Terstan

I guess I’m not a good communicator. I’m not trying to state on his level of guilt. I’m trying to talk/ discuss our actions. hmm let’s see if I can put it this way.
hating on one man no matter how terrible you think that one man is. isn’t going to change the world. it’s not going to make the victims feel better. as most of the comments are from people that aren’t involved with the people.
so what are our comments accomplishing in the end? are we discussing/ learning/ changing opinions? or are we just being bullies because it’s easy? it’s easy to say pedophiles are the shit of the world- because they are. but saying that and then closing the app and living your life does nothing to stop them. so what are we doing right now to make the world a better place?
telling people to kill themselfs - not helpful.
telling people they are a piece of shit- might feel satisfactory - but not helpful
and this case is a perfect example.
people are so caught up in judging this actor that that’s all they are doing. and I’m simply asking is that all this case is worth?
hate him all you want- but crimes are still happening. bad things happen in the world everyday. so what are we doing to combat that? where is the hate for that?
where is the action being taken?
this is a case and it needs to be taken care of- absolutely yes.
some believe he is guilty. I’d say to those people ok, then do something about it. don’t waste time on the internet bullying. insulting him isn’t going to change anything. his actions are in the past. so boycott his stuff if you want share the evidence if you want, but more importantly I hope you think bigger picture. he’s one man. let’s not only focus on one man. lets focus on trying to stop the crime in the future. let’s try to show the people that could be still suffering they have a way out. because there are so many more criminals to deal with and so many more people that need help.

to those that believe he’s innocent- they have a right to that opinion. they have a right to ask for evidence and for everything to be double checked. because in the end he is a human too- and this is directly impacting his life. all that is being said/ done can impact him. he’s been accused so he will have to deal with the discussions. but by what seems to be a slim chance that he is innocent - then all those cruel insults/ demands for death/ we’re said to someone who wasn’t guilty. and regardless no one deserves to be bullied even if they are complete trash- bag. because we should be better the the trash of the world.

so in conclusion- discuss all you want that’s how we come to conclusions. if it’s already a truth for you that he’s guilty let’s stop the pointless bulling and actually do something about it. - and accept you could be wrong, so make sure you wouldn’t say anything you would regret later
for those that think he’s innocent question all you want, it’s important to get both sides, but also be willing to accept you could be wrong so also don’t say anything you would regret later.

hopefully that clears up the point I was trying to make?

I’m sorry that that’s what you see when you read my comments as that is not what I’m trying to say at all. I hope you are able to make the world a better place, and can find happiness.

I’m not rooting for or against is my whole point tho. I’m waiting for all information to come forward to see all the evidence. I’m not rooting for an abuser if anything I’m rooting for the right to a fair trial, and the right not to be cyber bullied. because if he’s guilty all of this hate. what will it have accomplished? by all means stop supporting/ unfollow. but if we spent even half as much time in trying to spread awareness about mental health/ knowledge of toxic traits to look for. education on what a healthy relationship looks like. we could be preventing more victims. but instead we are so caught up throwing hate via the internet, that we are loosing focus on what truly matters and that’s making the world a better place. if he’s guilty he’s guilty, could he be innocent? maybe. if you are all 100% sure he’s guilty then yelling at him over the internet isn’t going to benefit anyone.

in other words evidence doesn’t equal fact/ truth, not until all the evidence is there/ has been examined. evidence suggests something happened. gives a reason why we are to believe that to be true. so while evidence is important the source/ context of that evidence is too otherwise it’s just a piece of information. it’s why when thing go to court both side are given a chance to give evidence/ speak on the evidence. there is so much more to analyze. a fingerprint at the crime scene. doesn’t mean you got the guy. it just means you have proof they were there. is that a very good starting point? yes it absolutely is, and that person should be questioned. but again you have to give that side a chance to explain why their fingerprint was there, do they have eveidence to back up their claims? maybe they have a camera footage of them at a diffent place entirely at the time of the crime and that fingerprint was from the day before. but you already condmed them as guilty. so is there evidence of a crime yes. but we haven’t heard the counter argument/ looked at the other evidence that could be vital to the investigation. so I’m simply waiting for both sides.

it is evidence. but of what context is the evidence there’s so much media opinion in it. what is the context of the letter/ what is the timeline of the photos. private messages which ones? the only ones I’ve seen are about the debt. I’m not saying he is innocent. I’m just also not saying he’s guilty. I’ll wait.

people might hate me for this post But I think it’s important to wait for the facts. Media/ YouTube channels are not facts. And in the end people’s opinions on things are really just opinions. It’s no one’s fault when people commit suicide. It’s sad that they made that decision but in the end you can’t blame one person or one thing it’s a multitude of things . As for the relationship. I like to believe in people. And would hope that their is no illegal activity/ inappropriate relationships with minors. If it’s true I’m disappointed but that doesn’t mean hate/ ridicule is deserved. The law will take care of it, and he’ll then have to deal with the concequences. -losing his job, possibly prison time(depending on court descion) and then picking up the remaining pieces of his life left and living with what he did forever.

however if he is innocent, he has lost jobs, lost reputation, had hate to the extreams.

everyone is so ready to jump the gun in either direction. is it because he’s popular? do people feel the need to judge quickly?
I’ll be on the fence and wait. I don’t want to claim people are innocent when I don’t know them/ all the facts, but I don’t want to condem them when all I have are things shared by people I also don’t know. the world is a scary enough place, and I don’t think spreading hate, unconfirmed information/ claims of guilt or innocenense helps anyone. let’s not jump the gun to judge people. and even if we do judge people hate/ telling people to die is not the way to go. you can unfollow/ stop supporting/ and block. there’s no need to spread hate. hate doesn’t fix a crime. hate doesn’t help a victim. hate just creates more pain. violence isn’t solved with violence.
so here’s to waiting.

your reviews are spot on, and I have also watched/enjoyed several of these shows. perhaps we have similar taste 😁 I’ll look forward to more of your reviews as I watch the ones I haven’t seen yet.