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everything is so pathetic and has so little sense

Give me ONE example when her son and ex-husband showed that they care about HER feelings. All they do is accuse her of all mortal sins. She hasn't heard a SINGLE kind word from them. After the robbery, NONE of them even asked how she felt. And she is selfish? With such a husband and son, I would also think only about money.

Sorry, but I don't quite understand what kind of reflection you're talking about? And why aren't there such demands on anyone else in the drama? Is her ex-husband's behavior ok to you? No questions for him? Is he not guilty of anything?

He was happy because he considered his mother to be a stupid fool and whom he threw under the bus without any problem. Indeed, what mother would not be happy with such behavior of her son.

Oh please give me one piece of evidence. I know she's a very easy target to think the worst of, but there are no people in this drama that she's actually treated badly. Show me at least someone she treated hypocritically.
She's one of the most straightforward characters in the entire drama.

It’s just THANKS to her mistakes that this family was able to pay all their bills. But no one wants to admit this either.

She hasn't received a single penny back yet. And, forgive me, but with such a husband and son, any woman needs money for her own independence. And she wasn't going to spend the money on herself, she told her son that she would give it to him for the development of the company. She ALREADY paid off her son's debts. What a selfish mother indeed.

Oh, please. Show me the people she has brought down for money. Show me the people she has insulted or humiliated. Other than her husband and son, who don't consider her a human being? She doesn't like Da Rim as her son's girlfriend, but has she ever been harsh with her? Did she hit her or splash water in her face? Now let's remember how the Darim family has been treating Gang Ju all this time. How the chairman has been treating Gang Ju all this time. I'm sorry, but the difference is obvious
Yes, she is spoiled and eccentric, but she is not selfish or evil.

In my opinion, everything is much simpler. He just got used to living in this house and doesn't want to change anything. In order to move, you need to find time to choose a house, move things and get used to it. Why does he need this? He thinks solely about his own convenience and that’s all.

That's right! Despite her background, she is a very adequate woman. And I even think that if Bong Hui came to her to borrow money, she would have given it to her, and not kicked her out like her husband did.
Her main problem is that no one took her seriously. Neither her husband nor her son. They didn't care what her interests were, what she wanted to do. She is a simple-minded daughter of a loan shark, what can you expect from her. Of course, the Iron family is a different matter. They are so poor and miserable, they need maximum attention. And everything will be ok with Ji Yeon, since she only needs money. As if they ever cared if she was okay.

Because everyone around her thought she was an idiot. Everyone lied to her and no one cared about HER feelings. While people wish her death, thieves enjoy life.

She was a child in a family where everything revolved around a sick child. Yes, it was not Darim's fault, but it was not Charim's fault either. She did not receive love from either her father or her mother, but she did not become embittered, she simply decided to build her life INDEPENDENTLY. And she did not refuse to help if it was real. It may sound cruel, but you can't sacrifice the ENTIRE family to improve the life of one. And it was not even a matter of life and death. Especially since the mother did not ask anyone at all. She senselessly ran around strangers with an obsession, and the very first thing she should have done was to gather the ENTIRE family, explain the situation and TOGETHER decide what they could do. But the mother did not care about the ENTIRE family, she thought only about Darim. This is what offended both Charim and Murim. This behavior of the mother made them selfish.

When Gang Ju came for the money, everything could have been resolved right away, but the elders suddenly felt sick, because they could lose "their money", and DaRim threw a tantrum that the money could not be returned to Gang Ju's mother. It was simply convenient for them to think that the money was "nobody's".

This family's problems started when they let the father of the family do nothing for YEARS and leave the care of the ENTIRE large family to their daughter-in-law. That's when they made the whole family miserable. That's when NONE of the children felt the love and care they needed from adults. And all their problems in adulthood come from that. Their parents and grandparents are to blame for this. And that's why they came to the situation where Gang Ju had to solve their family's problems with his mother's money. If the grandparents had done the right thing from the very beginning and reported the find to the police, then they could have received a reward. And if they had told about the granddaughter's surgery, then I'm sure they would have been able to collect the necessary amount. But to do this, you just need to be honest and understand that there is no "easy" money. But the old people are too selfish to do the right thing and honestly, so they smeared the whole family.
Unfortunately, they are not the only family in the world who need money for noble purposes. And if we allow everyone to steal and cheat, the world will turn into chaos.

In the long run, this family will simply squeeze all the juices out of Gang Ju, taking advantage of his sincere desire to have a big "friendly" family. This is exactly what they ALREADY did with Bong Hui, and now there is a new victim. At the same time, they will NEVER consider him part of their family, because he learned the worst side of them. At any opportunity, they will quickly throw him away and forget about him. And Da Rim will also ALWAYS choose her family, not him. In real life, this toxic relationship has no future.
And Gang Ju did not just leave his mother alone, he ENTERTAINED Da Rim's family all this time. He was ashamed to be with her, so he decided to be a coward and not protect his mother. I may not like Da Rim's family, but they all came running to protect their mother. And he left his mother, knowing that she had no one else. And it's a shame that he never fully realized how much he hurt his mother.

I'm not saying that they are hardened criminals. But they still haven't realized what they did wrong and haven't realized the consequences of their actions. They are the main beneficiaries in this story and haven't lost anything at all. While the lives of other families are destroyed. NO ONE from this family asked Murim how all this will affect his work and his family. Why? They don't care. No one asked the girls what they will do next, since for the sake of saving THEM they quit a good job and the new company is now a failure, because it can't pay the bills. But they don't care either. But they don’t care either. This family has made EVERYONE around them miserable, but for some reason they are the ones enjoying life now.
And I don't believe that anything will change. Yes, in the last episode everything will somehow be resolved, But I won't believe any of this, because such people with a victim complex do not change.

I was mostly referring to the regular people in the drama. I remember someone leaving a comment "I'll come at night and steal your money." You may like it or not, but now it's LEGAL money. And to openly think that it's ok to steal LEGAL money is some kind of moral bankruptcy of society. That's why no one condemns the thieves who stole this money. Although they committed robbery, assault and the same tax evasion.
I don't understand anything in this world anymore.

There is no evidence that this money is ILLEGAL. It is legal to be a loan shark. I don't want to say that he is the most law-abiding citizen of Korea, but there is no evidence that he is a hardened criminal.

And one more thing. Ji Yeon got SO MUCH hate for money that she hasn't even received yet. And for some reason no one hates those who stole the money (and this is a proven fact) and used it. The thieves weren't going to pay taxes either, but they can, right?

Oh, please. This Iron family also thinks they are better than others. But they are "honest" poor, so it's ok.
And if I remember correctly, her father had no problems with the law. No one forces people to go to loan sharks if they are so bad.