I- well would you like some recs, or are you going to start exploring?
Honestly his only good drama has been Love Better Than Immortality. It isn't his fault, the writers just suck, I enjoyed My Love From The Ocean, but I was new to drama watching so I dunno if my judgment is correct. If you are more into modern, I would recommend Parallel Love ^^
I agree but don't at the same time.If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to…
Then again, we only know part of what happened. We shouldn't act as if we know all the facts because we don't, we don't know exactly what happened, so we shouldn't just put all the blame on the attacker nor should we defend him because we know only 1/6 of what happened. I am really trying not to defend him because admitted to some of his wrong doings, than again... we don't even know exactly what his wrong doing were.
"they are a threat to society" I wouldn't go that far.I think different words would fit better, because let me remind you that this was in middle school. I understand that just because he was in middle school doesn't mean he can't effect anyone's mental heath. I am saying that after around 13 years a person will grow, and especially as a celebrity they wouldn't do it again unless they want their career to be over.
I never said that it is was different. You are taking this as if i am on his side, but really I am looking from both sides.
You are talking about this as if you are in their thoughts. We don't know what they are thinking, what you are saying is most likely just in your POV. Not everyone thinks about how their past actions effect their career the reason being, it is none of the public's business. For what reason should they know? I really think that social media sticks their noses in places they should be. Lets say that he committed a (illegal) crime, the police are involved and he gets in legal trouble. At that moment I would understand/approve of everyone talking about it, why? Because we watch him on our TV we deserve to know why he is no longer doing his job.
Who really is to say that he didn't try to make amends? Ok this time let's say that he didn't try to make amends at all (most likely the case) who would think back to their childhood and say "well... I should go and apologize?" I don't think a lot of people would do that, and honestly would you do that? Would you remember a time like that? If/since he was a bully he most likely didn't have such an impact on these events.
People can reflect and change. They can use past experiences to become a better person. As there have been no recent news of bullying or any other form of misbehavior by Jisoo, we can make an educated conclusion that he has reformed from what he was as a youth.
This does not mean that this reformed individual would necessarily go seek out potential victims to apologize. After all, he was young and it was long ago. It doesn't mean he is not sorry or that he has not reflected on it. Just because he did not reach out to his victims does not mean he does not feel badly in his heart. I don't think many people seek out individuals from 10+ years ago that they may have hurt.
He threw a cigar butt on the floor, and someone happened to see it. Then the internet was angry at him.... I honestly saw no problem XD they were more focused on the fact that he was smoking, while I was over here saying "put it in the trash next time" XD
I agree but don't at the same time.If we turn the time back to when he wasn't "caught" how would he be able to…
I haven't thought of the fact that it may put a burden on the victim, thank you for showing me that. They could ask to meet them through the company. I don't believe that the company would just let the actor meet with just anyone without asking permission especially during this time (covid-19).
You are correct, but have you thought that after around 13 years a person can change? I agree it is rare, but when a career is at stake, you would be more cautious. It was in middle school so children are still immature and don't think about the consequences or how bullying effects others. 13 years is a long time to mature and realize how much damage it would cause someone. If you have a sincere conversation, you can tell how much you have hurt someone, this is how people feel guilt, it is because they know that they did something wrong.
No no, pls don't apologize, I like it when you are telling it to me straight and not sugar coating things.
It isn't his fault, the writers just suck, I enjoyed My Love From The Ocean, but I was new to drama watching so I dunno if my judgment is correct. If you are more into modern, I would recommend Parallel Love ^^
Me too, it still seems that this can really go somewhere, plus Rosy is here XD
"they are a threat to society" I wouldn't go that far.I think different words would fit better, because let me remind you that this was in middle school. I understand that just because he was in middle school doesn't mean he can't effect anyone's mental heath. I am saying that after around 13 years a person will grow, and especially as a celebrity they wouldn't do it again unless they want their career to be over.
I never said that it is was different. You are taking this as if i am on his side, but really I am looking from both sides.
You are talking about this as if you are in their thoughts. We don't know what they are thinking, what you are saying is most likely just in your POV. Not everyone thinks about how their past actions effect their career the reason being, it is none of the public's business. For what reason should they know? I really think that social media sticks their noses in places they should be. Lets say that he committed a (illegal) crime, the police are involved and he gets in legal trouble. At that moment I would understand/approve of everyone talking about it, why? Because we watch him on our TV we deserve to know why he is no longer doing his job.
Who really is to say that he didn't try to make amends? Ok this time let's say that he didn't try to make amends at all (most likely the case) who would think back to their childhood and say "well... I should go and apologize?" I don't think a lot of people would do that, and honestly would you do that? Would you remember a time like that? If/since he was a bully he most likely didn't have such an impact on these events.
People can reflect and change. They can use past experiences to become a better person. As there have been no recent news of bullying or any other form of misbehavior by Jisoo, we can make an educated conclusion that he has reformed from what he was as a youth.
This does not mean that this reformed individual would necessarily go seek out potential victims to apologize. After all, he was young and it was long ago. It doesn't mean he is not sorry or that he has not reflected on it. Just because he did not reach out to his victims does not mean he does not feel badly in his heart. I don't think many people seek out individuals from 10+ years ago that they may have hurt.
they were more focused on the fact that he was smoking, while I was over here saying "put it in the trash next time" XD
You are correct, but have you thought that after around 13 years a person can change? I agree it is rare, but when a career is at stake, you would be more cautious. It was in middle school so children are still immature and don't think about the consequences or how bullying effects others. 13 years is a long time to mature and realize how much damage it would cause someone. If you have a sincere conversation, you can tell how much you have hurt someone, this is how people feel guilt, it is because they know that they did something wrong.
No no, pls don't apologize, I like it when you are telling it to me straight and not sugar coating things.