This comment section reeks of misogynistic mindsets and so many people are only taking things at face value and…
I think you need to chill because you’re obviously guilty of the exact thing you’re accusing others of. All the epistles you have written so far have shown you to be more in solidarity with Haein, meanwhile she’s no saint and is highly flawed. All the instances you referenced in her defense of how much she’s loved/ loves her husband mostly came after she was diagnosed of the terminal illness. She hadn’t always been good to him, however, he was always good to her, be it consciously or unconsciously, but she was unappreciative and dismissive of his kind gestures and love language. An instance would be when the husband mentioned to her at the office on their 3rd year wedding anniversary that the reason he didn’t get her flowers for their 2nd year W.A. was because she was dismissive of it when he got them for their 1st W.A; she didn’t deny it. Unsurprisingly, she appreciates them this time, why? Because she’s dying.
Also, you mentioned earlier about how she’s been waiting for her husband; like, seriously? Relationship is a two-way thing. No relationship thrives on the efforts of just one party. Love can only be sustained when both parties involved nurture it. If it’s left to only one of the members to care for it, they could easily get worn out and as a result leave the love to die. This seems to have been the case with Hyunwoo in their relationship. Why must he always be the one to understand and go to her? Why must he be the one to always make the first move? What stopped her from going to him? Why must he be the one making sacrifices? Or isn’t their love mutual?
Most of the changes we see in her are mostly driven by her terminal illness; it’s led her to decide to be bold enough to do the things she’s shied away from doing.
So, as much as we don’t want to play the blame game, it’s still important to hold the FL accountable for her wrongs and flaws in the relationship just as other faux feminists like you have been hounding the ML on other platforms, e.g. X.
Also, you mentioned earlier about how she’s been waiting for her husband; like, seriously? Relationship is a two-way thing. No relationship thrives on the efforts of just one party. Love can only be sustained when both parties involved nurture it. If it’s left to only one of the members to care for it, they could easily get worn out and as a result leave the love to die. This seems to have been the case with Hyunwoo in their relationship. Why must he always be the one to understand and go to her? Why must he be the one to always make the first move? What stopped her from going to him? Why must he be the one making sacrifices? Or isn’t their love mutual?
Most of the changes we see in her are mostly driven by her terminal illness; it’s led her to decide to be bold enough to do the things she’s shied away from doing.
So, as much as we don’t want to play the blame game, it’s still important to hold the FL accountable for her wrongs and flaws in the relationship just as other faux feminists like you have been hounding the ML on other platforms, e.g. X.