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His behaviour is not apart from the other two. It is still cheating. My issue is people justifying it. If you are unhappy, leave. And don't start with the society frowns against divorce stuff cos he is divorcing her anyway. He could have saved us all this drama if only he had divorced and moved on to other women as a single man. As he was still married, cheating is not the way out.

The word i used is "initially". If they weren't happy they wouldn't have married. It was as if they married for money.

Then dissolve the marraige before you move on. Cheating is not the answer. When you think the marriage doesn't serve you anymore, leave. Do not cheat. BHR isn't cheating on SH. He is the one cheating. A personality you are already aware of is not a reason to cheat. SH should have manned up and asked for a divorce before moving into a relationship with another woman and knocking her up. There is no excuse

I don't think she will end up with SH. There is no happiness built on lies, betrayal and the tears of others. She looked unsure when SH told her about the divorce. She always wants the baby.

Thank you. The moment he sat down with another woman and discussed his marital issues her was the beginning of a disaster. What was he expecting?? Advice??? He wanted a getaway from his issues instead of confronting them. As I said, marriage is not a room that you can just open the door and leave when u feel like. He broke his marital vows.. That is unforgivable, no matter how appealing his mistress may seem. He could have left earlier and been with his mistress, it wouldn't have been wrong. Dude is after all asking for divorce anyway

He wouldn't have pushed for a divorce if the mistress was not pregnant. Realize how he cannot even speak for himself without the help of his parents. He is still divorcing her after all while he could have done so earlier when he realized she is not what he wanted anymore and saved her the pain. That is why I'm saying Marriage is a conscious decision. He wanted to cheat and did.. There is no excuse..

Your analogy is wrong. YS broke that trust and vow. BHR didn't break her marital vow, he did. You cannot compare their situations. People making it sound like SH was unware of his wife's character. He was and married her .

This drama is just showing how there is now way to please a man or keep a man cos they are all cheating. It all boils down to thrill and lack of communication .. Two husbands are cheating because they want something new and some kind of thrill in their lifes, the other cheated because he couldn't address and communicate his issues with his wife but was perfectly fine doing it with another woman. People dislike BHR because according to them she didn't treat SH right. The issue is SH knew who she was and decided to marry her and they were happy. If BHR had been like PY what shows he wouldn't have still cheated like YS.. there is no formula to this. Cheating is totally out of the question. As a lawyer he could have easily divorced his wife and married another yet his cowardice and weak character took over.

I would have done same if I saw my husband, his pregnant mistress and his parents out and about having dinner. Cheating is not the easiest way out. I don't why people think it is the easiest way out when you have literally vowed to be with someone through thick and thin. Someone whose behavior you were aware off. It is not an excuse and I pray there will be no happy ending for them. If there is then what is the essence of those vows, we can always find someone else when we are having a hard time with our partners. Marriage is a conscious effort to commit. SH just found the easiest way out as usual cos he is still being spoonfed by his parents. As for SW, i don't even want to talk about her. She is the other woman no matter how good they portray her to be.. An adulteress. An active participant in an affair with a married man which even ended up in a pregnancy. There is no excuse to that.. She should have known better since she has been married before. Noone can justify their affair. SW wanted a mother for a wife. BHR wanted a man who will take charge and we all know SW is still a mama's boy. Dude stood outside his mistress's house in the snow, caught a cold and expected his wife to take care of him. And had the audacity to compare his wife and mistress.. SH in real life would jump to another woman if he had issues with SW.. BHR and SH are not suited for each other. SH ain't man enough for her and she is not "mother" enough for him. He could have just divorced her instead of carelessly impregnating another woman..

I disagree with this. Marriage is for better or for worse. You cannot just up and leave if you feel like. Sa Hun is a spoilt brat who is supported by his parents in everything he does be it good or bad. Sa Hun knew BHR's flaws and shortcoming before marrying her and still decided to marry her. He could have manned up and communicated his dissatisfaction to BHR instead of doing so to a stranger. Let's not forget they initially had a happy marraige . PY was a great wife yet her husband still cheated.. There is no formula to this. Sa Hun cheated cos he wanted to cos he wasn't man enough to address his marital problems. He wasn't ready to voice out his dissatisfaction and man up in the marriage. No matter how comely SW may be, she is older and should have known better than sleep with a married man and get herself pregnant. There is no excuse for that. If you cannot stand her, leave. Sa Hun could have divorced BHR and moved on. But dude had to to out crying and
impregnate another woman who would "mother" him. I don't think SH and SW will last cos I can see she is in for the baby and the baby alone.

I disagree with this. Marriage is for better or for worse. You cannot just up and leave if you feel like. Sa Hun is a spoilt brat who is supported by his parents in everything he does be it good or bad. Sa Hun knew BHR's flaws and shortcoming before marrying her and still decided to marry her. He could have manned up and communicated his dissatisfaction to BHR instead of doing so to a stranger. Let's not forget they initially had a happy marraige . PY was a great wife yet her husband still cheated.. There is no formula to this. Sa Hun cheated cos he wanted to cos he wasn't man enough to address his marital problems. He wasn't ready to voice out his dissatisfaction and man up in the marriage. No matter how comely SW may be, she is older and should have known better than sleep with a married man and get herself pregnant. There is no excuse for that. If you cannot stand her, leave. Sa Hun could have divorced BHR and moved on. But dude had to to out crying and
impregnate another woman who would "mother" him. I don't think SH and SW will last cos I can see she is in for the baby and the baby alone.