I saw shampoo and hair and now All I am thinking about is this scene (from about 3 min into this video). https://youtu.be/_fhTkmE4F4U…
I forgot about this scene. I've always thought of Jang Hyuk as a good actor (never wondering what he looked like shirtless), but this was the first time I ever viewed him as sexy.
Since I am a hapa haole (my mother is Japanese and I was born in Iwakuni, Japan; our Sato clan home is Morioka, Japan), men with long hair have always been a part of my life.
My favourite look for a man would have to be with white hair and long robes.
Yang Yang in Love O2O rocks that look in his gaming scenes (he literally floats when he walks).
As a product of a Japanese war bride and an American Seabee, I lived in Southern California in the 60's. Being raised more as a traditional Japanese, my mother and I would watch the Japanese television shows. My favorite being Shadow Warriors with Sonny playing Hattori Hanzo. He was my idol and loved the wood burning ofuro!
As a child with a Japanese mother and a Seabee father, born after WWII in Japan and growing up on military bases filled with hate and discrimination. I stayed hidden in the house (going outside as a female was frowned upon by my traditional Japanese (poor English communication skills) mother, so I escaped into books. That probably led to my love of language, so I really appreciate your writing.
My mother enjoyed classical music, so Operas were played along with traditional Japanese music (on LPs!) as well as watching the Japanese shows on television (no subtitles). Since traditional attire for Japanese men were skirted/robed rather than trousers, I never thought of clothing as being an identifier for gender (colour may though since humans seem to want bright colours for females and drab colours for males unlike birds) and since historically it seemed that warriors would have bromances (a word that I didn't grow up with since I was born in 1954) or very close relationships with other men. I've always thought that love didn't have a gender; one falls in love with the person, not their genitalia.
I love the fact that there are many words to identify sexuality, but admit that I'm rather confused as to what definition defines me. As a celibate Asian (although I have been married twice and borne a child), perhaps gray asexual best fits me as I find I'm much more attracted to someone's intelligence and sense of humour.
My favourite look for a man would have to be with white hair and long robes.
Yang Yang in Love O2O rocks that look in his gaming scenes (he literally floats when he walks).
My mother enjoyed classical music, so Operas were played along with traditional Japanese music (on LPs!) as well as watching the Japanese shows on television (no subtitles). Since traditional attire for Japanese men were skirted/robed rather than trousers, I never thought of clothing as being an identifier for gender (colour may though since humans seem to want bright colours for females and drab colours for males unlike birds) and since historically it seemed that warriors would have bromances (a word that I didn't grow up with since I was born in 1954) or very close relationships with other men. I've always thought that love didn't have a gender; one falls in love with the person, not their genitalia.
I love the fact that there are many words to identify sexuality, but admit that I'm rather confused as to what definition defines me. As a celibate Asian (although I have been married twice and borne a child), perhaps gray asexual best fits me as I find I'm much more attracted to someone's intelligence and sense of humour.