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The ML especially has always been very blunt, almost brutally honest and with his low EQ, he often says the truth without realizing how hurtful or insensitive it can sound. Although rude in the beginning he eventually comes around and has his own character growth.

I 100% agree with you. They both have flaws, but that doesn’t automatically make them red flags. They have their share of miscommunication, but their actions often showed what their words couldn’t. Considering everything they were going through emotionally, especially the FL’s grief after losing her best friend, I can understand why she struggled to communicate and eventually left. To me, that’s what makes them feel like real, flawed characters rather than simply “toxic” or “red flag” characters.

can't wait I'm so sold. give me the yearning!!!

happy birthday!! also does anyone know what does his tattoo say?

aaah...so true...even also those cherry blossom scenes are so photocard worthy 🤌🏻😻

Xingxu's CEO energy is a new high and yuxiao's cuteness and feminine energy is unmatched. The cinematography is peak. The amount of screenshots I converted to wallpaper is unmatched. Aagh I wish I could erase my memory and watch it all over again for the first time. regardless I'm going on a re run 😂😂

Also now that your pea-sized brain has finally formed a take, you’ve decided I’m the spokesperson for every unethical trope ever written? Babe, please.

And if your brain thinks that double standard is fine, God help us when you start analyzing the misogyny K-dramas have been bathing in for decades. You want a list? Honey, I could give you a library.

So before you talk like I was front row cheering unethical romances, ask yourself:
Are you upset about the trope or just mad someone finally called out your convenient morality?

Oh wow—where exactly did I say I was cheering for doctor-patient romance in the listed dramas? Did I wave pom-poms and yell "Go violate professional boundaries!"? No? Then why are you talking like I was the director, screenwriter, and fan club president of these dramas?

What exactly are you getting at by commenting this? Want me to do what—apologize for pointing out a double standard? Crawl into a corner because I pointed out the ethical violation ?

Let’s be clear: you’re coming at me as if I frontlined these shows with a stethoscope and a love letter and now that it's my fault that the kdrama and cdrama industry has ended up as such.

Also, don’t bring that xenophobic energy in here. I’m not from the West, I don’t pretend to be, and assuming I am just because I criticized something? That’s lazy and offensive.

sweety just read my replies...😁

ok since you say so I'll give it an another shot. will let you know....hehe.... I hope this conversation didn't hurt your sentiments friend.

let me put it like this does he treat her on Saturdays as a volunteer in future even though it's not his main job?

if so I'll watch it....i dropped it after few eps

so basically you are saying the only doctor patient relationship they build is in the first few eps...?

also i never mentioned dating is violating the code of conduct but it's being interested in your patient when you are strangers and continue to treat them and later date them. I hope you get it.

Here’s my take on it: treating a family member is different because the emotional connection already exists—it’s love-driven, and concerns about judgment usually arise only in emergencies or life-threatening situations.

But in this drama, the female lead is a complete stranger to the physician. Even as a patient myself, I wouldn’t be comfortable knowing the doctor treating me had any romantic interest in me. Regardless of how minor the ailment is, physical examinations require a certain level of emotional neutrality and professional distance. When feelings get involved, that boundary gets blurred.

Honestly, it would feel uncomfortable—creepy, even—knowing a stranger who has to examine me is also romantically inclined toward me. It’s not about the depth of the examination, it’s about respect and safety.

The drama being fictional so many might not take this to heart but as a personal being it's difficult for me digest it I hope you understand my pov.


also I hope you understand I'm not calling the ml creepy or something but that this discussion has shifted completely on how the doc patient relationship works.

also persay he examined her in the first ep and gave her a prescription so he did act as her physician, if the dynamic changes in further episodes, I'm not that well educated on that. I just feel difficult to move forward. If a change does occur let me know and I'm ready to give it an another shot.

Hmm your feelings are validated it's just that I can't look past such things as ethical code of conduct in me hampers me don't hate the drama or something it's lovely it's just something I'm not personally comfortable with.

Actually as someone from medical field we are advised strictly against such relationship as it hampers any kind of treatment be it therapy related or not. it's not wrong to fall in love it's just that in such cases we are advised to shift the patient care. It's not about how it matters but having feelings for a patient be it for a minor ailment is utmost wrong as when a patient comes to doctor they put their utmost trust in a physician and in return we must treat them with utmost empathy and respect their bodies.

Was much awaiting to binge this. Good Drama but the doctor patient relationship is bothersome.

Same dude same. The doctor patient relationship is so wrong. He could have changed being incharge of her if he liked her. This is so against the code of ethical conduct doctors are taught. I so validate you.