For example He sees caring as "baby sitting " he told her not to make him dinner anymore which ruan took it another…
Also the scene where she asked for a proposal we all know Mr Ning is anti Romantic π and pretty rational so to him a proposal felt useless considering it wasn't their first time to get married but then later since Ruan wanted it and he's trying to make amends he bought a package to fulfill her wish which completely contradicts with his character, but she also got angry again π
For example He sees caring as "baby sitting " he told her not to make him dinner anymore which ruan took it another…
And the scene where he thought taking new wedding photos was not needed but Ruan actually wanted it instead of telling him what she later told her friend about her feeling that the old wedding photos represented a failed marriage, she just walked away angry like come on if you not saying anything how is he supposed to know he's wrong π
You can't expect some one to change if you not honest enough to tell them about what they have to change, these two view love in different ways, maybe to Mr Ning it's a matter of letting her do whatever she wants without giving his opinion or maybe avoiding fights with her by keeping quiet when she asks him about his problems or maybe since he's practical there things he finds unnessesary while to her they are the most important factors of their relationship but unless I missed something I've never heard Ruan call him out on what she thinks he does that she doesn't like so technically he's seeing her walk away without even knowing why because to him he feels like he hasn't done anything wrong and that's quite normal, whenever Ning does something Ruan doesn't like or says something she doesn't agree with she just walks away or maybe saysβ You can't change" and maybe runs to her best friend and tells her every thing that's she's instead supposed to tell Ning like be honest call him out on what you feel he has to change otherwise you can't complain about some one not changing if you also being quiet about the things you want them to change maybe that's why couples argue we view things differently atleast fight and in the process say out your feelings maybe then you can complain latter that he isn't changing after he fails to change what you wanted them to change other than that he's not a super natural creature who's gonna read your mind.
At this point and time both male lead and female lead need serious growth and development
Many beautiful osts from this series, as hard as it was I managed to get my top five π 1.Lucid dreams 2.Love again 3.Trouble iam in 4. Summer 5.Take a chance
I can't be the only one who's actually liking the mum and Yuanqi's storyline? The chemistry between these two…
They actually have that tension....and as for him being younger I think the writer wanted to do the opposite of the daughters love story she fell for an elder man,while her mom falls for the younger man and what can be more curing for the mom than a lively junior iam loving it too
I just wish viewers would stop putting pedestal on FL and ML, treating them robots, Humans are not perfect, nobody's…
They can't get used to the relatable display of characters and it's pretty understandable most dramas like to potray flawless and unrealistic I actually admire flawed characters more because it allows me to relate more and connect more to their characters
Time to applaud Xu Rouhan for bringing He rans character to life, she's literally carrying the show with her cheerful personality at the same time domineering, she's not a push over has that thrilling attitude and her dialogues π either way she's been an amazing female leadπ definitely made it to my best female leads of 2023 so so farπ€
Iβm wondering if the FL has such high expectations from him (and yes, she does need to tell him exactly what…
Exactly! I mean they didn't get to really know eachother as love interests everyone felt rushed, she saw him struggle and was kinda stimulated by the ex girlfriend who also made it clearly to her that she could have been a substitute, she felt the need to make him love her as much as he did his ex, while he thought that he could do well by fullfilling his basic rights as a husband, slowly she starts to see sides of him she didnt know before and starts to feel insecure because who wouldn't then eventually a divorce
Tan ya does not see the side of him that FL lead does, and thinks that can work together but FL lead wants to…
Female lead sees what she wants to see, she sees him ignoring her, she sees him not reciprocating her love, she sees him as being a machine that doesn't care, all from her point of you, these two lack understanding and it could have been caused by the rush marriage that never permitted her to know more about him in the point of view of a love interest and not a senior she had a crush on, if their relationship developed slowly and she got to know him better then she should have then known some facts about him that she struggled to figure out when they were in their marriage instead...as for Tan ya iam not comparing her to female lead iam just saying she at times knows things about the male lead that female lead doesn't and I concluded by saying that the reason was because of the fact that they worked together before, female lead on the other hand thanks to the divorce is seeing sides to her ex husband that she didn't before both at the work place and even his daily life because he's pretty open with her the major point here is they got married rushly it takes understanding your partner at times to make a relationship work
When it comes to censorship iam not shocked these guys can censor a handshake if they felt it were too intimate for viewers but it has also not affected me as much, I still got the satisfaction from the kisses and the sensual interactions plus we get the leaked uncut scenes as bonus....so iam good ππ
At this point and time both male lead and female lead need serious growth and development
1.Lucid dreams
2.Love again
3.Trouble iam in
4. Summer
5.Take a chance