omg stop! The hate is NOT because she chose Xilun. It’s her behavior!! If she just had set with Hewen earlier…
It’s okay to consider and choose right? At the end of day she is looking for partner, not some vegetable in the market. You may watch all these eps in months, but for Yue Er, it’s barely weeks.
She is just 22 years old for God’s sake. Everyone in early 20s is still figuring out lives. So what if she wanna be picky? She is pretty, she is smart. Everyone born with own personality and struggles.
If one want to be prioritized, it’s not wrong. It’s not crime. Who the hell dont want to be prioritized? Being firmly chosen too is not a crime.
Looking for partner aint like choosing vegetables in market, if you can find in first sight its good. But if you cant, you are allowed to consider!!
You may watch the whole show in months, but they only know each other for barely weeks.
I love to see Yue’er and Xilun together. Xilun gave her the security (安全感) and the feeling of being chosen without having to ask, having to beg, like he knows how to keep boundaries with other ladies (hence why pretty Mengmeng said she is okay on how he treated her because Xilun shows great interest to Yue’er)
Meanwhile HeWen on the other hand, he cant communicate. And obvs cant give the security and did not show interest either to Yue’er. If he truly only has eyes for Yue’er, why would he said he would learn to cook for XiaoYu and etc etc. know some boundaries.
However, I think Yue’er like the “expectation” she build on HeWen by herself. She thought HeWen first step to grab her card was a man that is capable to show her security, but after the XiaoYu episode, it’s all just Yue’er own expectation, imagination that HeWen was like that. When in fact, HeWen was very far from being able to give the “feeling of secured”.
First of all, i like this drama. TTJ accompanied me for months , so thankyou.
Second of all, i am happy with this ending. YXW LSS never trust TTJ. No matter what she said that she trust him in the ep 34-35. The fact that she went to Devil Palace is not necessarily because she rly trust TTJ, but just wanna prove that she is right to GYJW. Bcs if she rly trust TTJ, she wont give up that easily on him - just like she didnt give up finding those tears, 9 nails and etc. She shouldve known that its all an act from TTJ. And this kind of ending is what they deserved. TTJ sacrificed everything for her, for the world, for their daughter. TTJ gave LSS what she always wanted. It’s the most logical ending in my opinion, no matter how much I want it to be happy ending (trust me, i was about to drop the drama at ep 35 bcs I dont want OE or BE), but after rly think about the whole plot, it’s the best ending (imo, you may disagree)
Taking ep 35 as the final. See you guys next Thursday after I can bingewatch everything (or after I read HE spoiler in the comment) if not, i’ll just take 35 as my ending of TTEOM.
TTJ’s heart was the one got stabbed, but my heart ache too 🥲🥲 somebody help. Youku pls give us fast track to 40. Dont torture us like YBC torture all of them 🥲
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She is just 22 years old for God’s sake. Everyone in early 20s is still figuring out lives. So what if she wanna be picky? She is pretty, she is smart. Everyone born with own personality and struggles.
If one want to be prioritized, it’s not wrong. It’s not crime. Who the hell dont want to be prioritized? Being firmly chosen too is not a crime.
Looking for partner aint like choosing vegetables in market, if you can find in first sight its good. But if you cant, you are allowed to consider!!
You may watch the whole show in months, but they only know each other for barely weeks.
So haters, go get a life.
Meanwhile HeWen on the other hand, he cant communicate. And obvs cant give the security and did not show interest either to Yue’er. If he truly only has eyes for Yue’er, why would he said he would learn to cook for XiaoYu and etc etc. know some boundaries.
However, I think Yue’er like the “expectation” she build on HeWen by herself. She thought HeWen first step to grab her card was a man that is capable to show her security, but after the XiaoYu episode, it’s all just Yue’er own expectation, imagination that HeWen was like that. When in fact, HeWen was very far from being able to give the “feeling of secured”.
Second of all, i am happy with this ending. YXW LSS never trust TTJ. No matter what she said that she trust him in the ep 34-35. The fact that she went to Devil Palace is not necessarily because she rly trust TTJ, but just wanna prove that she is right to GYJW. Bcs if she rly trust TTJ, she wont give up that easily on him - just like she didnt give up finding those tears, 9 nails and etc. She shouldve known that its all an act from TTJ. And this kind of ending is what they deserved. TTJ sacrificed everything for her, for the world, for their daughter. TTJ gave LSS what she always wanted. It’s the most logical ending in my opinion, no matter how much I want it to be happy ending (trust me, i was about to drop the drama at ep 35 bcs I dont want OE or BE), but after rly think about the whole plot, it’s the best ending (imo, you may disagree)
Thankyou.