He’s a man in his 30s. Not a trainee. Not a fictional character. Not a permanently frozen brand concept from…
How predictable. Of course my points would seem irrelevant to you, as you're clearly just here to troll and make yourself feel better by making false claims about RM. It's also so funny when someone like you is met with logic and fact, your first instinct is to use ChatGPT as an excuse. Just because you are incapable of forming a logical and sensible response does not negate the ability of others to do so. I, unlike you, am quite capable of forming a sentence without the need of AI assistance.
Your attempts at making him seem like the villain are quite telling too, it shows the envy you hold toward him and BTS as a whole, especially when you consider the fact that you have also commented similar things under the other members’ pages, which is an obvious cry for attention. Well, congratulations, you got the attention you craved. RM and BTS have proven time and time again that they are good people, and as stated in my previous reply, they even have the awards to back those claims. Whereas your only merit that I'm aware of is commenting negative things under the pages of successful musicians and trying to get fans to be as narrow minded and rude as you are.
The irony in all of this is that you had to search for RM on here to make your claims. You took the time to come to this page and attempt to turn people away from him. You could have just gone about your day and not commented, as anyone who actually did not like someone would have. I have celebrities that I do not like or stan, and I wouldn't dream of searching their pages, so this is where that need for attention rears its ugly head once again.
So, what exactly makes him pretentious and condescending? What happened in his live that you would have seen, if you actually watched it? Did he not call out your name? Did he ignore your comment and answer someone else’s instead? Did he say a bad word and damage your idea of him from when you were younger? You made this claim after all, yet gave no details of how exactly he acted pretentious and condescending, so please go ahead and explain how exactly you came to this conclusion??
His toxic pretentious behavior on his live with his fans showed an unlikable person
He’s a man in his 30s. Not a trainee. Not a fictional character. Not a permanently frozen brand concept from a decade ago. Expecting him to stay locked into the overly polished, media-filtered version of himself forever just isn’t realistic.
People need to stop treating idols like saints who must be flawless, delicate, and morally spotless at all times. They are artists and human beings. That means they grow up. Their tone changes. Their interests evolve. They become more comfortable being direct. That is maturity, not toxicity.
We see only a tiny fraction of a person on a live stream. We do not know the real RM beyond what he chooses to share publicly, so calling him “pretentious” or “unlikeable” over one moment ignores how limited that snapshot is.
And let’s be factual about impact and recognition too — this isn’t someone with zero credibility who’s out here making noise for no reason. BTS were officially awarded South Korea’s Order of Cultural Merit by the President for their outstanding contribution to spreading Korean culture globally, making them the youngest recipients ever. They also received a Presidential Commendation at the Korea Good Donation Awards for their global “LOVE MYSELF” campaign with UNICEF, becoming the first artists to be so honoured. They were appointed as Special Presidential Envoys for Future Generations and Culture and delivered speeches connected with the United Nations. To label someone with that track record “pretentious” over a live stream vibe is wildly dismissive and disrespectful of all that work.
On top of that, Namjoon writes and produces a huge portion of their music, has multiple writing credits across BTS’s discography, and has collaborated with respected artists across genres — anyone who’s worked with him consistently describes him as hardworking and genuine.
Idols are allowed to be adults. They can drink, they can swear, they can be tired, they can curse a little, they can show more human, less manufactured sides of themselves. They are not required to exist in some saint-like, eternally pure, borderline virginal box just to satisfy someone’s comfort zone. That expectation says more about the so-called “fans” clinging to it than the person they claim to support.
If someone only supports an artist when they fit a carefully constructed ideal of “acceptable personality,” that isn’t really supporting the person, it’s supporting a projection. Growth is not betrayal. Authenticity is not an affront to fans. At some point, people need to separate fantasy from reality and accept that idols grow up, just like everyone else.
Your attempts at making him seem like the villain are quite telling too, it shows the envy you hold toward him and BTS as a whole, especially when you consider the fact that you have also commented similar things under the other members’ pages, which is an obvious cry for attention. Well, congratulations, you got the attention you craved. RM and BTS have proven time and time again that they are good people, and as stated in my previous reply, they even have the awards to back those claims. Whereas your only merit that I'm aware of is commenting negative things under the pages of successful musicians and trying to get fans to be as narrow minded and rude as you are.
The irony in all of this is that you had to search for RM on here to make your claims. You took the time to come to this page and attempt to turn people away from him. You could have just gone about your day and not commented, as anyone who actually did not like someone would have. I have celebrities that I do not like or stan, and I wouldn't dream of searching their pages, so this is where that need for attention rears its ugly head once again.
So, what exactly makes him pretentious and condescending? What happened in his live that you would have seen, if you actually watched it? Did he not call out your name? Did he ignore your comment and answer someone else’s instead? Did he say a bad word and damage your idea of him from when you were younger? You made this claim after all, yet gave no details of how exactly he acted pretentious and condescending, so please go ahead and explain how exactly you came to this conclusion??
People need to stop treating idols like saints who must be flawless, delicate, and morally spotless at all times. They are artists and human beings. That means they grow up. Their tone changes. Their interests evolve. They become more comfortable being direct. That is maturity, not toxicity.
We see only a tiny fraction of a person on a live stream. We do not know the real RM beyond what he chooses to share publicly, so calling him “pretentious” or “unlikeable” over one moment ignores how limited that snapshot is.
And let’s be factual about impact and recognition too — this isn’t someone with zero credibility who’s out here making noise for no reason. BTS were officially awarded South Korea’s Order of Cultural Merit by the President for their outstanding contribution to spreading Korean culture globally, making them the youngest recipients ever. They also received a Presidential Commendation at the Korea Good Donation Awards for their global “LOVE MYSELF” campaign with UNICEF, becoming the first artists to be so honoured. They were appointed as Special Presidential Envoys for Future Generations and Culture and delivered speeches connected with the United Nations. To label someone with that track record “pretentious” over a live stream vibe is wildly dismissive and disrespectful of all that work.
On top of that, Namjoon writes and produces a huge portion of their music, has multiple writing credits across BTS’s discography, and has collaborated with respected artists across genres — anyone who’s worked with him consistently describes him as hardworking and genuine.
Idols are allowed to be adults. They can drink, they can swear, they can be tired, they can curse a little, they can show more human, less manufactured sides of themselves. They are not required to exist in some saint-like, eternally pure, borderline virginal box just to satisfy someone’s comfort zone. That expectation says more about the so-called “fans” clinging to it than the person they claim to support.
If someone only supports an artist when they fit a carefully constructed ideal of “acceptable personality,” that isn’t really supporting the person, it’s supporting a projection. Growth is not betrayal. Authenticity is not an affront to fans. At some point, people need to separate fantasy from reality and accept that idols grow up, just like everyone else.