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I would love to go to Thailand someday and meet Dew. There’s so much I would want to talk to him about. I actually feel like we relate in some ways. I’m a pansexual girl. I feel attracted to both boys and girls. I think both genders are very cute. I don’t really care about gender much as long as their personalities are very kind . You can’t control your feelings of who you fall in love with. I think he would understand me as he’s shown appreciation towards the lgbtq community. He claims he doesn’t care much about physical and attractiveness as well , same for me. I care about personalities more. I hope to meet Dew one day and congratulate him, telling him this is his best series. He seems very accepting and understanding towards different opinions as well . I relate with him in real life as well and I would love for us to talk about anything really.

I think we can all agree by now that Pheem has genuinely fallen in love with Jira throughout the series. Yes, he may have been a player and a red flag, but let’s just admit it, they’re all red flags. I felt so happy when he told Jira in his emotional breakdown “ I don’t wanna love you anymore, it hurts”. Jira is more toxic than both him and Koh. I’m so happy he decided to stop trying and let Jira go. If anything, he probably has the best character development out of all characters in the series. Dew deserves an award in this drama for his amazing acting. I realized he very good at crying scenes. He portrays his emotions so realistically. I cried when he hugged Jira in the ending. I lost interest halfway in the “DewGun” ship, but by the end, Dew had won me over and stolen my heart again. Dew, my love your so good at making me hate your character and then fall for him again. You’re such a good actor, if they don’t want you, then let me have you .

I’ll give my own honest opinion about this show. I know Chai Ji Dan told us that her old novel and works were written years ago and she was younger and immature which is why they are more toxic and unhinged, but I”d be lying if I said I didn’t like it . Yeah, the plot is pretty cringey and stupid . I don’t even know if it makes much sense Wu Suo Wei gets dumped and humiliated by his ex-girlfriend. You would expect him to get a new girlfriend, a better one, get rich to show off to his ex- girlfriend. That would be normal for a romance show . However, instead he decides to seduce her new lover ? Of course since this is a bl, they had to find some way to make two guys fall in love with each other . The main couple are both red flags in their own way. Asides from all that, I will now talk about what I did like about this show. Chi Cheng is a lot better than in the novel. He’s way more aggressive and forceful in the novel. He forgives So Wei even when he learned the truth that he lied to him and manipulated him into falling in love just for revenge . I liked the change they made from the novel that he visited Wu So Wei’s mother in the hospital and tells her she will get better and promising to take car if her son after she’s gone. In the novel, he never meets her and just vists her grave. Him calling her “aunt” and her accepting their relationship melted my heart. I loved when Chi Cheng hugged and comforted Wu So Wei when he was in pain, shutting down after her mom’s death. Even though, he told him to stop crying he couldn’t stay mad at him and helped him showing that it’s okay, that crying doesn’t mean you’re weak that you’ve just been strong for too long. While the ending could been seen as rushed, I liked it actually because after Chi Cheng got released from prison , Suo Wei was very happy that he was back. They didn’t need too much sexual
or intimate scenes to show that. By the end, there was no doubt that they were both truly in love with each other. I loved the changes that they made in the show, the characters are more sweet, tame and soft overall . They’re more easy to sympathize with. Overall, while this show does have its flaws , I still enjoyed most of it. Chai Ji Dan has improved significantly from 10 years ago . I hope her future new works get even better. She’s like a mother figure to me. I wish her happiness and success forever .

This is arguably Chai Ji Dan’s most famous and popular work of all the novels she has written. I liked this series more way than Addicted and the original novel honestly. It has a lot more emotional depth to analyze. We get to understand the character Wubi more than Gu Hai. Stay with me explains Wubi’s character, why he loves Suyu so much by explaining his loneliness despite coming from a wealthy family with no real friends or a good relationship with his family. I think it does a better job as in Addicted , all we really see is Gu Hai stalking, obsessing , forcing himself on and touching Bai Luo Yin without his consent. Stay with me goes into more detail explaining Wubi’s personality in depth better and he is more realistic as he’s more of just a human like us who makes mistakes in life sometimes. Wubi doesn’t kidnap Suyu or try to force himself on him like Gu Hai. He was actually very patient, always waiting and there for him and always forgave him even if Suyu was the one who got mad and started a fight. Suyu’s ex-girlfriend returning was actually handled realistically and in the right way as in the novel Gu Hai literally rapes his lover in front of his ex-girlfriend to prove that he belongs to him and is his only. Wubi protected Suyu from his toxic ex Ye Wan Ying and told her off to stay away and not harass him. He helped Suyu realize how she tried to ruin their friendship and to cut off all contacts with her once and for all. Unlike Gu Hai, Wubi handled this situation maturally and not in a violent unhealthy way . Also, Stay with me dives and explains the characters relationships better than Addicted. We can actually feel in some way that Suyu’s mom and Wubi’s dad aren’t completely and fully bad people. I think we saw them walk together smiling with a song (don’t remember the name) in the background . I think we could have gone more to see their relationship and I think the series shows they are redeemable . I think if we got more episodes they could have fixed their relationships with their children. They had the potential to do so. Also, the girl character wasn’t in Addicted or the original novel, she’s so cute and adorable . I liked that they included her . Wubi sacrificing himself for Suyu broke my heart . I mean in the original novel, I did also feel pain when Gu Hai risked his own life for Luo Yin, but even then their relationship was always so toxic that even that couldn’t make me root for them to end up together . I would have loved for Suyu and Wubi to have got together officially though and for a happy ending for them.



Stay with me is better than Addicted in my opinion. It explores the characters’s relationships, backstories in depth better . Wubi is not toxic like Gu Hai at all. I think they should been seen as separate characters. I think stay with me should been seen as a separate story from Addicted. I’ve seen revenged love, but Stay with me will always be my favorite work from Chai Ji Dan. It’s her most realistic and best work to me.

A series where Off’s character is taking care of Gun’s character? I’ve been waiting for this series for so long Finally GMMTV sees OffGun’s potential for a dark thriller series and knows how to use their talents for the best. Usually Gun is the kind, caring, sweet and soft one while Off plays a red flag character and Gun changes him for the better However in this series, it seems like we”ll get the opposite. Gun is playing a murderer in seek of revenge for those who hurted and killed his lover while Off plays a detective Off’s character seems to genuinely care for Gun’s character and want to bring him back to happiness besides just his job. I won’t make too much predictions as this is just a pilot trailer as not everything will be guaranteed. We still have a very long way to go before even getting to see this series, but I’m excited for it. I hope Off will heal Gun’s trauma and stay by his side to help him get through it all the way to help him get better and recover.

I’m the biggest OffGun fan and shipper ever. I’ve been obsessed with watching bls.

Pheem seriously gets a tattoo just to impress Jira. Him sleeping with others when Jira doesn’t agree to do it with him. Him throwing things all around the room destroying it in front of Jira? Him crying over Jira not being able to paint him? He invades Jira’s privacy and doesn’t respect his boundaries not knocking before coming in unlike Koh. He’s acting like a complete brat and so childish. He casts all nice, but really is just a player who can’t help, but release all the stress and pain in his life with sex. He might have genuinely fallen in love with Jira, but really is just someone who needs someone to let out his problems for a coping mechanism. I wanted to see either Off or Gun work with someone else for once. I was actually excited, but now I’ve
lost interested in the “ DewGun” Ship . I don’t find them cute or feel their chemistry.

Koh is manipulative, selfish and cunning. He thinks because he is very wealthy he can control others and make them listen and do
whatever he wants . He stalks Jira’s social media and even uses Jira against Pheem. He plays with Jira’s feelings using them against him.

Jira leads both men on instead of admitting his true feelings to the one he loves . He literally says that “red flags” turn him on and continues playing and manipulating both of them giving them. He stays in contact with Pheem while being emotionally unavailable. Knowing that Koh can’t sleep, he decides to paint him naked instead of genuinely trying to help. He does all this for his own personal gain, to get money from Koh and to make Pheem compete with him . He plays with Pheem leading him on giving him false hope for an actual relationship and love while waniting to use Koh are his artistic job for the money.

In conclusion, all 3 main leads , Jira, Koh and Pheem are all walking red flags and emotionally unstable characters who need therapy to heal themselves not a
relationship .

I’m actually very happy to see a series where First and Khao are the only couple because they are so cute together and their chemistry is off the charts. Whenever they’re mixed together with other couples in other shows, people always talk about the other couples as well and give them attention. I just hate to see them overshadowed because I think they’re the best bl pairing to me. They’re my favorite GMMTV ship.

First never fails to steal my heart. I love his deep voice, it’s so soft and calming. Whenever he’s on my screen , I love to listen to him talk and forgot about everything else. Khao , I love his English accent , it sounds so funny, sweet, adorable and cute. I know I”ll love this show. My ship FirstKhao being on screen means everything for me already.

Guys, so around a week ago, I wrote comments about how much I liked Dew and Gun together . You probably won’t believe me when I say this, but I’m actually the biggest OffGun fan and shipper ever. The only reason I said I liked Dew with Gun is because they’ve never been paired together before, so I wanted to give the ship a chance. I wanted to see something new , to see some thai fixed bl pairings get shipped with other actors for once. Now, do I actually really believe the Dew and Gun might actually continue to be paired in more bls together and this ship will continue to last? Probably not So, that’s why I said I liked this ship because I know it won’t actually last forever. I’m trying to appreciate it while I still can. So, does this mean I lied about liking Dew and Gun together? Maybe Now, that I think about it, I realized I might have used the wrong words in my comments . I might admire them more together than actually like them. However, this doesn’t mean I’m trying to replace my
OffGun Ship, I’ve been watching them for
almost three years now. I do actually want
them to stay together as friends. I only
mean I want bl actors to be paired with
other actors for once, but please don’t misunderstand. I’m not trying to replace anyone.

I watched the trailer for this show. It looks so cute. First and Khao are perfect for each other. I love First’s deep voice and Khao’s adorable accent. They match and fit each other so well. They always refer to each other as cats and talk about cats . Now, they’re getting an actual show with cat theme . A bl show about cats? First and Khao are perfect for the roles. It matches their real life personalities and how they talk about each other so well.

Are you guys seriously hating on me for having my own opinion? Am I not allow at have my own opinion? I’m not rooting for Off and Gun’s characters to end up together no matter what you guys say. I’m only going to ship my beloved Dew and Gun.

I’m starting to actually like DewGun more than OffGun which is why fixed Thai bl pairings should sink. People don’t know about the chemistry Dew and Gun could have because of those fixed Thai bl ships. I think Dew and Gun look so cute and adorable together. Dew has stolen my heart with his soft voice. I would ship them without even thinking about their characters in the show at all.

I think people are too used to OffGun, so that’s why they can’t accept DewGun. However, I think we should give Dew a chance. I mean this is his first bl and he claimed he always wanted to be paired with Gun one day. This was his dream what he wanted for a long time. Let’s just give it a try before judging too quickly It doesn’t hurt to work with other people once a while I don’t see what’s so bad about it Thailand is the only country with fixed ships , but let’s be honest here the most talented actors with great potential have to see new people to work together to see how they would fit. They can’t explore their full potential if their co-stars aren’t good and they’re stuck at the same partner all the time. I never understood why Thailand is so obsessed with selling ships and fan service . Like working with the same person for 2-3 dramas is okay to me, but more than 2-3 , I think even the actors will get tried and bored of each other.

I loved that GMMTV actually made a bl that portrays an internalized homophobia so realistically. I love First’s expressive eyes , he doesn’t need words to show you how he’s feeling. He seems like he can portray any character , whether it’s a kind, caring person, a morally grayed character, a villain, etc. He fits all his roles. Now, I want to talk and analyze about the character Akk. I don’t personally believe he should been seen as just a red flag. Yes, it was very wrong of him to put the protesters’ lives in danger with his actions, but he’s so much more than just a bad person. He’s still a young teenager who wants nothing more to please his parents and the school. He would do anything for his reputation for the scholarship even if it means throwing away his humanity. Young people and kids tend to follow through and listen to adults. He grew up in an environment where everyone expects everyone to love someone of the opposite sex, but very deep down he knewhe couldn’t do that. Little did he know that the new transfer student Ayan will save him from being corrupted and brainwashed in this school. I loved the parallels in Akk and Ayan they resemble Chadok and Ayan’s uncle who also had a relationship. Akk is like Chadok willing to just accept the system as it is and Ayan is like his uncle, wanting to fight against oppression and for
rights . Ayan’s uncle committed sucide , while Chadok gave in to follow the system. Ayan helped Akk realize how wrong the
school was and stop led history from repeating itself . I loved how patient and understanding Ayan was to Akk, he respected his personal space even when he saw he was attracted to him and gave him
all the time he needed. First and Khao did
an amazing great job , their perfect for the roles Akk and Ayan.