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No matter what, how long it’s been even if it’s late , Sand and Ray will always still be in my heart, they’re the only couple in the series that I genuinely ship . They fit each other perfectly. Trust issues, lack of self- confidence and self-love, destructive behavior , tendencies and health Yeah, you can say that they both need therapy and help, not a romantic relationship. But, I can’t imagine how heartbroken I would be if they didn’t ended up together They would be so lonely/alone. I beloved they help healed each other . I was so happy when they made cameo guest appearances in only friends dream on . I”ll always remember them forever as they both changed me .

I’m so impressed by Gun, Off and Dew In Theory of love I rooted, supported, pitied Gun’s character , I wish he would move on from Off’s character, I hated Khai. However, in this series I hated Gun’s character Jira. I think he’s more red flagged and toxic than both Pheem and Koh ( not combined) . I honestly wanted them to get away from him because he seemed to be just using, playing and manipulating them rather than genuine love. I would say that Jira is the real red flag. I hated him with all my heart even though he was just a character Gun’s such a great actor for portraying complex characters making you feel different emotions Off is always hot and sexy in all his roles red flagged or not He always steals your hearts, makes you fall in love at first sight Dew is cute and adorable I didn’t expect Pheem to genuinely change and grow I’m happy he stopped comparing himself to Koh and learned to love himself Self-love and Self-confidence it’s important I was waiting for him to finally snap at that stupid Jira and so happpy when he told him “ I don’t wanna love you anymore it hurts” Jittirain is good at parallels in her stories Some authors love to make connections Third said the same to Khai in theory of love But, I’m disappointed they still got together in the end. Well, I’m happy Pheem didn’t end up with Jira because he deserved better . Love’s not the answer to everything. Dew made me cry for him again just like up in F 4 Thailand Second lead syndrome does hit hard Good job to these 3 actors

I’m so happy that Zhang Jiong Min and Xu Bin still interact to this day. So, glad their friendship couldn’t be ruined by censorship in China. I look forward toe their upcoming sceduled events together. I do wish they could have some privacy sometimes though where they’re not being managed by their agencies. I hope they do a full on bl together someday.

My likes for this series
-Sarawat and Tine’s high-five
-“The love at first sight” first meeting
-Sarawat being patient, loving and caring
-The cute romantic moments
My dislikes for this series
- Sarawat and Tine have bad chemistry, they look like brothers and best friends
-Can we just agree that the Green, Mil and even Sarawat were creepy in their own ways like stalking and being a pervert
-Sarawat has bad communication , he lead Tine on to thinking he was writing a song for his first love and not being clear about his relationship status with Pam which lead Tine hospitalized and them on the verge of breaking up
-Sarawat kissing Tine without asking for consent just to get him to shut up about talking of hitting on Pear

Here is a list of my favorite scenes of Sand and Ray
-Sand stopping Ray from driving when he was drunk and taking him to his house
-Sand trying to stop Ray from drink driving again and taking him to the hospital when the car crashed
-Ray apologizing by and thanking Sand for saving his life
-Ray driving for 2 hours in the middle of the night to see Sand and deciding to say over even though Nick was there
-Sand and Ray confessing their feelings and kissing in the music room
-Ray telling Sand he wants him, not New
-Ray imagining the therapist as Sand, telling her everything of why he started drinking, came to rehab, etc
-Ray finally realizes his past wrongdoings ,
stops drinking, finds Sand and apologies for everything

Ray claiming Sand is his front to Boeing
-Sand and Ray dancing together
Forever my favorite couple in only friends and can’t be replaced

I don’t ship Third and Khai together at all to be honest. Unpopular opinion, but I genuinely don’t think that Khai has the “best” redemption arc that most people claims he has. Let’s start from the beginning. Treatment Third and Khai are best friends, well surely doesn’t seem like it Khai always ditches Third for his girlfriends . He kicks him out of his own apartment to invite a girl over. He tells Third he has a family emergency which is why he has to cancel their movie plan, only for Third to catch him on a date with a girl. He’s a player, flirts around , hooks up , changes girlfriends every week. He gets Third into a fight which leads to him being hurted. He asks him to return Milk’s stuff to her as he can’t face her himself only to get back with her . He kisses Third in the restroom with no consent pretending to be drunk while calling him by another girl’s name Now, let’s get to redemption arc Honestly, why do people think it’s so good I don’t understand why . I mean redemption arcs are for people to show some kind of change, to learn. Well, Khai does change, he stops hanging around and playing with girls, but he’s still Khai. So, he gives Third a hook and tells him to take it, saying if he doesn’t it means you don’t value our friendship. He leaves it on the floor, Third doesn’t take it. Then, when Third is asleep he kisses him again without his consent. Later onwards he beats up a boy that was just talking with Third . He gets mad and jealous when Third hangs out with Un more often when Third clearly deserved someone better who would value and spend time with him. When After they get together, he’s approached by a girl named ChingChing and tells her that Third is his friend. Now, if he said that Third was his boyfriend , then she might have backed off. But, since he didn’t it leaves Third insecure and wondering if they’re really dating or not. So, this of course leads to miscommunication. Later at a bar, ChingChing kisses Khai and Third sees this and runs away. Why didn’t he back away or stop her when he saw her leaning in to kiss him? I’ve seen many people do that before Now, what does Khai tell Third? “ You saw?” “I’m sorry” Seriously why couldn’t he
have just told him the truth ? Third breaks up with him and tells him “ I don’t want to love you anymore, it hurts” Now, when they get home, does Khai finally tell Third it was a misunderstanding? No, instead he just says that he loves him He even makes fun of what Third say about falling out of love with him as it were some kind of joke Such a horrible boyfriend Now, Khai asks Two and Bone
what he can do to make up to Third and for them to get back together They give him a list of 10
things Third hates about him Khai decided to change all of his habits He drives slower, he studies
harder, he calls all of ex-girlfriends and lets them slap him , he gets down on his knees and asks Third
out with him. Why does he do all this? Because his friends told him his past actions were wrong and it would make Third fall in love with him He doesn’t realize why he was wrong, he just listens to everything they say . He learns nothing. Third is naive, tolerates Khai’s behavior, has no self-love or self-esteem. Khai is arrogant and oblivious. Overall, I hope this love never finds me.

I love First and Khao so much which is the main reason I watched this series. If I’m being completely honest , I never got into the other couples in the series besides from Sand and Ray. I mean how could I ship Top and Mew when Top is literally a playboy who cheated on him by sleeping with Boston. Boston doesn’t care for his friends at all, he prioritizes his own needs above others. He purposely causes chaos, drama and conflict for the other couples . He’s not remorseful for his actions . He frequently cheats and betrays his friends. I don’t know why people wanted him to end up with Nick honestly . But , Ray? Yeah, he’s kinda a red flag, but not a black flag . At least he had a genuinely reasonable and understandable reason why he’s the way he is unlike the others. He has a tragic backstory and
trauma. I think he always loved Sand, but he himself didn’t realize it until Sand finally couldn’t take it anymore and snapped at him telling him to go to therapy or he”ll lose him for good. Ray finally realized he’s never been so happy before with anyone else in his entire life even Mew , except for Sand. He realized that he wanted to be with Sand forever, not Mew. I ship Sand and Ray so hard honestly and I felt like it was wrong at first because many people would say it’s a toxic relationship, but I can’t help it. I mean I don’t think they were toxic in the end after Ray’s redemption arc. People can agure that if a relationship had anything unhealthy, they shouldn’t end up together , but I think it’s subjective. If they’ve truly show remorse, regret and do everything they can to make up for their wrongdoings,
then I believe it’s okay for them to get together. Honestly, Ray has always and will forever be my favorite character in only friends and SandRay will always be my favorite couple.

This is probably the only series where I genuinely didn’t feel Off and Gun’s connection and rooted for them . I mean Jira and Koh have like basically no character development from beginning to end. They’re still the same manipulative red flags as they were from early on in the series. Koh asked Jira “ Do you really think I loved you” I don’t know if that was the exact words, but I’m sure it’s close . He’s denying his own feelings. Though, Jira deserves it as he plays with both men. The fight scene was intense. When Jira just letted Pheem and Koh grab, hit , punch, fight each other , I was like that’s it I seriously have no sympathy or pity for this character anymore. He’s no victim to me, he’s worse than both of them. I hate Jira with a burning passion if I’m being completely honest . I think Pheem probably
is the only one at the end who has a chance
of changing. You can agure that his smile is fake and he’s only pretending, but as long as he stays away from Jira and Koh, I believe he will get better. Great job to Off, Gun and Dew in this series . Off for portraying a complex character so well that you don’t even know how to fully feel about him. Gun for making us genuinely hate him and feel no sympathy for him which I didn’t think was possible. Dew, for showing even a playboy can change when fallen in love.

I still remember Off and Gun when they first became popular from Theory of Love and Dew in F 4 Thailand. I’ve know most people know them for these shows . I always knew they all had the potential to show off their acting in a show all together. Off and Gun remind me my friends in real life. They’re energetic, playful , funny , sweet and love to talk just like my friends. Dew reminds me of myself , I’m the opposite of my friends, I’m quiet and introverted , but also very kind and caring. In fact we both have the same personality types . We’re both INFJs. We’re both cat lovers too. This show showed off all 3 of their talents very well.

I was left traumatized and crying because of the comments Did they ever stop to consider I’m human too and I make mistakes like everyone else ? I’m a sensitive person and they never stopped to consider how their words can hurt and would make others feel All because of a joke I made to try to feel happy. No one stopped to consider about how much their words and actions can affect and impact others .

Thanks for understanding and not being like everyone else who hated and attacked me.

Pheem hugging Jira in the end was much more than just a hug. It expressed so much emotions like grief, sadness, pain, unrequited one side love. You can see the contrast with in how the actors portray their emotions . If you look into Gun’e eyes, you can clearly tell that it doesn’t mean anything to Jira. He has a blank emotionless face. He wants to be with Koh, not him . He”ll never love him the same way he loves Koh . However, when you look into Dew’s eyes you can clearly see a relief of letting go of someone who played who his feelings , but still sadness of being hurt not getting who he genuinely fell in love with. Him patting Jira’s head and caressing him shows that despite everything that happened he still cares for him. Gun and Dew both did an amazing job in this scene. I realized that
Dew is very also very good at portraying emotional scenes and complex emotions . He’s come a long way since F 4 Thailand . This series really gave him the spotlight to shine. He ‘s so good in both straight dramas and bls.

I would never kiss anyone unless I really get into a relationship with someone . At most I”ll just ask for a hug. I’m not comfortable enough to kiss anyone except my mom . You people didn’t even stop for a moment to really think if I was serious. You all just attacked me I’m a shy, quiet introverted and sensitive person and I only made up a fantasy of me and Dew together in my mind because I wanted to feel happiness and feel closely connected with someone. I continue to play around with the people who attacked me to see how they would react . You people never stopped to think if I was just joking or stop to consider my emotions of how I would feel and how much your words could hurt me. However, it’s true that I always wished to go to Thailand and meet Dew someday . We have a lot in common and I would love for us to just talk.

Thanks for understanding I don’t know why I’m being attacked and harassed by people. I just admire Dew and want nothing more than to be friends. I don’t know why they can’t understand that. I”ll ignore these people.

I’m done with this conversation . I will admire who I want . You can think I’m obsessed or a stalker or whatever. I’m done talking . I just want to like someone. I tried my best to respect everyone and their opinions, but you people all just think I’m some crazy weird obsessed girl. I just want to be friends , nothing more. I tried my best to be respectful, but you people can’t do the same back.

I’ve seen many fans hug and kiss their idols before, so I don’t think it’s weird. Plus, I”ll ask for permission/consent. I won’t do it if he says no and won’t let me. If you have a problem with who I like , then that’s your problem. I”ll just tell you right now, I already have a crush on someone else I have a very long way to go until I decide my relationships in the future. I hope you’re satisfied now.

I can’t believe you think like that. What did I ever do to Dew? Did I ever break into his house? Did I ever stalk his social medias to find his phone number and personal information? Did I steal his personal belongings? Did I invade his privacy and harass him to get attention? I’m not obsessed with him, I just admire and like him as an actor and celebrity that’s all.

I can’t believe you’re saying I’m a stalker and an obsessive fan right now. I just want to meet Dew and be friends when I’m older. That’s all . What’s wrong with you all people?

So, I’m weird for liking someone? Al I said was I wanted someone to understand me and relate to. I didn’t ask for anyone’s opinions. If you have nothing nice, then don’t say it.

I also just realized Dew is of Chinese descent. I’m a Chinese person, no wonder I feel more closely connected to him than other Thai bl actors. We both are supportive towards the LGBTQ community and are very understanding towards people’s opinions and choices. We actually have a lot more in common than I thought. I can’t wait to go to Thailand when I’m older. I”ll be so happy to meet Dew and I”ll ask for his permission/ consent to give him a kiss on the cheek.