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You need to scroll back to several days worth of comments. Many of us discussed the ”bff” within the first 10 episodes of the drama. Surprisingly there were many comments that said it was ok for the bff and ex to be together.

I’m not a fan of them, and especially of the so called bff. While time did pass before the ex fiancé agreed to date the bff she started getting close to him IMMEDIATELY after he and her bff broke up. Her actions showed that she only had him in her sights. She always spoke to him alone when they were in a group setting. And how she visits him at work and at his place ALONE, and hides it from her friends. If she had any integrity and value her friendship with JX she wouldn’t have nor maintained her feelings for the guy. MUCH LESS acted on them. And when she did she should have spoken to JX about her intentions first before acting on them, to ask JX for her thoughts and/or blessings. She did none of that and she had the gall to feel hurt, and pretend she did nothing wrong. Worse, she let YC take the blame that he initiated their relationship, when she was the one who confessed to him first and told him that she would wait for him forever after he said he needed more time. Everything she said and did was done purposely, deceitfully. She knowingly had been lying and hiding her behaviors and whereabouts every time her friends ask her what she was doing or where she was hanging out.

Her behavior is not that of a true friend. A real friend would consider your feelings before doing something that impacts you. And dating your ex fiancé, someone you dated for FOUR years, would certainly be a big impact. A real friend would ask you how you’re feeling and check up on you after your breakup. Not spend her time with the EX fiancé to see how he’s doing and taking care of him.

They have two kids but one is unnamed lol:

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There’s a saying that you can forgive but not forget. IMO, even if FL decides to forgive the friend she shouldn’t still allow them to be close anymore.

But knowing how cdramaland is the FL will be all forgiving and generous, still keeping the friendship the same…such unrealistic view and gives off the wrong message!

Because she’s pretentious. We all saw how she sidled up to the guy every time she was around him. She played an innocent, like she was just making conversation with her fellow alumni/best friend’s bf. But in all honesty, she wanted to be close to him.

Exactly. It is weird enough that she would go after her BEST friend’s ex but she also does it almost immediately after their breakup. There’s no hesitation or signs of guilt. She doesnt call or check in on her friend. She doesn’t THINK about hurting her friend’s feelings or consider HOW she would feel. She doesn’t seem to consider her friend AT ALL. Regardless that time has passed and her friend seems to move on. This was a guy that her best friend dated for FOUR years. It was not a platonic relationship, they shared a bedroom. How could she not give her friend the courtesy to ask if it was ok that she dates him BEFORE making her move on the guy??

I saw those comments too. Makes me scratch my head and wonder…if they have such a friend in RL, would they really think it’s ok to have that friend and EX hang around?

In one of the group scenes it was mentioned that her job is similar to LL (I think in between sales or marketing) but I don’t recall seeing any scenes of her at her job. She’s always after the ex, either she’s at his work or his home. SMH

If she was a true friend and care about affecting her friendship with JX she could’ve consulted one of the gfs about her feelings and ask for their opinion. But she doesn’t tell any friends, she lies and hides her whereabouts and behaviors from the very beginning. Not an honest person or trust worthy friend at all.

It’s not realistic at all. It’s a bit much (actually, A LOT) to think any woman could be ok with that type of betrayal …

I fast forward the scenes she and the ex are in. Haha.

Same. While it’s bad enough that she’s breaking the girl code by going after her friend’s ex but she’s 1) sneakily doing it and 2) shes not there for her friend, pretending to be busy with work

She’s one of the best friends. But clearly her friends think more of the friendship than she does. She’s not a true friend at all. I hope that JX and the other two friends will give her hell when they find out what she’s been doing and where she’s been spending her time.

I wonder if there will be a spinoff with Meng Xiao Dong and Lin Lin? And I thought Wu Wei felt some attraction to Zheng Yi?

Exactly. These adults are so petty.

Everyone’s adoration of the ML is a bit much for me. Just seems unreal in a foreign country. But ML’s obvious feelings for FL doesn’t feel forced, she did catch his attention first. I believe her looks was what called to him. And then to find that she’s also likeable? (personality-wise) Added that he’s never had a lover before, obviosuly, he’s going to adore her hard. Plus, the first few stages of a relationship are always the strongest and lovey-dovey.

Exactly. That was such a cop out way to justify their actions to get the family back together.

I haven’t watched the last 3 episodes yet but I have to say that I agree with everything about the grandpa and aunt, their explanation was total B.S. If they truly felt remorseful they would have reached out to make reparations. Didn’t they have multiple print runs if it was so popular? They could have also corrected the author names with the reprints.

I know all of that, thanks. I was questioning why that was showing, if they’re hinting at s2.

What is up with that ending? I felt like I missed something. Why is there a video of FL’s wedding night with her ex showing right before she’s about to kiss ML at their wedding?? And the ex’s sister is watching it?? Gross.

Viki subbed it and I enjoyed the drama so much more watching from there.

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Thanks, appreciate the advice!