Soledeadolci

Truth be told, as a medical professional, I would never dictate that a person should "get another job," regardless of how a person's health was affected. Is the world that easy? I found that whole conversation to be absurd. Yes, the point was obviously that she needs to recuperate and her lifestyle is harmful to her health. Even if someone can't do their job anymore (for example, patient has brain injury or paralyzed) it is unnecessary to make that point so brazenly. And for Yiming to gulp down that information without hesitation and without feeling the disregard that doctor has for her patient (yes, I'm speaking from a very American consumerism-based perspective on healthcare), it's a bit much. On some level, it's what he wants to hear.

When does Zhizhi find out about the affair? I just can’t stand how self-absorbed her husband and mother-in-law are. She needs to fully comprehend the depth of their disrespect and insincerity.

I don’t think Xiao’an really likes Aoran, at least not yet. She’s stuck and being mistreated and misunderstood despite her best efforts. Maybe she thinks if she “wins” she can get out? I think that’s her ultimate goal.

Despite Chen Xu being immature, he really hit the nail on the head in an earlier episode when he told Gu Jia’s frustrated husband during a car ride that for all his chest beating (b/c of the blue firework production) that’s all it was. He has no insight in himself but he really does have insight in both of the marriages in this drama.

Gu Jia’s despair and rage are appropriate. If her husband had told her he felt belittled before cheating, it still would’ve been unreasonable, which is why he never could. To say these things now is rubbing salt on the wound he gave her when backstabbing her.