Brie

I mean how it’s rated 8.1 on here. Not mind blowing but I think it’s better than 8.1.

Me too! When I saw the rating today, I was genuinely surprised.

Contrary to popular belief on here, I think it’s a pretty solid drama. It is sad sometimes life is like that, some good life lessons/thoughts. I truly am enjoying it!

Yoo Shin is an extremely manipulative character who was never sincerely sorry for the choices he made only sorry that he was caught.The professor wasn't truly sorry either he would do it all over again. Remorse is deep regret or guilt about something, which neither of the three men have shown in this drama. Why else are all three of them happily living with the mistresses. I agree that song won was the only one who kinda showed remorse but I feel like she still was extremely irresponsible for someone who experienced a similar situation to BHR. I'm sure she would have been devastated if the same thing happened to her. Furthermore, we only know about Song Won's character now that she's reached this point in her life who knows what she was like during her previous marriage. I'm not saying BHR is perfectI do believe that she has some character flaws but none of the actions she's taken has been objectively devastating to anyone in the drama. Her action of outing her husband to the press is not surprsingespecially due to the lack of support I believe was given over the last few months when they were trying. I don't know I'm just trying to consider how I would feel if some one just came into my marriage and wrecked with a baby that my husband never even told me he changed his mind about.... After we agreed not to have children :(

Do you truly think that the only reason she is interested in Seo Ban is because of his wealth. I do admit that is one of the reasons but I also believe that she thinks he is attracted to her as well. One of the qualities I appreciated in her character from earlier episodes was her ability to move on when disinterest was expressed i.e her husband no longer wanting her and Seo Ban's younger brother. She could've continued chasing the brother but didn't because she realised he wasn't interested. Another point to consider as well is that BHR is a very successful woman within her career, it would actually be weirder to me if she dated guys who made less than her especially since she maintains a very high maintenance lifestyle . Especially due to SK being a conservative country where most woman still are hypergamous and aim to date/marry up.

She didn’t go after him because he’s the older son but because the other wine was clearly not interested in her. If you go back and rewatch the episodes it was clearly shown. And I don’t think she’ll end up with him though.

I have relatives that cheated but honestly, I don't view them the same way I viewed them previously, to me it highlights their character flaws. And all of them have reaped the seeds that they've sowed.. i.e bad fruit their lives not being as happy as they thought it would be.No matter who it is I think cheating is bad I can't imagine how I would feel if it happened to me. And I can cook but similar to BHR I don't like to cook, I don't thinks big enough of a reason to cheat. To make it worse none of the cheaters truly seem to have any sort of repentance/remorse at all... which is truly sickening to me.

Agreed.

One thing I can say about humans in general is that no one is perfect.. Including BHR and the other ladies in the drama, I wish we were able to go more in depth with her character. I think we've never really gotten an in-depth look into her past and why she thinks and behaves in the way she does.In comparison to PY and the writer.

I agree I don't think the author likes her character but she's one of my favourite s I like how honest she is with herself and her emotions. Sometimes Pi young can seem a bit fake.. I also don't think her reaction was out of the norm it's what would happen a lot in reality.How can someone cheat and not expect to deal with the consequences of their actions. See Ban may not realise it but I think he was empathising with the cheater, she was just supposed to say irreconcilable differences I guess....

Honestly, I don't think BHR is a gold digger but she's saying if you want to cheat on me and leave me I'm taking your money.. Her husband is just dealing with the repercussions of his actions. They never tried counselling or any sort of true professional communication to sort out the issues they had within the marriage. He just went and slept with someone else which is riduclous.

Some people are going to be a bit upset with Hye Ryung this episode but honestly I don't blame her. Have people forgotten how she literally coughed up blood season 1 after discovering her husband was cheating on her!! and to make it worse she expected to have a large amount of empathy for him after he cheated on her and got someone else pregnant?! I think her ex-husband got what he deserved and his parents they act as if they're so kind but always cursed her behind her back! I'm happy their friends found put what they're really like!! I think Seo Ban will date the writer, Hye Ryung is not his type, I think she should get with his younger brother, they seem a bit similar and SPY will either be single or get with her ex. I don't think they're so called rivalry will have anything to it. Can't wait for next week to see if my thoughts are correct.

At this point in the drama I just hope the three men get what they deserve. Especially Yu Sin and the professor! What makes these mistresses so shameless to me is the fact that they knew these men were married yet still in a way led to their divorces. Honestly, I hope Nam Ga Bin doesn't get a happy ending with the professor or the rich ex-boyfriend... It would so unfair!!!