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A narcissistic ML and an imperfect FL = Japan's 'Tell Me Lies'
It's really sad that mature dramas / movies don't get the love they deserve on MDL. How this is rated as a 6.8 while mediocre romcoms are given a 8+ is beyond me. This was an absolutely fantastic psychological 'romance' drama that blew me away. One of the best from 2026 so far.
This reminded me of 'Tell Me Lies' on Hulu. If you liked the toxic nature of the leads' relationship in that, you'll love this. Of course, this one is toned down, less darker, and told from the FL's perspective, but in essence, the leads' relationship is similar.
It starts off in a cliched shoujo manga set-up with bad boy ML seducing nice FL, them meeting again after 10 years, and then 2ML stepping in to evoke jealousy. But boy, does this flip the whole thing around bit by bit making the viewer uncomfortable. Too many people who downvoted this were clearly misled into thinking this is going to be a romance drama with a bad boy ML and a indecisive FL, or dropped it early thinking it's some superficial drama given that the leads have sex all the time, are attractive, and clearly have chemistry. If you stick with it, this pays off.
The leads - Great acting, great chemistry, great writing all around.
The ML is narcissistic, avoidant, and uses his charisma to pull the FL in constantly through sex and little acts of validation, like stroking her head, giving her a smile, cuddling her, expressing his desire for her. I love that his perspective remains untold, because the writer wants us to view this from a victim's (FL's) perspective. Giving his perspective would have ran the risk of letting the viewer empathize, fall into his charm, or downplay his behaviour. This is where the writer excels and does a better job than 'Tell Me Lies' which does begin to drag midway through the 2nd season. (Of course, I am not claiming this to be an adaptation but I wouldn't be surprised if TEL did give the writer some inspiration).
The FL cheats with her 1st boyfriend with the ML. This automatically reduces her moralistic lens, and makes her unlikeable. It makes her far from ideal, and thus, making it difficult to see her as a victim, and easier to label her as a red flag. But she is a victim nonetheless, and victims do not need to be perfect. They do not need to be virginal. They do not need to be white. They can be grey. They can be flawed people making choices that are not moral, and not conventional.
She settles in the sexual relationship with the ML even though she wants more, because he fulfills her sexually, validates her desire to be wanted/seen, while pulling her down at the same time. This rollercoaster gives her both the highs and lows, making separation even harder. Anybody who's been in such a toxic relationship will know that this is not about self-respect. This is about being sucked into someone else's world, such that your identity and being begins to revolve around them. That's why even when the 2ML attempts to draw her out, and she feels a sense of ease with him, she can't get the ML out of her head. She desires him, craves his attention, and wants him. The 2ML's clinginess doesn't make it any easier for her either, pushing her into self-blame even when she made no promises to him and attempted to make her stance very clear. Despite that, she does attempt to break free - one by hanging out with the 2ML but the ML swoops in right after, using the 'stick' and stamps his control over her. She tries again by stating a desire to move on, and calling his selfishness out. He swoops in again, to not only control but this time give her a carrot - let's try dating, I like you. To tie her down. She is swayed into thinking that finally, they might have a proper relationship. But this time, she attempts to be smarter, and attempts an honest conversation on this only to be shot down. Note the way he passively draws the line by getting up in the middle of a serious conversation, by blocking out any kind of feelings, by not making eye contact. He verbally affirms his desire to have a relationship, but his non-verbals scream otherwise. The FL finds herself in a fix, because he draws that line, and yet doesn't fully let her go. . He shows his desire, but shows his disinterest and lack of care, and once again, she is resigned to settle, because that is the only kind of relationship they can ever have. In the end, their relationship goes on. As she steps into the elevator and the doors close, we know what will happen next. And it's a sad reality for those who date narcissist and avoidant individuals, sometimes they don't even realise until they escape, that they were victims, and were being damaged bit by bit. In the end, I felt sorry for the FL because it is pretty clear that she will never be able to break free from this guy because he will never let her go. And until she can't escape, she won't be able to heal.
Overall, I loved it and found it real. But it's an uncomfortable watch with flawed people who don't make the best decisions, and it's clearly for a mature audience. I highly highly recommend it to people who love this genre.
This reminded me of 'Tell Me Lies' on Hulu. If you liked the toxic nature of the leads' relationship in that, you'll love this. Of course, this one is toned down, less darker, and told from the FL's perspective, but in essence, the leads' relationship is similar.
It starts off in a cliched shoujo manga set-up with bad boy ML seducing nice FL, them meeting again after 10 years, and then 2ML stepping in to evoke jealousy. But boy, does this flip the whole thing around bit by bit making the viewer uncomfortable. Too many people who downvoted this were clearly misled into thinking this is going to be a romance drama with a bad boy ML and a indecisive FL, or dropped it early thinking it's some superficial drama given that the leads have sex all the time, are attractive, and clearly have chemistry. If you stick with it, this pays off.
The leads - Great acting, great chemistry, great writing all around.
The ML is narcissistic, avoidant, and uses his charisma to pull the FL in constantly through sex and little acts of validation, like stroking her head, giving her a smile, cuddling her, expressing his desire for her. I love that his perspective remains untold, because the writer wants us to view this from a victim's (FL's) perspective. Giving his perspective would have ran the risk of letting the viewer empathize, fall into his charm, or downplay his behaviour. This is where the writer excels and does a better job than 'Tell Me Lies' which does begin to drag midway through the 2nd season. (Of course, I am not claiming this to be an adaptation but I wouldn't be surprised if TEL did give the writer some inspiration).
The FL cheats with her 1st boyfriend with the ML. This automatically reduces her moralistic lens, and makes her unlikeable. It makes her far from ideal, and thus, making it difficult to see her as a victim, and easier to label her as a red flag. But she is a victim nonetheless, and victims do not need to be perfect. They do not need to be virginal. They do not need to be white. They can be grey. They can be flawed people making choices that are not moral, and not conventional.
She settles in the sexual relationship with the ML even though she wants more, because he fulfills her sexually, validates her desire to be wanted/seen, while pulling her down at the same time. This rollercoaster gives her both the highs and lows, making separation even harder. Anybody who's been in such a toxic relationship will know that this is not about self-respect. This is about being sucked into someone else's world, such that your identity and being begins to revolve around them. That's why even when the 2ML attempts to draw her out, and she feels a sense of ease with him, she can't get the ML out of her head. She desires him, craves his attention, and wants him. The 2ML's clinginess doesn't make it any easier for her either, pushing her into self-blame even when she made no promises to him and attempted to make her stance very clear. Despite that, she does attempt to break free - one by hanging out with the 2ML but the ML swoops in right after, using the 'stick' and stamps his control over her. She tries again by stating a desire to move on, and calling his selfishness out. He swoops in again, to not only control but this time give her a carrot - let's try dating, I like you. To tie her down. She is swayed into thinking that finally, they might have a proper relationship. But this time, she attempts to be smarter, and attempts an honest conversation on this only to be shot down. Note the way he passively draws the line by getting up in the middle of a serious conversation, by blocking out any kind of feelings, by not making eye contact. He verbally affirms his desire to have a relationship, but his non-verbals scream otherwise. The FL finds herself in a fix, because he draws that line, and yet doesn't fully let her go. . He shows his desire, but shows his disinterest and lack of care, and once again, she is resigned to settle, because that is the only kind of relationship they can ever have. In the end, their relationship goes on. As she steps into the elevator and the doors close, we know what will happen next. And it's a sad reality for those who date narcissist and avoidant individuals, sometimes they don't even realise until they escape, that they were victims, and were being damaged bit by bit. In the end, I felt sorry for the FL because it is pretty clear that she will never be able to break free from this guy because he will never let her go. And until she can't escape, she won't be able to heal.
Overall, I loved it and found it real. But it's an uncomfortable watch with flawed people who don't make the best decisions, and it's clearly for a mature audience. I highly highly recommend it to people who love this genre.
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