definitions or having full ingredients was after my own heart. But I always am feeding just me. Lol
Why did he take the bowl? Why did Hira not just get another bowl? There was more in the pot.
Kiyoi's little "Im drunk" after ranting to his man about how awesome he is, was adorable.
Ritsu was lying by omission. Because it wasn't an understood poly relationship, that makes him a ho.
If Ritsu said "I'm having sex with other people" I wouldn't give a damn about Masumi's feelings but Ritsu didn't do that.
I'm poly. This is a required discussion. The fact that Ritsu didn't do that is what I don't understand or appreciate. We can't excuse his behavior on the basis "non-monogamous relationships aren't a bad thing".
Ritsu isn't shown to say that other than 1 time. He knew that Masumi feeling he could change him was a possibility.
I'm a ho. I tell each person I'm with, that I am, often. Whenever people say, "don't you just love being wth me? Aren’t we great together? We shoul move in together." I remind them that I have fun with other people. I don’t act like the perfect SO. Getting to know them and comforting them through upsets.
Ritsu knew what he was doing. If only because he recorded. This has happened to him before. And instead of trying to distance himself from people, he gives them hope that this IS going to be the time he feels more.
I have no problem with Ritsu sleeping around. I just don't think he didn't take a bit of advantage of Masumi's feelings ad likely other people's.
I'm not expecting people to be perfect. But Ritsu made mistakes and didn't care that he made them.
He did also attempt to assist a suicide, which I'm not fully against, but is morally grey.
So they aren't killing her. The meteorite will.
I don't think he has a cold heart. But he does. And it's okay to be cold to someone who doesn't deserve warmth.
I think it’s a good lesson for a lot of people.
I feel for Masumi. Being a kind person whose life motto is the exact opposite of Ritsu's is difficult. When something inside finally breaks and you have to admit to yourself that somthing makes you callous, it breaks your heart even more. You start to wonder if you'll ever come back from it. You think you'll be callous towards everything forever.
With the world ending, I can't imagine how intense that feeling would be. Masumi makes every decision right now as his last. And to think you could turn your back on someone, even knowing they deserve it, makes you think you've lost who you are. The kind person everyone tells you that you are.
I'm glad for him understanding he didn't want to go. The decision may have been because of Ritsu. But being able to say out loud "I didn’t want to" is a huge moment.
And then Yuma calling to him and letting him react, shows that Masumi isn’t the soulless person he is beginning to fear he is.
I get that the mom story was in the manga. But mangas are usually longer than 8 episodes worth of material. I can see why people think it could have been left out of the show. But it was a good thing to learn about and from Masumi.
At one point my fp was an infant in my class and I literally had to force myself not to play with her when she was distracted. Or ignore her when other babies needed me more.
I have had a crush on a guy for over 20 years and if I ever dated him, i would worship him like the God he is.
I have this theory that every relationship, platonic or romantic, someone has the power and the other the love. Its interesting because in this show Hira thinks he has the love and Kiyoi the power. But we see its really as close to equal as possible. With Kiyoi love at 51% and Hira's power at 51%. I would venture to say Kiyoi is moee scared of losing him than even Hira is.
I thought the 2 interrupted kisses were perfect. Decidng to make a move, even on your partner, is nerve-wracking, especially whe you hate being vulnerable like Kiyoi. Once you're interrupted you dont try again.
But omg the hot pot scene!
Koyama wrote that whole thing from memory or he just added the last line?
I just made a 7 course meal. And was cringing at Kiyoi. I always say i just follow a recipe. But i made everything from my head today.
Kiyoi not knowing definitions or having full ingredients was after my own heart. But I always am feeding just me. Lol
Why did he take the bowl?
Why did Hira not just get another bowl?
There was more in the pot.
Kiyoi's little "Im drunk" after ranting to his man about how awesome he is, was adorable.
2 more episodes 🥰🥰🥰🥰😵😵😵😵😳😳😳😳🤫🤫🤫🤫🙃🙃🙃🙃😘😘😘😘😭😭😭😭
Kiyoi get it babe 🍆🍆🍆🍆