Replying to KimNana • 5 days ago
Article Kim Soo Hyun-Kim Sae Ron controversy takes another turn as police call allegations false
that's the unrealistic fake scenario created in your head , he's not really that jobless to be waiting for a girl…
I'm not saying they can't date. By law they can. What I am saying is that as an audlt of 35 years old, I find it distasteful that a man in his thirties dated a young adult woman of 19 who was barely legal. I would also feel that way if the genders were reversed and it was a thirty year old woman dating a 19 years old man. There is too much difference in their experience of the world and it feels predatory and manipulative to me to date someone that much younger when they are at that age. If it had been twenty years on and KSH was 50 and KSR was 30 I would have no problem with them dating as KSR has had a chance to be out in the world dating people her own age, having those expriences so she would have confidence and defences in place. At the time they dated he was a grown man of 30 years old. Its just distasteful to me and it feels like, if there is smoke then there is fire, cause ususally with those types of men, 15 is not that much different from 19. I feel that what he did was morally wrong if not legally wrong and the fact that his fans are now trying to whitewash his questionable behaviour and paint him as a saint is, quite frankly, horrendous. But hey, maybe he will make a comeback but one thing is for certain and this was all I was trying to say before his fanbase tried to gaslight me is that I will not be watching anymore of his dramas. He has forever tainted my perception of him now and I cant see him without thinking 'ewww'. That's just how I feel and I am not going to apologise for it.
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