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My honest opinion on the female lead character am actually not bothered by her vulnerability or her love for male lead what bothers me is how selfish she can get at times....or maybe let's call it her having lots of insecurities
She confessed her love to male lead even after witnessing him break up with his fiancée a few weeks or months back, she was ready to change his heart and make him fall for her instead, she cooked and did all she feels a house wife is supposed to do( some of these things I doubt male lead asked her too because as far as I remember every time she cooked and bought food for him he always told her to focus on her studies more but I guess It was a way for her to express her love and care for him not knowing that all these were suffocating for the male lead who felt indebted to her being soo nice) she did a couple of more good things but felt abandoned because whenever male lead came home he could just seat by the window and stare or maybe be in his laptop so she felt abandoned I sort of understood her here and I guess the problem must have been communication as y'all imply..

So how is she selfish at times?
She calls for being understood while she doesn't understand him like all, she complains that he doesn't change while not clarifying what she wants him to change about him self, I noticed a couple of times she gets angry at what the male lead says or does but instead of maybe yelling at him or telling him she just walks way and instead feels safe telling all that to her best friend, or at times stares at him angry like he's gonna read her mind to know what she wants maybe, if she really knew him as in his character, or maybe his past or his opinions then she wouldn't be hurting her self by setting these high standards for him that he can't meet and then getting angry later a case in point is the proposal ( second proposal) she wanted a formal proposal from him though he found it useless since hey they have been married before and for some one with a low EQ he didn't feel it relevant but since she wanted it and he's trying to better him self for her he made one with a bought package he's trying to meet her needs despite his characters contradiction....with those needs but Ofcourse we shall all says he's a jerk 😂
The wedding photos when he felt zero need to take new photos while she wanted it, she never explained why she needed to take new photos but as usual just walked away leaving him in that what the heck is going on situation, but then later explained the reason to her best friend her best friend literally why not him...

Then lastly the issue with the step mom's operation, he refused to do it because of his rage towards his step mom but she wanted him to do it regardless I actually sighed after he told his heart out to her about why he can't do the operation and her response was more of “ iam Sorry, but you still have to do it maybe my subs were wrong but this made me think she wants him do as she wishes putting aside his feelings😂

I've ranted for long so I'll cut it short, if male lead is a jerk for not understanding the female leads feelings as everyone says then female lead is selfish for expecting change understanding and love from him without putting his character feelings into consideration.

This is something I asked a doctor after watching this episode and he told me if you are going to let your emotions over run you when performing an operation then it's better to step down what people don't understand is that doctors are human they also have weaknesses and our profession sort of calls for being more robotic and less humanely, but wouldn't it be better to step down than be accountable later for a failed operation because you couldn't keep your emotions in check....

You must have held on alot seeing that you watched almost the entire series lol

I haven't had a problem with Yukee chen's acting since unchained love...and that was my first drama of hers lol she's good

She doesn't understand him like at all but acts like she's the victim that can't be understood iam really sorry if iam being mean but female lead can get selfish sometimes, she wants what she wants at the expense of what he feels

This is unexpectedly soo good like iam ten episodes in and I love how it's fun to watch but at the same time mixes in some life lessons that have you getting emotional the pacing of the story is on point and the actors and actresses are doing soo good like that scene where they show this invisible co worker that's the hero of the planning department 3 and that scene in episode ten where they were going to fire Mr Ji because of his age the words he said while walking down the street were soo real and relatable I almost cried 😂😭 this is the drama I didn't know I needed

For those complaining about him putting his personal feelings first and refusing to do the surgery, I hope this statement of his pulls through to your minds“ Iam a human being, I have feelings too am not a surgical machines and as a doctor I don't want to take my personal feelings along to the operating table" let's not make it a big deal

I also hope it's slow burn watching them both slowly heal eachother as they fall for eachother and all the emotions that are to come from that ahhh iam soo here for it all

So I noticed that in the past like her flash backs are in a clear filter like normal filter and back to her present it's sort purple ( not complaining) well is this sort of a message like are they showing us how her life is sort of more depressing in relation to the filter compared to before just saying

No! Both this and Gaus electronics were adapted from the same webtoon, this filmed first and Gaus electronics later though it premiered first....but they have similarities since they both used the same webtoon as an adaptation

Tairan and Bai's interactions for me🤣🤣🤣 they are the bestfriends I didn't know I needed

Well the effects are needed and the characters are being effortlessly funny, it's actually nice

I actually didn't expect him to be this clingy when I first saw him but he started getting on nerves later 🤣

Lawyer xue is actually walking towards the path of getting heart broken on his own iam pretty sure he can read the room 😂 but still insists on pursuing Ruan

Well if I keep getting mad everytime a drama potrays my continent in such a way then I might as well blacklist the only thing that helps me escape reality iam not saying iam not bothered but at the same ttime iam not going to go all nationalistic for something fictional

It takes watching this and looking at both sides of the story that is male lead and female lead to know that both just have insecurities that are hindering them being happily in a relationship

The days left for EP 23 are more depressing 🥲🤣🤣

He called her first after she went to xijing and it was in march called her again in June those are three months already...that means he thought hard about it and figured to let her go

Why do I feel like iam watching these shows where people laugh in the background but this time am those people 🤣🤣 like I can't even take a serious moment seriously anymore 😂

Maybe she should have told him after they started dating but it's not an easy topic, I don't want the person I love to always view me in that she's sick point of view....yes it's a bit selfish but it's also ñot easy...they managed to explore alot if he knew she was sick then their adventures together would have been limited as he would have always been over conscious and as we know He ran she's exploring and I think their are plenty of things she wanted to do outside the bracket of being protected for being sick...