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I hate the ML
I had so much hope for this drama with its interesting premise of a butcher's daughter as the FL. In most c-dramas I've watched, the woman is polished and refined. I love that this FL doesn't fit into that mold.
To begin with, I have nothing against the actor himself. I know actors can get typecast. This is the second drama I've watched with Zhang Ling He. Do the directors make him force himself onto women in every role he has? I hated Princess Royal when he tried to sexually assault the FL. I stopped watching Pursuit of Jade after he forcefully kisses the FL. TWICE. Not once. TWICE. If a woman forcefully pushes a man away after he tries to kiss her, a good person wouldn't try to kiss her again. I will not be watching any of his other shows unless I know that his character doesn't behave like an aggressive jerk who doesn't care about getting consent from someone he supposedly loves.
Another reviewer complained that I shouldn't care about the lack of consent since this is a historical drama and women were viewed differently in the past. My response: "Since this is a historical drama, in history, could people leap over buildings and large distances because they knew martial arts? Or keep fighting at peak capacity after being stabbed/getting hit by arrows repeatedly? Having a butcher's daughter who is adept at martial arts & able to catch the heart of a nobleman is also historically inaccurate. Most of us watch these shows because they're fiction and not historical documentaries. If the writers/directors can take liberty with one plot point, they have the choice to take liberty with other plot points. I'm sick of purity culture and the harmful belief that a FL needs to be forced into anything sexual because "good women" don't have sexual desires. There are plenty of shows where consent is respected. A person who truly loves their love interest would ask for consent. They wouldn't disrespect the person they supposedly care about by forcing any form of physical intimacy. That's true regardless of the year we're in--whether it's in the past or present."
To begin with, I have nothing against the actor himself. I know actors can get typecast. This is the second drama I've watched with Zhang Ling He. Do the directors make him force himself onto women in every role he has? I hated Princess Royal when he tried to sexually assault the FL. I stopped watching Pursuit of Jade after he forcefully kisses the FL. TWICE. Not once. TWICE. If a woman forcefully pushes a man away after he tries to kiss her, a good person wouldn't try to kiss her again. I will not be watching any of his other shows unless I know that his character doesn't behave like an aggressive jerk who doesn't care about getting consent from someone he supposedly loves.
Another reviewer complained that I shouldn't care about the lack of consent since this is a historical drama and women were viewed differently in the past. My response: "Since this is a historical drama, in history, could people leap over buildings and large distances because they knew martial arts? Or keep fighting at peak capacity after being stabbed/getting hit by arrows repeatedly? Having a butcher's daughter who is adept at martial arts & able to catch the heart of a nobleman is also historically inaccurate. Most of us watch these shows because they're fiction and not historical documentaries. If the writers/directors can take liberty with one plot point, they have the choice to take liberty with other plot points. I'm sick of purity culture and the harmful belief that a FL needs to be forced into anything sexual because "good women" don't have sexual desires. There are plenty of shows where consent is respected. A person who truly loves their love interest would ask for consent. They wouldn't disrespect the person they supposedly care about by forcing any form of physical intimacy. That's true regardless of the year we're in--whether it's in the past or present."
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