I hope both of them find serenity in their lives as time goes by...Both are deeply hurt and criticized tremendously for different reasons. Most of all I hope "Korean fan culture" can mature enough over time to see how their obsessions are affecting (in a bad way) their Star Systems' lives!
YOLO or Memento Mori... in life you can't play safe all the time...you need to play the game to see where it takes…
Exactly my point of view. To add to that, yourself might be the one who finally triggers / damages a trusting relationship because life is unpredictable and all humans are lovable (meaning they can fall in love with someone or by someone) until the day they die....