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My Dearest korean drama review
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My Dearest
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by al2000
20 days ago
10 of 10 episodes seen
Completed
Overall 9.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 10.0
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 9.0
This review may contain spoilers

Slow start! Great cast, great setting.

I started this a couple times and dropped it, before I pushed through and watched the whole thing. This review will be for the first half of the show, and I will review the latter half separately. The initial setting features our female lead (Yoo Gil Chae) as a spoiled and shallow young woman growing up in her village community. Our male lead (Lee Jang Hyeon) is a flippant, mysterious and arrogant man who wanders in and falls in love with her.

INITIAL PREMISE IS BORING BUT THEMATICALLY INTERESTING
The reason I attempted to watch this show multiple times and kept dropping it was because of the strangeness of this initial premise, combined with the un-likeabiliity of the female lead. I didn’t understand why the male lead would fall so deeply in love with her. I found her love for the other local guy in the village strange (he seems boring and annoying). I couldn’t really connect this childish and fairly innocent setting with the supposed seriousness and tragedy of the rest of the drama. I still feel like this beginning section is the least interesting to me overall.

However, I do think this initial bubbly village setting has its merits. The shallowness of all the village's petty disputes, Gil Chae’s concerns, and the major “love” triangles is thrown into sharp relief as soon as war looms over the drama. Suddenly this summery and naive setting is contrasted with genuine horrors (battlefield massacres of the untrained village men who are conscripted into service, attempted rape of a major female character by enemy soldiers, slaughter of the village elderly, starvation, torture, disease) in a way that is thematically really effective. You see the steeliness and pragmatism of Gil Chae begin to shine through, and you start to understand why Lee Jang Hyeon fell in love with her in the first place.

I found their divergent storylines during this war period very engaging. They are each facing the trails of living in a wartorn country in different ways according to their place in society. Gil Chae is becoming a protector for the group of women and elderly in her community, trying to figure out how to feed them and keep them alive but facing constant threats from enemy soldiers and a terrible economy. Lee Jang Hyeon is becoming a tool for the Korean resistance against the enemy, both as a soldier and spy undergoing horrors to scope out weaknesses among the invaders. I was surprised by how moving and compelling the depiction of historical strife was, and it makes the romance stronger as a backdrop against it.

ON YEARNING & MELODRAMATIC PLOTTING

Now, this is a melodrama. I do think that this drama requires us to put up with some real star-crossed lovers, wrong-place-wrong-time nonsense from the leads and the plotting. But the thing is, Namkoong Min (as Lee Jang Hyeon) is so good at yearning, heroics and quiet sorrow that I ate it up. Ahn Eun Jin (as Yoo Gil Chae) gets progressively better as the show goes on, and I found myself very moved by her performance. Yes, the characters are constantly separated by circumstances and then experience lots of quiet sorrow and lack of communication (just TELL him you LOVE him!!) but I genuinely think nobody is doing yearning like they are. It is rich and it is satisfying. I love the fact that despite all their mistakes, miscommunication and anger for each other, you really feel like they’d die for one another through it all.

SIDEBAR ON NAMKOONG MIN AS LEE JANG HYEON
I have never seen a drama with this actor before, and this drama made me a hardcore fan. He plays the heroic, calculating, profoundly committed and heart-broken lead so well. He has gravitas and presence and feels believable as a mischievous and mysterious warrior. He is an older actor and I think you really need that level of experience to pull off this role. His eye acting is genuinely unparalleled. He doesn’t need to say much for you to really believe that he is in love with Gil Chae and also agonized by her. This guy has a PhD in yearning. I am now prepared to watch any drama that he is in.
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