Not Just Another C-Drama — Dear Missy Taught Me What Real Friendship Looks Like
I started watching this drama after watching A dream within a dream, because I wanted to see more of Li Yi Tong drama. Somehow I feel she lacks the understanding of picking up good script. So while I selected to watch this one, I did not have much hope. However, I was proved wrong.
The character she portrayed is complex, I hated her for being so accommodative and lack of basic understanding of relationship she had with Cheng. Then, I realized we all are like her, we try to compromise and forget that in a relationship its important to adjust (more like adapting to make the relationship smoother, without losing your values or identity) and not compromise (giving up something valuable for individual). It was difficult for me to watch past till episode 11.
However, this drama will surprise you.
It is a refreshing and heartfelt drama that beautifully captures the complexities of female friendship, ambition, and self-discovery. The story revolves around two strong yet contrasting women whose bond evolves through love, rivalry, and personal growth.
What makes this show stand out is how real and relatable it feels. It doesn’t just glorify friendship... it shows its messy, imperfect sides — misunderstandings, jealousy, sacrifices, and forgiveness. Both leads deliver incredible performances, portraying women who are flawed but fiercely resilient.
Best part is, it is not boring and slow. The pacing is smooth, the fashion and production design are stylish, and the emotional depth builds gradually. It’s not just about career success or romance — it’s about finding yourself and standing by the people who matter even when things get hard.
What I loved:
1. Strong female leads and their evolving friendship
2. Empowering message about independence and loyalty
3. Realistic portrayal of emotions and conflicts
4. Great OST and cinematography
What could’ve been better:
1. Some side plots felt rushed or underdeveloped
2. The ending could have offered a bit more closure
Overall, a mature, inspiring story about two women learning to grow together and apart. It’s the kind of drama that leaves you reflecting on your own friendships — and smiling through the tears.
The character she portrayed is complex, I hated her for being so accommodative and lack of basic understanding of relationship she had with Cheng. Then, I realized we all are like her, we try to compromise and forget that in a relationship its important to adjust (more like adapting to make the relationship smoother, without losing your values or identity) and not compromise (giving up something valuable for individual). It was difficult for me to watch past till episode 11.
However, this drama will surprise you.
It is a refreshing and heartfelt drama that beautifully captures the complexities of female friendship, ambition, and self-discovery. The story revolves around two strong yet contrasting women whose bond evolves through love, rivalry, and personal growth.
What makes this show stand out is how real and relatable it feels. It doesn’t just glorify friendship... it shows its messy, imperfect sides — misunderstandings, jealousy, sacrifices, and forgiveness. Both leads deliver incredible performances, portraying women who are flawed but fiercely resilient.
Best part is, it is not boring and slow. The pacing is smooth, the fashion and production design are stylish, and the emotional depth builds gradually. It’s not just about career success or romance — it’s about finding yourself and standing by the people who matter even when things get hard.
What I loved:
1. Strong female leads and their evolving friendship
2. Empowering message about independence and loyalty
3. Realistic portrayal of emotions and conflicts
4. Great OST and cinematography
What could’ve been better:
1. Some side plots felt rushed or underdeveloped
2. The ending could have offered a bit more closure
Overall, a mature, inspiring story about two women learning to grow together and apart. It’s the kind of drama that leaves you reflecting on your own friendships — and smiling through the tears.
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