What actually that lawyer wants?. Why he so determined to date her?. FL obeying to whatever he says just like that. Lol. Does we really need to take these people emotions seriously?.
For me, In that scene she appears extremely childish and immature than selfish. If she wants to date him, do it properly. He is the one doing all the work, she behaving like a trophy. She doesn't even trying to understand him.
I really find it ironic, she even listened to older adults and let their thoughts impact her. Older people should be least thing she actual care about, let alone trusting them. Given her mental state.
Maybe convinent plot tool to make audience root for her and divert them
yea, on the webtoon, she did it when junseo was drunk and at his lowest point coz ajin intentionally told him…
She deceives him, ran away to different country with jae oh. They both raise daughter. Eventually she will ditch him and daughter. Get involved with another guy.
From his perceptive she is still a married women yet he can't control his desires. Kdrama romcoms taking ml characters to new level with each passing romcom. How romantic. I wonder how it feels if genders are reversed and fl longing for married male lead.
If she really starts dating Soo-hyuk, Do-ha MUST step back
This is not about jealousy. It’s about self-preservation and emotional growth.
Why he needs to back off:
1. He has no self-respect arc yet. His entire arc so far is:
Love her
Wait for her
Endure her
Apologize
Repeat
Do-ha can’t grow if he stays orbiting her choices. If she chooses Soo-hyuk, even temporarily, Do-ha must stop being an option and start being a person. ---
Do-ha needs a self-reflection arc
And here is why it’s crucial:
He must confront his abandoned childhood not through her, but through himself.
He must redefine who he is when he isn’t protecting, chasing, or loving Ha-gyeong.
He needs to realize that his value exists beyond being the one who always loves more.
He needs to stop being the “boy from that summer” and grow into the “man of this moment.”
She wants doha out of her life yet she gonna data someone who somehow linked to doha. Will she ask that someone to stop involving with doha?.
It seems she is gonna date anyone who available or atleast someone who have decent opinion on that someone, it just happened to be lawyer guy. He is literally like an object, temporary tissue paper to her.
I will respect and value her words and actions if she really dates that someone and gives her 100% effort in that relationship while ignoring doha like a ghost who doesn't exist at all.
Lawyer guy gonna play major role in upcoming episodes and won't go away that easily.
Kdrama romcom MLs are always either jerks or never ending simps. No in between.
Writers are so focused on highlighting FL pains and suffering while completely turned blind to ML pain and suffering who gone through more less same kind of suffering that FL gone through. He doesn't grow up in a healthy family environment. He has his own share of flaws but his intentions are always genienue. He didn't deceive FL just for the sake of it.
FL needs to work on herself before even starts to think about dating someone even doha. She will end up messing up that someone mental piece.
I just hope ML show some self respect (which is an alien thing for a kdrama ML) and cut himself from her life. They both reached extreme limits. They judging each other left and right and making decisions on their own assumptions.
Every single step that ML takes towards her looks like creepy because FL completely taken away that agency from him. She doesn't even show any intention to understand him or see things from his perceptive.
Maybe convinent plot tool to make audience root for her and divert them
I really hope she really meets a person who matches her personality. It will be fun to watch both of them trying to destroy each other.
This is not about jealousy.
It’s about self-preservation and emotional growth.
Why he needs to back off:
1. He has no self-respect arc yet.
His entire arc so far is:
Love her
Wait for her
Endure her
Apologize
Repeat
Do-ha can’t grow if he stays orbiting her choices.
If she chooses Soo-hyuk, even temporarily, Do-ha must stop being an option and start being a person.
---
Do-ha needs a self-reflection arc
And here is why it’s crucial:
He must confront his abandoned childhood not through her, but through himself.
He must redefine who he is when he isn’t protecting, chasing, or loving Ha-gyeong.
He needs to realize that his value exists beyond being the one who always loves more.
He needs to stop being the “boy from that summer” and grow into the “man of this moment.”
This is how you heal a character like him.
This is chatgpt analysis on doha character arc.
It seems she is gonna date anyone who available or atleast someone who have decent opinion on that someone, it just happened to be lawyer guy. He is literally like an object, temporary tissue paper to her.
I will respect and value her words and actions if she really dates that someone and gives her 100% effort in that relationship while ignoring doha like a ghost who doesn't exist at all.
Lawyer guy gonna play major role in upcoming episodes and won't go away that easily.
Writers are so focused on highlighting FL pains and suffering while completely turned blind to ML pain and suffering who gone through more less same kind of suffering that FL gone through. He doesn't grow up in a healthy family environment. He has his own share of flaws but his intentions are always genienue. He didn't deceive FL just for the sake of it.
FL needs to work on herself before even starts to think about dating someone even doha. She will end up messing up that someone mental piece.
I just hope ML show some self respect (which is an alien thing for a kdrama ML) and cut himself from her life. They both reached extreme limits. They judging each other left and right and making decisions on their own assumptions.
Every single step that ML takes towards her looks like creepy because FL completely taken away that agency from him. She doesn't even show any intention to understand him or see things from his perceptive.