I think Wookie should take a few months off too. He deserves a vacay. I know he loves his job but dayum... dude's been working like crazy for the last 10 years (glad that he can but he's big enough to take a few months off now)
It seems like I misread your comment and the intention behind it. I don't wanna share what happened to my mom but I would say it's normal to hesitate before giving your kidney to someone, even if it's your loved one who you can't live without. I have absolute respect for those who don't but I do, even though my relationship with my parents is healthy and full of love.
you could just say girls and women tbh