I agree but don't at the same time.If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to…
Yes I understand a little more now ^^ I understand that it is like this, and how it can effect someones life/lifestyle in a big way. Let me make a new point/add on... why don't people talk about these things in private? I made a post on someone else's post in the feeds but I can't seem to find it. If I make it brief it was about how people don't talk about these things in private. I understand they are hurt, but social media and exposing it to the world isn't the right way to do it. There have been many bullying accusations recently and I am sure most of them are false. For the ones that are true, why couldn't they have tried to talk in private with them? Ok, yes they may ignore you, if so then go ahead, post on social media about it but I don't really see how this is the worlds business. They may be able to solve this in private and not ask the world to handle it, making his/her career go down the garbage shoot. Even if they are traumatized wouldn't it be best to talk one on one? If that is too hard for them (like you said everyone is different) then there always different ways. Hopefully those who are traumatized get better soon and find a way to get better :)
I agree but don't at the same time.If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to…
I agree that it may be hard to forgive, and honestly I know it is far from simple. If we get down to the meat of what I am saying it would be that even if you can't/wouldn't forgive you shouldn't keep that anger and frustration inside. I understand if they won't forgive, it is natural that someone who experienced a trauma wouldn't forgive, but even so you shouldn't focus on that person for the rest of your life. This is why we have psychiatrists and other professionals that are here to help.
I agree but don't at the same time.If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to…
You are correct... I am sure a good 99% of them can't, which is really sad because it changes the thought process and life style of the victims. To clear up what I said, I meant that most people think as they grow that people will forgive them but this isn't the case. People think that time erases these things, but some people hold these matters for a very long time, not willing to forgive. However just as there are many people who don't forgive there are people who do as they mature and grow. They will still have this trauma but as you grow you know that putting these things behind you (still getting help and an apology talking is needed) and forgiving helps mentally and helps with a better future. Does this make sense? I really don't want to offend anyone on this sensitive topic.
why? He physically and sexually harassed people so what's wrong in not supporting him anymore?
He admitted to his wrong doings, but he never specified what they were. I don't really know if that apology was supposed to do something, because all it did was raise more questions/suspicions
he only apologised because he got caught.. my heart goes out to the victims, they deserve all the love and support!
I agree but don't at the same time. If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to apologies? If you bullied someone in middle school and MANY years past how would you find that person to apologize even if you wanted to? And the fact that so many years passed wouldn't you think they would put it in the past?
Note: I am not defending him nor saying he is innocent btw.
Yup totally agree. I'm still looking for one better this year and nope.
Calling him a stalker is a bit much, yes I understand what you are saying so I can't disagree 100%. He didn't necessarily manipulate her because it was her choice not to move out. She has a friend she could move in with, there are other ways yet she just tried one and gave up. As for the last sentence, he wasn't obsessive. If you want to talk about something that was worse it would have to be IOTNBO, if you think about it, the same thing happened. I see you have rated it a 9/10 meaning you enjoyed it a lot, but aren't these dramas similar in a way?
PS. I am not trying to start a war or anything, I am making a friendly argument btw.
I understand that it is like this, and how it can effect someones life/lifestyle in a big way. Let me make a new point/add on... why don't people talk about these things in private? I made a post on someone else's post in the feeds but I can't seem to find it. If I make it brief it was about how people don't talk about these things in private. I understand they are hurt, but social media and exposing it to the world isn't the right way to do it. There have been many bullying accusations recently and I am sure most of them are false. For the ones that are true, why couldn't they have tried to talk in private with them? Ok, yes they may ignore you, if so then go ahead, post on social media about it but I don't really see how this is the worlds business. They may be able to solve this in private and not ask the world to handle it, making his/her career go down the garbage shoot. Even if they are traumatized wouldn't it be best to talk one on one? If that is too hard for them (like you said everyone is different) then there always different ways. Hopefully those who are traumatized get better soon and find a way to get better :)
If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to apologies? If you bullied someone in middle school and MANY years past how would you find that person to apologize even if you wanted to? And the fact that so many years passed wouldn't you think they would put it in the past?
Note: I am not defending him nor saying he is innocent btw.
PS. I am not trying to start a war or anything, I am making a friendly argument btw.