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Mistake (translated lyrics)
I used to be such a good person
I never once let down anyone’s expectations
People say that I’m so honest
But that’s not actually true
That’s no longer who I am

I thought it would be okay as long as you didn’t find out
I thought if I tried harder, it would all disappear
But now, I can’t even stand by your side
I’m truly sorry
I have no words to say

I led myself to this point
Even though I knew better, I came this far
I enjoyed that moment, and it became a mistake toward you

Maybe, just once, I wished this would happen
But I couldn’t stop myself, even though I knew I shouldn’t
I’m acknowledging that day’s mistake to you

It’s not that I don’t love you—never that
It’s not that I love that person either
But one single mistake cost me everything

I’m truly sorry
Do whatever it is that you want to do

I led myself to this point
Even though I knew better, I came this far
I enjoyed that moment, and it became a mistake toward you

Maybe, just once, I wished this would happen
But I couldn’t stop myself, even though I knew I shouldn’t
I’m acknowledging that day’s mistake to you

I can’t turn things back, but I hope you’re okay
From now on, we will move forward

Thanks again for the thoughtful follow-up. Reading your comment actually prompted me to try and review the blog scene again, but unfortunately it looks like the series has been removed from Viki. Still, I’ll share a few thoughts based on what I remember.

The blog post definitely fell flat for a lot of viewers, and I do wonder if part of the problem was translation. On first viewing, I really disliked Soo Yeon’s character and couldn’t understand her at all. The story bothered me so much that I probably over-analyzed it, but that actually helped me see her in a different light. For me, the blog scene wasn’t even the moment that made me dislike her the most. It was when she came home after being caught and said something like, “I’ll stop seeing him, for now.” That line felt like a gut punch to Hyun Woo.

Because I disliked her so much, I started digging deeper into the story. What helped me the most was the song “Mistake,” which seemed to express what Soo Yeon was feeling in a way she herself couldn’t. Her character was emotionally closed off and showed very little outward remorse, but the lyrics revealed guilt, confusion, and self-blame. I’ve included a translation of the song at the end of this post in case it’s helpful.

When I watched the blog scene, I didn’t think she was saying she regretted the affair only because the other man didn’t love her back. What I understood was something closer to this:

“I lost myself. I was living a life that looked perfect on the outside, but I felt completely invisible and emotionally numb. The attention from the other man felt like a fantasy or a dream. Getting caught jolted me awake. It forced me to see the damage I was doing and what I was about to lose.”

I think we see that reflected in the lyrics as well.

So for me, it wasn’t about choosing between two men. It was about finally confronting who she had become. She was someone she herself no longer recognized. I also think the lyrics emphasize that point. Although the drama never explicitly addressed it, I believe she was showing signs of depression. She seemed overwhelmed, isolated, and emotionally disconnected, but didn’t know how to ask for help. The affair wasn’t a calculated betrayal or an act of rebellion. It was the desperate act of someone who had stopped seeing her own value and was clinging to anything that made her feel momentarily alive.

From what I recall, she didn’t think she would get caught. She believed, wrongly, that the affair wouldn’t affect her family. But the longer it continued, the more likely it became that she would be exposed. That’s exactly what happened in the drama.

I don’t believe Soo Yeon saw Hyun Woo as her second choice. I think she finally realized what she had nearly destroyed and was grateful for the chance to rebuild. Not because the other man rejected her, but because she finally saw how hollow that relationship really was. I think the song supports that interpretation.

After the divorce, when there was distance and space for healing, we see them reconnecting. They seem happy again, and someone even asks Soo Yeon why they got divorced at all. That moment stood out to me.

You’re absolutely right that there is an emotional imbalance between their arcs. Hyun Woo goes through an intense journey of pain, grief, and forgiveness. Soo Yeon remains emotionally hard to read, and that makes the reconciliation difficult for a lot of viewers. I spent a lot of time trying to understand this story because her betrayal, and how she acted afterward, really bothered me. Eventually, I came to see that the drama wasn’t just about cheating. It was also about how people lose themselves, and how they sometimes find their way back, painfully and imperfectly.

It's been a while and I don’t remember all the specifics of the blog post, but from what I do recall, Soo Yeon was trying to explain how she lost herself in the pursuit of being the perfect wife and mother. When someone finally paid attention to her as a woman, she felt alive because she had become emotionally disconnected and didn’t know how to ask for help. Looking back, I think she was showing signs of depression in the lead-up to the affair. She seemed overwhelmed and withdrawn, and rather than reaching out, she internalized everything and shut down. That doesn’t excuse her actions, but it does add some context for why she made choices that even she couldn’t fully explain.

She also didn’t blame Hyun Woo. If anything, she defended him and took responsibility for the breakdown in their relationship. It wasn’t a strong apology, though, and I agree it left a lot of people cold.

Sometimes I compare it to My Mister. The wife’s affair with her husband’s boss was even worse, and she allowed her lover to try and fire her husband. But in My Mister, we were given a much more direct apology and a clearer redemption arc. In My Wife’s Having an Affair This Week, I think the writers deliberately avoided neat resolutions, but it came at the cost of emotional clarity. The blog post didn’t offer the kind of self-awareness or remorse that might have helped the audience reconcile with her character.

I don’t think the scene was meant to be a “FU” to the audience, but I get why it felt that way. It lacked the remorse that this level of betrayal deserves.

Thanks for your reply. I agree that forgiveness shouldn't be automatic or unearned, and I don’t think we were given a clean or comfortable resolution. One reason I found Hyun Woo’s arc more understandable is that I felt it aligned very closely with the emotional stages of grief, which I explored in another post. His pain felt authentic, and we watched him wrestle with it over time. That made his eventual decision to forgive feel like a conscious, difficult choice, not something passive or delusional. That is one reason I liked that the reconciliation occurred after their divorce.

For me, Soo Yeon was actually the harder character to understand. I personally found her emotionally closed off and hard to read. She didn’t express much, and she didn’t fight for the marriage in any visible way. That distance made it harder to empathize with her, even if I could see she was hurting and overwhelmed. On a second viewing, I started to pick up on smaller things, such as the theme song and how she continued preparing Hyun Woo’s meals and helping around his house after their divorce. These gestures felt different once she was no longer expected to do them. I interpreted them as her quiet way of showing love, perhaps her "love language." It still doesn’t excuse her behavior, but it gave me a window into what she might have felt but couldn’t say.

I also think it matters that Hyun Woo didn’t go back to her right away. They divorced, and he had a potential romantic partner in the next-door neighbor, who on the surface was available and seemed very compatible. This created the narrative that his decision to return to Soo Yeon didn’t come from desperation or fear of being alone. It felt like a genuine choice to rebuild something broken. That doesn’t mean it was the right choice for everyone, but it makes his forgiveness feel earned through his own emotional journey.

In the end, I didn’t come away from this drama justifying cheating. What stayed with me was the emotional question it asked: Can a relationship survive betrayal, and what does true forgiveness really look like? I’ll be honest, my initial reaction to the ending was not unlike yours, and I rewatched it because I didn’t feel like the ending made sense. While rewatching, I paid closer attention and began to understand the relationship better. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me.

The great thing about drama is that everyone watching will have their own reactions to the story. In a story dealing with infidelity, it cuts deep for many people. The show didn’t hand us easy answers, and I think that’s what made it linger in my mind long after I watched it.

I understand where you’re coming from. You’re right that the blog post didn’t have a clear “I was so wrong, I hurt the people I love” type of reflection, and that was frustrating. I think part of the discomfort this show creates is exactly that. It gives us a character who isn’t easy to sympathize with or understand, and it doesn’t offer a clean redemption arc.

It’s been a while since I watched, but my takeaway wasn’t that she stayed because she realized her husband loved her or because she had some great moral epiphany. I think she stayed because being caught made her realize the affair wasn’t real. It was fragile and one-sided. That was her wake-up call. It doesn’t make her actions okay, and it doesn’t undo the damage. But through the journey, she also remembered why she loved Hyun Woo, something she had forgotten.

I always felt that her character was very underwritten. Surprisingly, the story wasn’t really about her, and the writer made her a difficult character to understand. She was someone who seemed unable to share her needs or engage in conflict, so she suffered alone, not drawing on support from those around her. In the process, she lost herself. This does not excuse her behavior, but my goal was to try to understand her.

I personally found the song Mistake to be a window into her thoughts and remorse. It expressed emotions the character herself seemed unable to put into words. If she had communicated more, many of her issues could have been handled in a more constructive way. But sometimes people make bad decisions, even when they know it is wrong, and they are unable to explain why they did it. I can’t defend her, but I did try to understand her. In the drama, as in life, people make choices that we cannot fully grasp.

At the end of the drama, they felt that they loved each other and were better together. But they had to accept that forgetting what happened was not possible and that trying to ignore it only caused more pain. Only by reaching a place of forgiveness was it possible to move forward. Not everyone would make the same decision, and that’s okay. But for Hyun Woo, forgiveness was the healthier path. Moving forward could have meant separating or staying together, and they chose to stay together.

And yes, if the genders were reversed, people would likely respond differently. That is a fair point. I mostly avoid cheating dramas because I hate seeing that level of betrayal and pain. I didn’t walk away from this show justifying cheating. I walked away thinking about what forgiveness looks like, and whether people can come back from something that painful. For me, it made me reflect on forgiveness, grief, and healing.

It’s been a while since I watched the show, so I may be a bit rusty, but I wanted to respond since you’ve posted a few comments. I’ve thought quite a lot about Soo Yeon’s character. The first time I watched the series, I was angry with her and didn’t understand why or how Hyun Woo could even think about reconciling. That frustration is what made me go back and rewatch it. I still don’t excuse her actions, but on second viewing, I started to see how emotionally shut down and insecure she had become. Her isolation and stress were often self-inflicted, and I think she had lost touch with what she truly valued.

As for the blog post, what stood out to me is that she said she was grateful she got caught. I believe what she meant was that being caught forced her to confront the reality of the affair, that it was one-sided and empty. She realized that if she hadn’t been caught, she might have continued the relationship, mistaking it for something meaningful when it wasn’t. That moment was her emotional wake-up call. It was not about being glad she cheated, but rather that the truth forced her to stop lying to herself.

I also agree that Hyun Woo’s forgiveness came far too quickly. But I don’t think the drama was trying to challenge our expectations about punishment or justice. I believe it was more about healing and forgiveness. I’ve discussed this in terms of the emotional journey that Hyun Woo goes through, which follows something like the stages of grief. His forgiveness doesn’t erase the betrayal or make it right, and I’m still not sure it was the right decision. But I do think that for Hyun Woo, rebuilding the family, especially for Joon Soo’s sake, felt more important than staying angry. He also knew he still loved Soo Yeon, and that was where his sense of happiness and completeness came from.

That doesn’t mean we as viewers have to agree with their choices. The drama leaves a lot unresolved and forces us to sit with the discomfort. For me, the discomfort I felt made me think about the story in a much deeper way than I normally do

I believe that Hyun Woo’s mother is a thought-provoking characters in the drama. Her actions, while seemingly contradictory at times, reflect her life experiences and conservative values, particularly her belief in preserving the family for the sake of the children. This recurring theme in her interactions deeply informs her perspective on Soo Yeon’s affair and its broader implications.

When Hyun Woo’s mother initially misunderstood the situation and assumed her son was the cheater, her reaction stemmed from her personal history with infidelity and her instinct to protect Soo Yeon. Having endured betrayal in her own marriage, she likely developed a heightened sensitivity to signs of marital discord. Her assumption that Hyun Woo was the cheater reflects her lived experience with her husband’s infidelity and her bias toward seeing men as the more likely perpetrators. This context explains her initial defense of Soo Yeon.

However, once Soo Yeon confessed to being the cheater, Hyun Woo’s mother did display a remarkable level of compassion. While this might seem illogical to some, her response aligns with her broader values and her recognition of Soo Yeon as more than just a wife—she saw her as a devoted mother to Joon Soo. In one poignant moment, she recalls seeing Soo Yeon running home from work with bruised toes, remarking that Soo Yeon’s late mother would have been heartbroken to witness her struggles. This acknowledgment of Soo Yeon’s sacrifices reflects the deep respect she had for her as a mother, even if she was disappointed in her actions as a wife.

Hyun Woo’s mother’s refusal to let Soo Yeon pour her drink in this same scene becomes a subtle yet powerful moment. This act serves as a symbolic admonishment, a way of showing that while she might empathize with Soo Yeon’s struggles, she cannot condone her actions. Her refusal demonstrates her disappointment and sends a clear message that accountability is necessary. This duality—compassion coupled with a refusal to excuse the affair—underscores the complexity of her character.

I also found her reflections on marriage and its struggles particularly insightful. She speaks candidly about how, over time, marriage can become stale and hard work, and how receiving attention from someone new can feel flattering and even exciting. However, she emphasizes that as a mother, one must not be swayed by fleeting emotions, as there are greater responsibilities to uphold. This subtle call-out to Soo Yeon for her reckless and immature behavior showcases her ability to empathize with Soo Yeon’s vulnerabilities while firmly holding her accountable for not prioritizing her duties as a mother over personal temptations.

Hyun Woo’s mother’s statement, “A woman could be a cheater,” is not an acceptance of infidelity but rather a recognition of human fallibility. Her words reflect her understanding that no one is immune to mistakes, regardless of their gender. This perspective, shaped by her own experiences, allows her to see Soo Yeon as a flawed but potentially redeemable person. She also recognizes the importance of healing and forgiveness for the sake of Joon Soo, firmly believing that he should not suffer for his parents’ mistakes.

Ultimately, Hyun Woo’s mother represents the traditional belief that families should strive to stay together, especially when children are involved. While she does not excuse Soo Yeon’s behavior, she acknowledges the complexity of human relationships and the need to prioritize the family’s well-being. This portrayal adds depth to the drama, highlighting generational perspectives on marriage, forgiveness, and family dynamics. Her character is also an important reminder of how the pain from infidelity ripples outward, affecting not only the couple but also those around them.

I believe that if Joon Soo were to learn about the affair in the future, it would likely provoke deep resentment toward his mother, especially if his parents had not reconciled after her infidelity. While he may not fully grasp the complexities of adult relationships, he would undoubtedly understand the concept of betrayal. Discovering that his family broke apart due to his mother’s actions could leave a lasting emotional scar. For a child who once experienced a happy home life, this knowledge might overshadow the love and sacrifices Soo Yeon made for him. His response would largely depend on how Soo Yeon addresses the situation—whether she takes accountability for her actions or continues to avoid such difficult conversations, as she often did throughout the series. Without genuine acknowledgment and accountability, it is hard to imagine Joon Soo maintaining a close relationship with his mother as he matures.

Hyun Woo, as portrayed in the drama, would likely shoulder much of the blame, even if undeserved, in an attempt to shield Soo Yeon. His consistent tendency to absorb guilt could complicate Joon Soo’s understanding of the family’s breakdown, potentially skewing his perspective on the affair. I don't believe that Hyun Woo would ever seek custody of the child because he would be concerned over the impact it would have on Soo Yeon. At this point in Joon Soo's life he is unlikely to fully understand the reasons for the breakup and why is father is no longer living with them.

However, as Joon Soo grows older and gains more context, he might begin to resent Soo Yeon, particularly if he learns that one of the reasons she cited for the affair was exhaustion from her parenting efforts. This reasoning might feel especially unjust to him if he realizes that much of her stress stemmed not from his needs, but from her insecurities and feelings of inadequacy.

Soo Yeon’s exhaustion, while real, was the result of her own choices. Her efforts to fit into the moms’ group, though framed as being for Joon Soo’s benefit, were more reflective of her fear of judgment and low self-esteem. Her worry that Joon Soo might be perceived as a loner or outcast led her to overcompensate, engaging in social activities that often prioritized external validation over genuinely understanding her son’s introverted personality. Instead of creating meaningful family connections or fostering an environment where Joon Soo could thrive authentically, she focused on appeasing the moms’ group, believing that their acceptance would somehow translate into success for her son. This misguided approach created unnecessary stress and strained the family relationships.

Hyun Woo’s criticisms of Soo Yeon’s parenting, though harsh, contained elements of truth. His observation that she prioritized appearing as a “supermom” over meeting Joon Soo’s actual needs was a valid critique, even if delivered insensitively. While Soo Yeon undoubtedly loved Joon Soo and wanted the best for him, her actions often prioritized appearances over substance, causing tension within the family. For Joon Soo to understand the situation would require Soo Yeon to take full responsibility for her actions and be transparent about her struggles. This would need to be done in a way that was sensitive to the age and maturity of the child. Without this openness, their relationship risks being defined by unresolved anger and resentment. Given the circumstances, it’s difficult to envision a scenario in which Joon Soo doesn’t harbor some degree of resentment toward his mother for the family’s problems.

In my opinion, Sun Woo’s actions in the drama reveal a character who is opportunistic and self-serving. His declaration of love during the confrontation in the hotel room, in hindsight, feels hollow and manipulative. It seemed more like a defensive strategy to save face than an authentic expression of his feelings for Soo Yeon. His subsequent behavior—abandoning Soo Yeon in the hotel room after receiving a phone call, ghosting her after Hyun Woo confronted him, and later removing her from the project—further illustrates how little he truly cared for her beyond the superficial gratification she provided.

This lack of genuine concern becomes even more evident during their final office meeting, where Sun Woo makes little effort to address their personal connection. Instead, he reduces their interaction to a professional matter, focusing on the project’s best interest while erasing any acknowledgment of the emotional fallout. His comment about Hyun Woo being "a good person" subtly shifts blame onto Soo Yeon, and could be interpreted as suggesting that she betrayed someone undeserving of it. This moment highlights Sun Woo's ability to deflect responsibility and manipulate the situation to preserve his image, both personally and professionally.

Sun Woo’s lunch with the new project lead further cements his lack of remorse and callousness. While the series does not explicitly depict him as a habitual cheater, this behavior raises red flags. Taking the new lead out to lunch so soon after being caught in an affair demonstrates not only a lack of discretion but also indifference to how his actions might be perceived by his wife, colleagues, and even Soo Yeon. This choice underscores his selfishness, as he seems focused solely on moving on without any regard for the emotional wreckage he left behind.

Soo Yeon’s lack of visible anger toward Sun Woo adds another layer of frustration. While her internal struggle is hinted at through the OST, where the lyrics say that she didn’t love the affair partner, the drama largely misses an opportunity to dig deeper into her emotional reaction to being discarded by someone she believed she loved. It would have been good to see her process her feelings of betrayal by Sun Woo alongside her attempts to reconcile with Hyun Woo. Her efforts to protect Sun Woo’s family, while neglecting the damage she caused to her own, further emphasize her emotional detachment and lack of accountability.

There is a brief moment of reflection from Soo Yeon when Joon-Soo mentions how Hyun Woo told him it was their job to protect Mom. In that moment, she appears to contrast Hyun Woo’s enduring care for her with how Sun Woo quickly abandoned her at the hotel when they were caught. This subtle parallel highlights the stark difference between the two men in her life and perhaps prompts her to reflect on the emptiness of her affair.

Ultimately, Sun Woo is portrayed as someone who was never truly invested in Soo Yeon. His actions—both during and after the affair—make it clear that his primary concern was protecting himself, leaving Soo Yeon to bear the fallout alone. The lack of emotional depth in their relationship underscores the superficiality of their connection and raises questions about Soo Yeon’s decision-making and her understanding of what she truly valued. This dynamic not only reflects poorly on Sun Woo but also adds complexity to Soo Yeon’s inability to recognize the futility of the affair before it was too late.

Thank you for your question and for sharing your thoughts about the drama. I agree that one of the most frustrating aspects of Soo Yeon’s character is her reluctance to fully own her actions and seek forgiveness in a way that aligns with viewers’ expectations. While I have limited knowledge of Korean culture beyond what I’ve seen in dramas, My Mister comes to mind as a comparison. In that series, the wife makes a kneeling apology, a gesture that reflected her deep sorrow and shame. Whether kneeling is culturally necessary, Soo Yeon’s failure to make a heartfelt, visible plea for forgiveness—or any meaningful gesture—leaves her repeated "I am sorry" feeling superficial. To me it lacked the emotional depth needed for both Hyun Woo and viewers to believe she truly grasped the gravity of her actions.

In my opinion, this lack of a sincere apology reflects a fundamental flaw in Soo Yeon’s character—her emotional detachment and inability to communicate openly. Throughout the series, she struggles to articulate her feelings, not just to Hyun Woo but to herself. Instead of addressing the pain she caused and fostering mutual understanding, she retreats into avoidance, leaving Hyun Woo to shoulder most of the emotional burden. While this avoidance likely stems from deep shame and guilt, it also undermines her ability to rebuild trust. Her failure to seek help, whether through counseling or meaningful self-reflection, further compounded this issue and made her arc feel incomplete.

Soo Yeon’s inability to show sincere remorse or visible growth is likely why her redemption feels unconvincing to many viewers. While the OST and her chat room comments near the end show some of her internal struggles, these glimpses are insufficient to portray meaningful progress or genuine reconciliation. A deeper exploration of her journey—through explicit acts of remorse, acknowledgment of her flaws, or even seeking professional help—would have added much-needed weight to her character arc. Without these, her “I’m sorry” feels inadequate given the depth of the betrayal, leaving me questioning whether Hyun Woo’s forgiveness was fully justified. On my second watch, I did come to understand Soo Yeon more and found additional layers to her story, but she remains one of the more frustrating elements of the narrative, in my opinion.

Thank you! I honestly think I spent too much time trying to understand the characters. Like you, my initial reaction to the show was complicated by the infidelity storyline. Cheating is such a deeply personal betrayal that I found it hard to watch at first, and, honestly, I was reluctant to dive in. I watched My Mister last spring and added this to my playlist because I enjoy Lee Sun Kyun’s acting, but the topic kept me away from watching it until a few weeks ago.

To be honest, I usually watch Kdramas for their uplifting nature, not to find myself reflecting on the plot and the characters’ choices for days afterward. Once I started watching, I was really put off by Soo Yeon’s actions, and it took me a while to get past that initial reaction and start thinking more deeply about what the story was trying to say. I’m sure others have had totally different reactions, depending on their perspectives.

At first, my reaction was similar to yours—I felt frustrated with Hyun Woo’s decision to forgive Soo Yeon. It didn’t feel satisfying, and I kept asking myself why he would even consider staying. But as I thought more about the story, it began to resonate with me on a personal level. I wanted to understand the deeper layers of the narrative and see what I might have missed in my initial viewing. I started reading comments on Viki and Dramabeans, hoping to find perspectives that matched my feelings, but most discussions focused on surface-level judgments of the characters. That’s when I decided to rewatch it and began noticing aspects of the story I had missed before, which led me to reevaluate my initial opinions and gain a different perspective on each character’s journey.

Understanding Soo Yeon was probably the hardest part for me. Compared to Yoon Hee, the wife in My Mister, her betrayal felt less dramatic—she never set out to hurt her husband as directly as Yoon Hee did. But Yoon Hee had a clearer redemption arc, especially in how she showed overt remorse and supported both Dong Hoon and Ji Ahn when it counted. This series takes a different approach with Soo Yeon; her remorse is more subtle, and her guilt remains largely hidden. For me, the song “Mistake” became essential to understanding her inner struggle. I began noticing how only certain lyrics were used at key moments rather than the whole song, which seemed to mirror the complexity of her unspoken feelings.

The selective use of lyrics during emotionally charged scenes highlighted specific aspects of her inner conflict that she couldn’t express out loud. For example, when she comes home after Hyun Woo sees her with Sun Woo in the car, she appears cool and unaffected, but the song’s lyrics—“people think I’m honest, but that’s not me now”—reveal the conflict she hides beneath the surface. It’s as if the lyrics act as pieces of her subconscious, offering glimpses into her remorse, guilt, and struggle for self-awareness in a way she isn’t able to verbalize. This use of the soundtrack added an extra layer of meaning, making the song feel like an essential part of the storytelling.

Considering Hyun Woo’s journey through the stages of grief also helped me appreciate the show’s depth. His actions aligned so closely with these stages, showing how betrayal isn’t something you can simply “move past”; it’s a layered, ongoing process. I thought about a friend of mine who’s been divorced for almost 15 years. Even though their breakup wasn’t due to infidelity, both he and his ex still harbor unresolved anger toward each other. It made me realize that unresolved feelings can persist indefinitely if not addressed, and it gave me a new appreciation for Hyun Woo’s choice to forgive.

I honestly think the writer and director captured the complexity of betrayal in a way that shows how painful, messy, and emotionally demanding forgiveness can be. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts—I enjoyed reflecting on and sharing my perspective of the show with you. I may have totally missed the mark, but the journey made the series more enjoyable for me.

Thank you for your response and for sharing your perspective! I understand why Soo Yeon’s actions and the way Hyun Woo handled things would feel frustrating. The weight he carried was enormous, and I was frustrated that he took on more blame than was fair. In my view, the responsibility for the affair rests solely with Soo Yeon; while there were things that Hyun Woo could have done better as her husband, she bears responsibility for not sharing her struggles. I’ve read comments on Dramabeans and Viki that were really critical of Hyun Woo, and I was left wondering if we had watched the same series.

Although he may not have been a perfect husband, I think he was doing the best he could while dealing with his own challenges. That he didn’t see or notice Soo Yeon’s struggles is not unusual—when you're close to something, you often lack the perspective that an outside observer would have. I also think that, as the primary wage earner, he likely felt pressure to work extra hours, which seems common in many dramas I’ve watched.

In the scene at the professor’s funeral, we gain insight into their relationship dynamic when Soo Yeon says she fell in love with Hyun Woo’s thoughtfulness and deep thinking, and she relied on him to guide her in life. His loyalty and willingness to forgive and forget, even after a deep betrayal, ultimately set him up for even more pain, especially since Soo Yeon didn’t take immediate responsibility in a way that reflected her accountability.

For me, the series resonated because it highlighted how complex forgiveness can be, especially when it isn’t just about excusing the past but about personal healing. Hyun Woo’s journey was less about absolving Soo Yeon and more about freeing himself from resentment, even if that meant doing most of the emotional work alone. The idea that he could "forget" proved impossible. However, the decision to forgive and reconcile was a powerful choice for him to let go of his anger—not necessarily because she deserved it, but because he needed to for his own healing and happiness.

Hyun Woo’s journey through the 5 stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—added depth to his healing process. From initial denial, where he tries to convince himself that Soo Yeon and Sun Woo were “just playing with fire,” to the anger and frustration that followed, each stage allowed him to confront his pain in a real way. His final acceptance comes when he realizes he has the courage to let go of the past, accepting that he can't change what happened but can choose to move forward. This arc shows how grief over betrayal is multifaceted and doesn’t simply “end” with forgiveness; it involves self-reflection and growth. Hyun Woo recognized at his core that he still loved Soo Yeon, and following that love became his path forward. Was it entirely logical? Maybe not, but sometimes “the heart wants what it wants.”

Soo Yeon’s behavior was indeed frustrating—her outward lack of remorse, her tendency to evade responsibility, and her apparent emotional weakness made it difficult to root for her. But I think that partly explains why her character felt real. People dealing with depression or low self-worth may struggle to make healthy choices. The series showed how her personality flaws and inability to communicate drove her to decisions that compounded her pain. The song “Mistake,” which often played during her emotional scenes, gives us a glimpse into the regret and guilt she struggles to express. It’s almost as if the song is her subconscious voice, revealing remorse that was hard to verbalize. As the story progressed, Soo Yeon realized she deeply loved Hyun Woo, even though her actions had led her to feel unworthy of him. Although she lost her way, their journey allowed them to reconnect.

I agree that it could have been satisfying to see Soo Yeon take a clearer step toward redemption, but I appreciate how the series kept things a bit more ambiguous, reflecting how difficult and messy real relationships can be. I see their reconciliation not as a “happily ever after” but as a choice by both characters to face the future with new eyes, accepting that they can’t erase the past but can try to rebuild with a deeper understanding.

Thanks again for your thoughts—it’s great to hear different takes on the program.

I finished watching this series on Friday night, and for me, it’s one of the best I’ve seen in a while. The subject matter made me uncomfortable, and I still struggle to understand Seo Yeon’s motivations. At the end of the day, I believe she was depressed and, because of her personality, incapable of seeking help. I’ve seen a lot of criticism on discussion sites about how her husband, Hyun Woo, treated her after finding out about the affair. Of course, he was angry—his reaction was real, especially given Seo Yeon’s inability to communicate with him. I saw a lot of truth in how people respond to these kinds of situations.

Frankly, I think Hyun Woo is a saint for everything he went through and for his willingness to better understand her and learn how he could have done more. In my opinion, he took on far too much responsibility for her infidelity. Yes, she was exhausted and losing her sense of self, but having an affair was not a healthy way to deal with it. In fact, her problems only worsened after the affair was exposed. But it’s true that depressed people often make poor choices that end up exacerbating their issues.

That aside, I did enjoy the series and gave it a 9/10. I even wrote a review, which is only the second time I’ve felt compelled to do so for a Kdrama. I found this series to be very meaningful, though it’s not for everyone. I normally hate dramas about cheating and had originally planned to watch this right after finishing My Mister, but I felt uncomfortable about the subject matter. Even now, it still makes me uncomfortable, but it also gave me a lot to think about, and in some ways, I could relate to the struggles being experienced by the characters.

Unlike some people here I do believe reconciliation after infidelity is possible. It may not be easy, and will take a commitment. Good people can make errors in judgment. After watching this I google the rates of infidelity in marriags, in America it is reported to be between 20 -40 %. Not all of these people are divorcing but finding ways to work through the pain when it is discovered.

Some basic questions that I believe need to be considered prior to reconciliation.

1. Do I love my partner?

Both individuals must assess if they still feel love and care for one another despite the hurt and betrayal.

2. For the cheater: Have I developed healthy coping mechanisms to manage stress and emotions?

The cheater must ensure they can deal with overwhelming feelings in a healthier way rather than seeking validation or escape outside the relationship.

3. For the victim: Can I forgive my partner, or will the betrayal always stand between us?

The betrayed partner needs to determine if true forgiveness is possible and whether they can move forward without holding onto the pain.

4. Are we better together or apart?

Both individuals must consider if the relationship is worth saving or if they would be happier and healthier on their own.

5. Am I happier with my partner?

Each person needs to reflect on their overall happiness within the relationship and whether it brings more fulfillment than pain.

6. Have we communicated honestly and openly about the issues that led to the affair?

Open communication is key for rebuilding trust and understanding the root causes of the betrayal

7. Can we trust each other again?

Trust is foundational to any relationship, and both partners need to evaluate whether trust can be rebuilt.

8. Are we willing to put in the work to rebuild our relationship?

Both partners must be committed to doing the emotional labor necessary to heal the relationship and prevent future issues.

9. Do we need professional help to navigate the healing process?

Considering counseling or therapy could be important in resolving deeper emotional wounds and improving communication.

I believe that some of these questions were not adequately answered, but I like an happy ending for characters that I thought were fundamentally good, were not really dysfunctional as a family, and loved each other.

The Internet Chat Group

The final group represents us, and in reading the comments for the series the same thoughts expressed by some of the internet chat group members in the series are still being expressed by comments and reviews that I have seen here.

The internet chat group serves as a unique narrative device in My Wife is Having an Affair This Week, offering both comic relief and profound moments of reflection. It adds a layer of modern commentary about how people seek support from online communities, particularly when they are struggling with deeply personal issues like infidelity. The chat group acts as a representation of the audience’s diverse reactions to Hyun Woo and Seo Yeon’s decisions, reflecting a wide range of perspectives.

Hyun Woo began posting to the chat room after learning about his wife’s planned hotel meeting with her lover. He was lost and searching for advice, turning to the anonymity of the chat group for help. The anonymous voices in the chat group offer diverse perspectives—some empathetic, others harsh—providing Hyun Woo with validation and new viewpoints. The discussions help him emotionally process the betrayal and give him the strength to confront Seo Yeon about their future.

When first discovering the chat room, Seo Yeon was outraged by Hyun Woo’s posts, as one of her biggest flaws was her need to be perceived as perfect. The criticism in the chat room was difficult for her to handle, and her about the discussions led her to deny Hyun Woo access to Joon Soo. Once again using the child in their battle. This refusal to let him see their child culminated in Joon Soo sneaking away, resulting in the motorcycle accident that sent him to the hospital. While at the hospital, Hyun Woo blamed Seo Yeon for the accident and took Joon Soo home with him. It was oblivious that Seo Yeon was also feeling responsible for what had happened and didn't resist.

Jun Yeong, who had been helping search for Joon Soo and was aware of the tension caused by the chat room, advised Seo Yeon to reread Hyun Woo’s posts and "read between the lines." He encouraged her to see beyond the criticism and understand the emotions behind Hyun Woo’s words. Seo Yeon took this advice to heart, and this proved to be a catalyst for her starting to understand Hyun Woo’s feelings and emotions, marking a key moment in their reconciliation.

One of the most interesting dynamics in the chat group is that Seo Yeon, unbeknownst to Hyun Woo, eventually participates as well. By responding anonymously to Hyun Woo’s posts, she is able to engage with his pain in a way she cannot in real life. This adds a layer of complexity to their relationship, as Seo Yeon uses the group to indirectly confront the consequences of her actions. The online space becomes a place where she can process her guilt and shame, even though she struggles to do so face-to-face with her husband.

The chat group becomes a vital narrative tool, highlighting how external opinions—both supportive and critical—can influence someone’s personal growth. It also underscores how, in the digital age, individuals often turn to strangers for emotional support and validation, especially when they cannot express those emotions directly to their loved ones. The group plays an essential role in the emotional growth of both Seo Yeon and Hyun Woo, providing a space for reflection, accountability, and, eventually, understanding

Jun Yeong and Bo Yeong

Jun Yeong and Bo Yeong’s relationship adds a quieter, yet important, emotional layer to the overall narrative. Their story stands out because it centers on two people trying to recover from heartbreak and reluctantly finding love again after significant personal losses. Both characters are dealing with deep emotional wounds from their pasts, but unlike the tensions of the other couples, their relationship grows gradually, grounded in healing and mutual support.

This was my favorite story because of the subtle way it portrayed two individuals learning to trust again after being hurt. Bo Yeong, despite her independent and confident demeanor, carries deep scars from past relationships. She is cautious about opening her heart to Jun Yeong, and her reluctance stems from the fear of being hurt again. As the series progresses, we see her slowly let her guard down, allowing herself to trust and love again.

Jun Yeong, similarly, is dealing with his own heartbreak and shame. His wife left him just two days after their honeymoon, but he has kept it a secret and pretended to be still married. His relationship with Bo Yeong becomes one of emotional recovery, and he gradually opens up to her. Initially, the love seems one-sided, but he remains persistent in expressing his feelings. Unlike the explosive relationships of the other couples, their love is built on gentle teasing and small gestures of affection. They take their time, allowing their bond to grow organically, making their relationship feel genuine and relatable.

The two characters are also close friends and colleagues of Hyun Woo. They are loyal to him and support him as he navigates the difficulties in his marriage. Interestingly, both Jun Yeong and Bo Yeong provide emotional support to Seo Yeon as well, acting as a bridge between her and Hyun Woo. Their roles help facilitate understanding and healing for the main couple, showing how friendships can impact reconciliation.

Their playful relationship brings much-needed levity to an otherwise emotionally heavy storyline. The lighter, more comical moments between Jun Yeong and Bo Yeong offer relief from the intense drama, highlighting the healing power of a fun, affectionate bond. Their story could easily stand alone as a charming rom-com, adding a refreshing contrast to the other, more turbulent relationships in the series.

Yoon Gi and Ar Ra

Yoon Gi’s character is often a source of comic relief throughout My Wife is Having an Affair This Week, with his repeated, almost farcical infidelities. His wife, Ar Ra, begins by trying to control the situation, willing to tolerate his cheating as long as it remains hidden from her. Ar Ra’s initial approach is an attempt to preserve her marriage. However, the emotional toll of repressing her pain and pretending that everything is fine becomes too much to bear. Eventually, Ar Ra chooses not to forgive Yoon Gi anymore, realizing that while she could tolerate his infidelity couldn't live with the ongoing betrayal. This leads her to fall out of love with him, ultimately seeking revenge against him and his affair partners.

Yoon Gi wasn’t necessarily a terrible person, and he did prove to be a friend to Hyun Woo, offering comic relief and sometimes heartfelt advice. However, he was a terrible husband and, in many ways, provided a striking contrast to the upstanding character of Hyun Woo. His continuous cheating and dishonesty defined his marriage, and he lacked the emotional integrity that Hyun Woo consistently displayed.

Ar Ra’s revenge plot was a turning point in Yoon Gi’s life, leading to his complete downfall. being financially ruined and disgraced in his career, Yoon Gi’s life spiraled out of control. In a final dramatic moment, Ar Ra confronts Yoon Gi who trespasses on her property, and she throws a brick at him, hitting him in the head. The severity of the injury leaves it ambiguous (at least to me) whether she killed him, but her actions mark the ultimate consequence of his betrayals and her emotional collapse.

Ar Ra’s arc serves as an important mirror to the emotional journey of Hyun Woo and Seo Yeon. Hyun Woo listened to Ar Ra, and this helped him decide that divorce was necessary. He was showing signs of PTSD and having flashbacks of Seo Yeon and her lover in an intimate embrace when he tried to hug her. This painful moment highlighted that you can’t will yourself to forget hurtful memories for someone else’s happiness. At first, Hyun Woo was tempted to pretend that he could forget Seo Yeon’s affair to restore their marriage, but in talking to Ar Ra, he realized that repressing emotional wounds will only deepen the pain over time.

For Seo Yeon, her shame surrounding the affair plays a significant role in her reluctance to fully face Hyun Woo. She desires for him to forget because she struggles to confront the emotional consequences of her actions. Ar Ra’s journey highlights the dangers of unresolved emotional pain and demonstrates that true healing requires acknowledging the hurt, rather than trying to erase it.

Ultimately, Ar Ra’s decision to stand up for herself and reclaim her dignity provides an important lesson for Hyun Woo. While forgiveness may be possible, forgetting is not, and any attempt to rebuild their marriage must be rooted in honesty, emotional healing, and mutual understanding. Ar Ra’s story adds depth to the exploration of infidelity, forgiveness, and the personal costs of trying to preserve a marriage without addressing the underlying emotional wounds. Having endured so much pain, Ar Ra chose not to forgive Yoon Gi and instead began plotting his downfall, signifying her breaking point and refusal to tolerate further betrayal.

Sun Woo and His Wife

Soo Yeon met Sun Woo while working as a project lead with his company. From the start, Sun Woo seems to take advantage of Soo Yeon’s emotional vulnerability. Instead of offering genuine support, he recognized her emotional fragility and exploited it, gradually drawing her into an affair. While this does not absolve Soo Yeon, who craved his attention and willingly pursued the relationship, Sun Woo’s actions were calculated. Though Soo Yeon stated that "she missed him and asked to meet him first," it may seem like she initiated the affair. However, it is evident that Sun Woo had already laid the groundwork, making Soo Yeon believe the relationship was serious and meaningful when it was built on deceit.

Over six months, Sun Woo gave Soo Yeon emotional attention without initiating physical intimacy, suggesting a deliberate strategy of building a deep emotional bond first. Sun Woo's decision to prolong the emotional affair without physical intimacy indicates calculated manipulation, as he built a strong connection that eventually led to intimacy. This patient approach allowed Soo Yeon to lower her defenses, making her more vulnerable to his advances.

It is possible that Sun Woo was truthful when he stated they had been physically intimate only once. He worked to create an emotional bond that, to Soo Yeon, felt like love and affection. When Soo Yeon became frustrated with Hyun Woo, particularly when he missed picking up their son Joon Soo from daycare due to work, she likely internalized her resentment rather than confronting him. While most couples might have argued, Soo Yeon internalized her frustration. This emotional strain likely pushed her to become intimate with Sun Woo two days before their hotel stay, just a day before her wedding anniversary.

Her failure to acknowledge her anniversary distressed Hyun Woo, especially since he knew about her planned hotel meeting. I don’t believe she forgot her anniversary; rather, she no longer cared enough to put in the effort she once had. She had an intimate meeting with her lover the night before her anniversary and was planning a second meeting the day after. When she returned home after meeting Sun Woo, she showed no signs of guilt and went straight to bed, acting as if nothing had happened. The next morning, she acted as if everything was normal and went to work.

As her emotional investment in her marriage dwindled, her attention shifted toward Sun Woo, leaving Hyun Woo increasingly neglected. Soo Yeon's emotional attachment to Sun Woo seemed to grow, making her reluctance to divorce questionable. If Sun Woo had been willing to commit, she may have considered leaving her husband.

After the affair was discovered, it’s unclear if Sun Woo initially intended to end the relationship. He contacted Soo Yeon once to discuss the project but never mentioned the events at the hotel. They continued their professional interactions as though nothing had changed, indicating that Soo Yeon had no intention of cutting ties. Sun Woo’s decision to maintain professional interaction with Soo Yeon suggests he wasn’t ready to completely sever ties. However, this changed after Hyun Woo confronted him at work, prompting Sun Woo to request her removal from the project, signaling his desire to end their personal and professional relationship.

Their final meeting at Sun Woo's office clarified the emotional disconnect between them. Soo Yeon was shocked to learn that Sun Woo had requested her removal from the project without informing her. During the meeting, Sun Woo explained that it was better for the company and that it was time to end all communication. She appeared dejected from the start, and her mood worsened as the conversation continued. Sun Woo mentioned meeting Hyun Woo, describing him as a "good guy." This comment likely unsettled Soo Yeon, who had risked everything for Sun Woo, only to hear him subtly praise her husband while ending their relationship.

Sun Woo’s awkward smile and comment about Hyun Woo being a "good guy" likely confirmed that the affair meant far less to him than it did to Soo Yeon. This moment must have been difficult for Soo Yeon, as it implied that Sun Woo no longer had deep feelings for her. She likely hoped for a more positive outcome during her visit to his office, though the visit was unnecessary since the project changes had already been approved. Her dejected response, "I didn’t plan far enough ahead," revealed her recognition of how short-sighted her actions had been, both personally and professionally. Soo Yeon likely hoped for some sign of affection or deeper feelings from Sun Woo, but his indifference made her realize the affair was far more superficial than she had believed.

While Soo Yeon’s life was falling apart, Sun Woo’s home life remained relatively intact. His wife, though wronged, appeared mentally stronger and more prepared to deal with the situation. She forgave him, and they decided to work on their marriage. Meanwhile, as Soo Yeon faced the consequences of her actions, her marriage with Hyun Woo began to fall apart. The way Sun Woo’s wife handled the affair suggests this may not have been his first instance of infidelity, and her calm, almost matter-of-fact approach to saving their marriage suggests she had dealt with similar issues before.

Another important moment came when Sun Woo’s wife confronted Soo Yeon. By this time, Sun Woo had not only ended the affair but also asked that Soo Yeon be removed from the project. When his wife met Soo Yeon, she reinforced the latter’s feelings of inadequacy, telling her that Sun Woo had said that she wasn’t worth the trouble and that Sun Woo would never leave her for someone beneath them. During this meeting, Sun Woo’s wife also expressed her frustration with Soo Yeon’s apology, saying, "You always say I’m sorry, but what are you sorry for?" Sun Woo’s wife told Soo Yeon, "You hurt our family." This scene shows that both Hyun Woo and Sun Woo’s wife saw Soo Yeon’s apology as insincere, more focused on her own shame than on the harm she had caused. Sun Woo’s wife never accepted Soo Yeon’s apologies and expressed only contempt, as Soo Yeon failed to fully grasp the extent of the harm she had caused. This confrontation definitively shattered any lingering fantasies Soo Yeon might have harbored about a future with Sun Woo, forcing her to confront the reality that he had used her. The shallow nature of the affair, combined with Sun Woo’s wife’s rejection of her apology, intensified Soo Yeon’s guilt and sense of inadequacy.

In the end, Sun Woo’s marriage survived, while Soo Yeon was left to face her guilt, shame, and the damage to her personal and professional life. Sun Woo’s wife’s mental fortitude and willingness to forgive stand in sharp contrast to Soo Yeon’s ongoing emotional collapse. Whether this was Sun Woo’s first affair or not, the ease with which his wife moved past it suggests she was better equipped to handle the situation, leaving Soo Yeon to deal with the emotional consequences of their affair on her own.

However, Sun Woo and his wife appear as a couple who, while attempting to move past the affair, may struggle without support. We don’t get any further insights into their lives after this.

The Ripple Effect of Seo Yeon’s Actions on Her Family and Hyun Woo’s Role as Protector

I continue to think about this series and the impact of Seo Yeon’s actions, and I wanted to add some additional thoughts on how they affected her family and how Hyun Woo’s role as her protector played into the dynamics of their relationship.

My Wife is Having an Affair This Week doesn’t just explore the immediate impact of Seo Yeon’s affair on her marriage; it also delves into the broader consequences her choices had on their family dynamics. While much of the emotional weight is borne by Hyun Woo, the effects of her betrayal reach their child, her in-laws, and her father, leaving a trail of emotional turmoil. Hyun Woo, despite being the wronged party, continues to shoulder responsibility for the fallout, which may highlight a deeper dynamic in their relationship that stunted Seo Yeon’s emotional growth.

The Impact on the Child
Seo Yeon’s emotional struggles and detachment created instability for their son, Joon Soo, who found himself caught in the crossfire of his parents’ conflict. The scene where both parents physically pull him by the arms is not only painful but also symbolic of the emotional battle being waged between them, with Joon Soo as collateral damage. Later, when Hyun Woo tells him that he won’t be living with them anymore, he places a heavy burden on the child by asking him to take care of his mother, an emotional responsibility that no child should be asked to bear.

At the time of the motorcycle accident, Seo Yeon was clearly struggling to keep up at work. Joon Soo, in his conversation with Hyun Woo, mentions that she was always on the computer and had recently experienced a nosebleed, likely due to her mounting stress. When Joon Soo sneaks away after being scolded by his mother for damaging her work project, it leads to the accident. While Hyun Woo directly blames Seo Yeon for what happened, her behavior indicates that she, too, was blaming herself, further exacerbating her internal crisis.

Despite their eventual reconciliation, the long-term impact of this tumultuous period on Joon Soo’s mental well-being is likely significant. His belief in the stability of his family has been shattered, and his view of his mother may have shifted as her fragility becomes clear. Even though they repair their relationship as a family, Joon Soo may grow up harboring resentment toward his mother for the family’s breakdown. The aftermath also forced Joon Soo to grow up faster, symbolized by the moment when he no longer wants his mom to help with his bath, showing that he is being pushed into emotional independence. While Seo Yeon undoubtedly loves her son, her emotional distance during this period raises questions about the strength of their bond. In contrast, Hyun Woo, though emotionally drained by the situation and even finding the moms' group exhausting, was generally better able to connect with people, including Joon Soo.

Much of Seo Yeon’s stress stemmed from trying to conform to the expectations of being the "perfect mother" and fitting in with the moms' group, a group in which she never truly felt accepted. Her more introverted nature likely contributed to her feeling disconnected. This contributed to the distance between her and her family. Hyun Woo, despite also finding the moms' group exhausting, on the whole seemed better able to connect with people and had a stronger friend network. Interestingly, it is Hyun Woo’s friends, Jun Young and Bo Young, who extend support to Seo Yeon at key points in the story. Jun Young reassures her at the hospital, while Bo Young becomes a friend and guide, helping both Seo Yeon and Hyun Woo develop a better understanding of their relationship.

The Impact on the Mother In-Law
Seo Yeon had a close relationship with her mother-in-law, and their bond was tested when Seo Yeon revealed her affair. Rather than reacting with anger, the mother-in-law showed understanding, as it was implied that she had struggled with infidelity in her own marriage. She recognized the love between Seo Yeon and Hyun Woo but was most concerned about the impact of the affair on their child. The mother-in-law advised Seo Yeon, stating that while women can make mistakes, as a mother, she had a responsibility to do better for her child. She made it clear that she would never accept a divorce between Seo Yeon and Hyun Woo. Given her own experiences, she likely knew that relationships can move past mistakes, but she emphasized the importance of keeping the family together despite the betrayal.

Seo Yeon's Father’s Role
Seo Yeon’s father plays a relatively minor role in the narrative, but the scene in which Hyun Woo and Seo Yeon speak to him about their divorce is particularly significant. Rather than assigning blame to Seo Yeon for the affair, Hyun Woo takes full responsibility, telling his father-in-law that he failed to make her happy. This moment encapsulates Hyun Woo’s protector role—a role he takes so seriously that he’s willing to shield Seo Yeon from her own accountability, even to her own father. His willingness to take the blame despite being the wronged party reflects a recurring theme in the series: Hyun Woo continually protects Seo Yeon, even when it’s clear that she’s in the wrong.

Hyun Woo as Protector and Its Impact on Seo Yeon

Hyun Woo’s role as a protector both supported and hindered Seo Yeon’s emotional growth. Seo Yeon struggled with stress, depression, and low self-esteem, making her a complex character prone to poor decisions. Hyun Woo’s steady, cautious nature likely compelled him to protect her when she was unable to confront her own problems.

This protectiveness became a double-edged sword. While his support kept the family together, it allowed Seo Yeon to avoid taking responsibility, reinforcing her emotional dependence on him. Though Hyun Woo wasn’t perfect and struggled with the emotional toll, he displayed the traits that had initially drawn Seo Yeon to him: steadiness, reliability, and patience.

Seo Yeon’s vulnerabilities, shaped by societal pressures and possible untreated depression, left her emotionally fragile. Hyun Woo’s shielding, though well-intentioned, may have hindered her emotional growth and prevented her from seeking professional help. His protectiveness was both necessary for sustaining their relationship and detrimental to Seo Yeon’s independence, potentially setting up future struggles.

At the professor’s funeral, Seo Yeon acknowledged how difficult decision-making was for her, often taking much longer than others. This self-reflection highlighted her reliance on Hyun Woo to guide their future. Lacking confidence after the affair, she trusted his careful judgment, and when he chose to reconcile, she smiled, knowing it was the right decision.

Their love, visible to everyone around them, was hardest for them to see. Hyun Woo, despite his anger, never lost his love for Seo Yeon. His stubbornness, emphasized throughout the series, helped him hold on to the marriage despite her betrayal, ultimately leading to their reconciliation.

This could have been an ordinary story of a relationship falling apart, but it was the twist at the end that made it interesting for me. Although I could argue if one or both cheated, I don’t think that it really matters in the end, although I personally feel that there was emotional cheating, with the new relationships starting after their breakup.

The movie was about the challenges of long-distance relationships and the importance of balancing work and personal lives. The male lead was emotionally distant, and did a poor job of making his girlfriend feel important and loved, and this ultimately caused the breakup. He consistently ignored her and her needs. I don’t totally blame him; he was exhausted, falling asleep on his way to work and on his way home in the evening. He took a new position to further his career, and one would assume, to make a better life for himself and his girlfriend. In the end, it didn’t work out, and he lost his partner and ruined their relationship.

This is a very typical story, and I feel the way the director obscured the timeline of the new relationships made it interesting. I liked how the director upended my expectations when he had the male lead rushing to the airport with a ring to stop his girlfriend from leaving, only to learn that she had a new boyfriend. For the audience, we finally realize that there are two men with the same name, and we were watching two relationships – one ending and a new one beginning. Then the movie replayed key events in chronological order.

Although there were some weaknesses in the movie, overall, I liked it and would recommend it. Not a traditional happy ending, but who knows maybe they have both found their happiness with new partners.

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